Joining you...(losses ment)

MommyMir · #1 September 23rd, 2010, 11:17 AM

(I also posted this in the TTC 1yr+ boards)

Hi, girls. I used to be a fairly active member of justmommies in the TTC and AIP boards, but took some time away. I am back now, and decided to join in with you ladies (and the TTC 1yr+). I am Miranda, married to DH for 4 years. I have a DD who will be 7 in October. DH and I had an ectopic pregnancy in Sept 2007. That was rough and I was scared after that to try again, but last year I decided I was ready to give it another shot.

DH and I have been TTC since July 2009. We had a chemical in Feb and ended up pregnant again in May (Feb 2011 DDC). However, we discovered at our 9 week appt that the pregnancy was a blighted ovum. I had to have a D&C at the end of July and just had my first period a couple of weeks ago.

Even though sometimes I feel like maybe we are not "supposed" to have another baby because something always seems to go wrong, I know that is not true. I am praying that the next time I see a BFP everything works out and we end up with a beautiful baby!! I admit, though, that the thought terrifies me just because I feel like there is so much to worry about...it seems we have had everything go wrong.

But I look forward to sharing this journey with you ladies and I hope that we all get our long awaited BFPs very soon!!!

ohnicole · #2 September 23rd, 2010, 11:47 AM

I am so sorry for your losses

Welcome to TTCAL- the ladies here are great, and we have all shared the same fears and worries that you are feeling. I hope that your TTC journey with us is a short one and you get your sticky BFP soon

Pitridge · #3 September 23rd, 2010, 12:57 PM

Sorry for your losses

Welcome! I hope you stay here is short and sweet

Hope you get a BFP very soon. The ladies here are awesome.

tobi4 · #4 September 23rd, 2010, 04:21 PM

Im sorry for your losses hun. Hugs! I hope your stay is short and you get your sticky bfp quickly, good luck!

TTCin2010 · #5 September 23rd, 2010, 06:35 PM

So sorry for your loss. We were in the same DDC HUGS

MommyMir · #6 September 24th, 2010, 07:09 AM

Thanks ladies for your kind words and warm welcome. I am very sorry that all of us are here, but glad to have people to share my fears with who really understand. I look forward to getting to know all of you- and I really hope that we all get our sticky beans soon

ldovey83 · #7 September 24th, 2010, 07:20 AM

I was also in the same Feb 2011 DDC with you as well.. I left really early on.. I am sorry to hear about your losses.. The feelings you are feeling are very common for someone who is ttcal.. These ladies are great.. Always here when you just need to vent or you have questions.. HUGE hugs and best of luck to you. I hope your stay is short and sweet, and you get that sticky bean..