Hi! My name is Nichole. I have two kids and I am going through my first M/C right now. I went to the ER yesterday due to spotting and slight cramping. My beta was 58 and I was 21DPO. Nothing was found on U/S...completely empty.

I am bleeding very heavy now and cramping a lot!! I get another beta drawn tomorrow morning to see what that looks like but I know I am losing the baby.

We plan on trying again as soon as we can but I am still heartbroken and no one IRL understands my feels about this loss...they don't see it is as a loss.

[msshamis23]

I'm sorry for your loss.
*hugs*

It's definitely never easy, but you came to the right place. These ladies are fantastic, and really can help heal.

[missya0002]

sorry for your loss. its hard but remember u have 2 kids already and you will get your baby to hold soon. keep the faith. and remember we are all ladies who are going through or have been through this as well. so we are all here for you

[AmyLM]

Nichole, I am so sorry. This board is a huge comfort and the ladies here are so wonderful and supportive.

[shen7]

I'm so sorry for your loss... my first loss was at 6 weeks, around the same time as yours... it's true that no one understands that it is a real loss, in my case no one even knew about the pregnancy, and I didn't talk to anyone about it until months later... it's a crushing disappointment. Feel free to vent all you want here, it is a great board, so supportive and understanding.


And it's definitely great to try again as soon as possible! It's not for everyone, but when you gotta do it, you gotta do it... good luck and hope you get your sticky bean very soon!

[MamaRN]

Nichole again I am very sorry for your loss. The ladies here are wonderful, and they all know what you are going through.

((HUGS))

[ohnicole]

I am so so sorry for your loss It's hard enough to go through a miscarriage, but the lack of understanding from people in real life makes it even harder. The ladies here are so supportive.

[tobi4]

Welcome Nichole. Im so sorry you are going through this. Im positive you will recieve the concern and support from the ladies here on ttcal. You wont find a more amazing group of ladies anywhere!

[~LaurenNoel~]

We understand, and this board is full of amazing ladies. You know you can PM me if you ever want to vent. I'm here. Huge *hugs*. I hope your stay here is short.

[Micksbabe]

I am so sorry. Just remember it is a real loss and the ladies on this board understand that. I hope that you can heal and pray that you get your sticky bean soon I just had my miscarriage a month ago and it is still hard to think about, but the ladies here have been very supportive and I feel now that I will have my baby eventually.

[TTCin2010]

I am sorry for your loss HUGS

[sarha81]

It is a REAL loss and I'm so sorry for what you are going through. (((HUGS)))) This board is great for getting your feelings out and I come here when I feel like no one understands. We're here for you when you feel like no one else is.

[mommy jenn]

hey hun, its me from ff and the may boards... im joining you on this side too... this is my 5th mc now though.

i hope your ttc journey is short.

sorry for your loss and sorry you have to go through this. it is terribly unfair.