[BeccaM]

Is tomorrow

I have been a little MIA just because I knew this week was not going to be good week. I always thought I would be pregnant again before my EDD and here we are and Im still not pregnant. I dont know if Im more sad or more angry.

[ohnicole]

I am so sorry, Becca

It is so hard to get through EDDs, especially when you haven't gotten a sticky BFP yet. I am here if you need to talk. Huge hugs

[tobi4]

Becca, I know, I really really know. The hurting never ends, you know, instead of having a baby and celebrating its birthday every year, instead we get many dates to make us cringe. I never think of the days my children were conceived, but I know exactly when this last one was. I now have that day to fear, the day of loss to fear, the edd to fear. It takes so much from us! Im sorry the day is near. Know I will be thinking of you tomorrow. I wish things were different hun.

[markswife]

I'm so sorry. Mine was Saturday so I know how much this day sucks. I wish there was something I could do to make it hurt less. Just know that we are thinking of you.

[Glitz]

[MeganMomof5]

(((Hugs))) I understand...I have an EDD coming up, on top of many many more dates that i'm really not looking forward to...I too hoped I would be pregnant by my EDD, and I hoped i would have a baby by Ella's birthday, but that isn't going to happen It sucks that this happens to people.

[.:Stace:.]

It's not fair ... so not fair. I understand how you are feeling ... We passed Patrick's EDD last week Please know that I'm thinking of you!

[Micksbabe]

[sarha81]

Soooo sorry :-(
HUGS

[Pitridge]

I'm so sorry.............

[Celena]

Becca honey I'm so wishing you the most love envelouping your heart to help take the sharp edge of the pain away. This day is an incrediably sad one honey, it's your day to embrace the grief of your little one... altho I think we grieve everyday to varying degrees that goes without saying.

I'm with you, thought I'd have a successful pregnancy growing inside by or before EDD's... sometimes I think those expectations let us down 10 millions times more on top of our EDD when they come.

Here's a poem I came across and wanted to share with you honey....

A Birth Healing Blessing

Blessed sister, beautiful one
with broken wings.
Your journey is a difficult one
that no mother should have to endure.
Your path is steep, rocky and slippery
and your tender heart is in need of gentle healing.

Breathe deeply and know that you are loved.
You are not alone,
though at times, you will feel like a
desolate island of grief
untouchable
distant.
Close your eyes.
Seek the wisdom of women who have walked this well-worn path before you,
before,
and before,
and before you yourself were born.
These beautiful ones
with eyes like yours
have shared your pain, and
weathered the storms of loss.

You are not alone (breathe in)
You will go on (breathe out)
Your wings will mend (breathe in)
You are loved (breathe out)

~ Mary Burgess

Author, Mending Invisible Wings, a healing journal for mothers following the loss of their baby

[missy123]

Originally Posted by BeccaM

Is tomorrow

I have been a little MIA just because I knew this week was not going to be good week. I always thought I would be pregnant again before my EDD and here we are and Im still not pregnant. I dont know if Im more sad or more angry.

I felt the exact same way last year honey.... It hurts so much and it just makes you feel like you will never get pregnant if you haven't already. I am so sorry. ((Hugs))

It will happen, just not soon enough. Remember the doctors said I would never get pregnant and I did? It will happen for you too honey.

[BeccaM]

I just wanted to thank everyone for the kind words. I havent posted much but I have been lurking. You ladies are wonderful and dont know if I would have made it this far without you!