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September 21st, 2010, 08:56 AM
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Mega Super Mommy
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I have my first monthly draw today. I am super nervous. Anxiety is getting to me. I think that may be what is making me sick to stomach. I HATE having to go to my obgyn office to get it and seeing all the pregnant ladies, hearing the hb's, and seeing them with u/s pictures. I am sure some of them have probably had losses too, but it is just hard. I am so tired of getting my blood drawn. I am 7dpo today so I am expecting my bw to be negative. I do want it to be positive but not for a few days. If I have a positive hcg test at 7dpo, I can almost guarantee it will be another molar. I should have my results early in the morning. I took a hpt last night and it was a BFN so that is a good sign.
On another note, I have to go out to eat tonight for my sister's bday. She has a little girl that is about 6 months old. I haven't been around her a whole lot. It is so hard to see her. Anxiety level always increases when I know they will be there. I feel like a bad person, but I can't help it.
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Gabriel Matthew- Induced @15w4d on 12/16/09 (Partial Molar Pregnancy). Took 6 1/2 months reach negative after 3 methotrexate injections, D&C 2/19/10, & 6 rounds of chemo Act-d.
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September 21st, 2010, 09:09 AM
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Praying for a negative now and a positive in a few days  Hope tonight goes well with your sister hugs!
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September 21st, 2010, 09:36 AM
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Platinum Supermommy
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i'll be praying for you (((Hugs)))
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 Forever Missing My Baby Girl Ella Grace Born Sleeping October 14, 2009
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September 21st, 2010, 01:31 PM
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Mega Super Mommy
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You're in my thoughts! I hope everything turns out perfectly for you 
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September 21st, 2010, 03:35 PM
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Mega Super Mommy
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Well, now I won't get my blood work back til tomorrow. I have insurance now and with my card it should pay 100%. Now my doctor office will send it to their lab and then their lab sends it to another lab. Won't get my result til Thursday or Friday!
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Jacob Matthew born 5/30/11 at 5:27 pm 8 lbs 9 oz and 19.5 in long
http://www.fertilityfriend.com/home/1db5ff
Mommy loves you!
Thank you Shortcake for my siggy!
Thank you Shortcake for my siggy!
Gabriel Matthew- Induced @15w4d on 12/16/09 (Partial Molar Pregnancy). Took 6 1/2 months reach negative after 3 methotrexate injections, D&C 2/19/10, & 6 rounds of chemo Act-d.
url=http://www.myfitnesspal.com/weight-loss-ticker] [/url]
Created by MyFitnessPal.com - Free Calorie Counter
"Now I lay you down to sleep,
I pray the Lord your soul to keep;
Within his arms he'll hold you tight,
My Heavenly Angel, My Guiding Light."
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September 21st, 2010, 03:40 PM
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Mega Super Mommy
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Ugh, Lisa! I hope you get it first thing Thursday morning!
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September 21st, 2010, 03:57 PM
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Tobi
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Oh no! Waiting is horrible!! I hope things are easier with your neice tonight, I know she is missing out on getting to know a really fantastic lady. You!
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September 21st, 2010, 08:47 PM
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Lovin life and family
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I hope it comes back negative like you want. Have a nice time with your sister. Wish you didn't have to wait so long we are all in suspense .
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September 21st, 2010, 09:14 PM
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that sucks that you have to wait, but I bet it's nice not having to pay for it I hope things went well for you today with your sister (((hugs)))
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Forever Missing My Baby Girl Ella Grace Born Sleeping October 14, 2009
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September 24th, 2010, 08:43 AM
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Got my bw results back and the nurse said < 2. It had to be sent to a different lab. Last few times it has been <1. So not sure if it is increasing or maybe the new lab doesn't give an exact number that low. Wish I had it sent to the same lab that is has been going to so I would know for sure. I called them back to find out for sure so I am waiting to hear back from them.
Dinner the other night went ok. I didn't hold her. It is so hard to even look at her in person. I can look at pictures of her and that doesn't bother me as much. DH did hold her which made it hurt even worse. Watching my dad hold her and smile is so hard too. Now I have to see her again on Saturday for my dad's surprise birthday party.
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Jacob Matthew born 5/30/11 at 5:27 pm 8 lbs 9 oz and 19.5 in long
http://www.fertilityfriend.com/home/1db5ff
Mommy loves you!
Thank you Shortcake for my siggy!
Thank you Shortcake for my siggy!
Gabriel Matthew- Induced @15w4d on 12/16/09 (Partial Molar Pregnancy). Took 6 1/2 months reach negative after 3 methotrexate injections, D&C 2/19/10, & 6 rounds of chemo Act-d.
url=http://www.myfitnesspal.com/weight-loss-ticker] [/url]
Created by MyFitnessPal.com - Free Calorie Counter
"Now I lay you down to sleep,
I pray the Lord your soul to keep;
Within his arms he'll hold you tight,
My Heavenly Angel, My Guiding Light."
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September 24th, 2010, 01:43 PM
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Mega Super Mommy
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Lisa, I'm glad it was negative, and I hope they just have a different lower limit 
I'm glad you made it through a visit with the baby- and I know you will make it through the birthday party 
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