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September 19th, 2010, 09:35 PM
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Hello girls Heres my info me and my husband were not trying not preventing and i got pregnant due on April 2011 i ended up having a m/s this August this broke my heart and my only hope was to get pregnant again as soon as possible. I was hoping i would get pregnant this month but AF showed today and i can't ttc this cycle because my sister is getting married in July 1, 2011 and she told me not to be due around that date so now i have to wait ttc until the next cycle. What sucks is that my husband had told everyone at church that i was pregnant and i havent told them that im not anymore cuz it hurts and they are still coming up to me saying congratiolations and i just stay quiet
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September 20th, 2010, 05:19 AM
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HUGS! I am so sorry for your loss. I hated after my loss having to explain to people that I was no longer pregnant. It sucks that you can't TTC this month but I hope next month you get your sticky BFP! Welcome to the board. These ladies here are AMAZING and I don't know where I would be without them all.
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September 20th, 2010, 05:29 AM
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Welcome to the boards. I am so sorry for your loss and that you can't try this cycle. I hope next cycle will be your sticky bfp. Perhaps a break is just what you need . Good luck.
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September 20th, 2010, 06:54 AM
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I'm so very sorry for your loss. It is really hard to tell people about a loss I hope that people stop coming up to you and asking you about it soon.

I hope that on your next cycle of trying you get your BFP!
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September 20th, 2010, 08:19 AM
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Sorry for your loss.. that happened to me kinda too. i came home from my counselor when i just found out i was pregnant and told all my roomates including thier friends that was over the house and after i lost the baby i would still see them around and they would ask how i was doing it REALLY sucked : ( hope u feel better hun [ hugs ]
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September 20th, 2010, 09:40 AM
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Hi and welcome to the board.. I am sorry to hear about your loss. I too was in the April 2011 DDC, and lost my baby Aug 13th.... I am sorry you can't ttc this month.. I am waiting myself and it is such torchure.. It is hard and upsetting everytime AF shows.. We are all here for you, and you can vent and talk to all of us anytime you need.. We all know what you are going through.. HUGS
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September 20th, 2010, 11:51 AM
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Yesterday a girl came up to me and rubbed my tummy and said oh how cute your already showing
I told my husband to tell everyone that i'm not pregnant anymore because i can't do it
Thanks girls for you support
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September 20th, 2010, 12:40 PM
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Welcome. I'm sorry you had to come here in the first place, but the ladies here are the best!

As for the showing comment? I probably would have burst into tears right on the spot. The pain is so raw at the beginning. I'm glad you found your way over here though, because these girls really help heal.
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September 21st, 2010, 04:43 AM
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I'm right there with you —*lost my April 2011 baby in early September. I want to shelter you from those people who keep bringing up your preg and I don't even know you! Hugs to you!
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September 21st, 2010, 06:17 AM
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Welcome and I am so sorry for your loss... I had my DF tell people about our loss, it was just too hard for me to do it. Feel free to vent away here, we understand what you are going through. Again, I am so sorry.
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