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September 21st, 2010, 07:56 PM
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Platinum Supermommy
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Join Date: Mar 2008
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Sorry, I just need to whine...I just got back from my kids open house at school...Ever since I lost Ella, and my other 2 baby's, socially it's not the same...People don't talk to me or anything...So if that wasn't hard enough...I saw one of our old neighbors, who was due in September (I don't know them, I just saw them around and at the school all last year), and she just had her baby, and it was a girl  ..I actually almost started to cry right then and there...Then I saw my other neighbors, she walked right by us when we were getting out of the car (again I don't talk to them), big and pregnant ...She's got to be due soon...Plus my neighbor that lives right next door (we live in a duplex) is going to pop any day....I seriously feel like i'm going to have a break down any day...Not to mention my DH is working out town, so I had to go by myself...I hate leaving my house...I also saw a couple other pregnant woman too 
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 Forever Missing My Baby Girl Ella Grace Born Sleeping October 14, 2009
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September 21st, 2010, 08:00 PM
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Tobi
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Join Date: Feb 2010
Location: Ontario, Canada
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Megan Im so sorry hun. Ive been meaning to ask you, Did you ever go to that support group again?
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September 21st, 2010, 08:18 PM
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Platinum Supermommy
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Yes i've gone 3 times...The first time I was the only one, the 2nd time a man came, and this last time, the same man and his wife/girlfriend came...They are doing a walk this next sunday (the 26th) and they said hopefully after that they will have a bigger group, and will probably make it a closed group (meaning the same people every week)...I really like going, and it's something I'm going to keep going to...The other couple lost their baby at 19 weeks, so I can relate a lot to them.
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Forever Missing My Baby Girl Ella Grace Born Sleeping October 14, 2009
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September 21st, 2010, 08:27 PM
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Tobi
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Thats great Megan, Im glad people are coming out. I think JM is wonderful but having the face to face contact with people who have been there as well would be a relief I think. I hope your support group can help bring you some peace.
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September 21st, 2010, 08:27 PM
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Mega Super Mommy
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September 21st, 2010, 08:29 PM
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Platinum Supermommy
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I agree that JM is great...I don't know how i'd make it through everything without everyone here and at the stillbirth board...But it is a lot different to talk to people face to face, and to actually see in person, other people that have gone through the same thing you have...I recomend it to anyone that has thought about joining a group...It took me almost a year of thinking about it, to actually join, and i'm sorry that I waited so long.
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Forever Missing My Baby Girl Ella Grace Born Sleeping October 14, 2009
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September 21st, 2010, 09:32 PM
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Lovin life and family
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Join Date: May 2009
Location: Washington
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Megan I am sorry you are going through all of this and being surrounded by pregnant ladies is so hard. I am glad the support group is helping. I tried once to look for one but it was a bust. I guess the hospitals have them but I don't do well with large groups of people I don't know so I just stay here. You are so brave for going to it. I hope DH returns soon.
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September 22nd, 2010, 06:18 AM
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Mega Super Mommy
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Megan, I'm sorry it seems like pregnant people are everywhere you turn Sometimes we just can't handle that. I'm so glad that the support group is working out for you, though 
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September 22nd, 2010, 06:45 AM
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First-time Mommy to Jake
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Location: NY
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I notice them too and I think, "Oh great, another one." I am so sorry you are feeling sad. Take comfort in the fact that all of us here feel like we don't want to go out and run into that round belly. HUGS!
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September 22nd, 2010, 08:32 AM
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Platinum Supermommy
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Join Date: Nov 2007
Location: Sunny California
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Megan, I'm sorry..............  I hate to say this but sometime when it rains it pours, making harder for people to be happy......
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September 22nd, 2010, 08:35 AM
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Platinum Supermommy
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I had a good cry last night...I think it was building up...I'm sure the next 3 weeks it's going to happen a lot...I don't even want to leave my house anymore
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September 22nd, 2010, 03:49 PM
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