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September 25th, 2010, 10:50 PM
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Mega Super Mommy
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Join Date: Jan 2010
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I took two digi's tonight and they both said PREGNANT!!! Sent DH a pic of the test and his exact words or I guess most of them since I can't type the whole word out. "Shut the F*** up." He thought I was joking. I can't post a pic b/c my cord is missing.
Not really sure when to call the dr. I think I may wait until after AF is supposed to show. Then I can officially tell them I am late. Keeping my fingers crossed that I do not have another molar. I am sure I will get a lecture from my gynecologist oncologist when they find out.
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September 25th, 2010, 11:30 PM
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Platinum Supermommy
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Congratulations! Nice of you to finally tell us. Don't you know we are supposed to know as soon as you do? I would call the Dr. Mon That's one lecture worth having.
Sending lots of good sticky vibes your way.
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September 25th, 2010, 11:50 PM
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Veteran
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Join Date: Jul 2010
Location: Michigan
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This dust is no-molar-sticky-healthy bean-in the right place dust!
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September 26th, 2010, 04:23 AM
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Platinum Supermommy
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Congrats Lisa! I am so so happy for you  Now you really need a new siggy!!!
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September 26th, 2010, 05:06 AM
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Mega Super Mommy
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OH MY! Lisa....I am so so so happy for you! Congrats!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! And Congrats again!!!!!!!!
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September 26th, 2010, 05:26 AM
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Platinum Supermommy
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Congrats! I am so happy for you! I hope everything goes beautifully this time around!!
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September 26th, 2010, 07:41 AM
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Tobi
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omg Congrats Lisa!! I hope everything turns out fine with this little bean. My T&P are with you.
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September 26th, 2010, 08:10 AM
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Mega Super Mommy
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Katie- I will have you make a new siggy for me after I get my hcg checked or the first u/s.  I just worry about another molar pg. Hopefully my hcg will be just right so that will make things feel a little bit better. I am kind of worried b/c I already have been feeling nauseous. I know they won't be able to rule out molar at my first u/s unless it is complete molar.
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Jacob Matthew born 5/30/11 at 5:27 pm 8 lbs 9 oz and 19.5 in long
 http://www.fertilityfriend.com/home/1db5ff
Mommy loves you!
Thank you Shortcake for my siggy!
 Thank you Shortcake for my siggy!
Gabriel Matthew- Induced @15w4d on 12/16/09 (Partial Molar Pregnancy). Took 6 1/2 months reach negative after 3 methotrexate injections, D&C 2/19/10, & 6 rounds of chemo Act-d.
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"Now I lay you down to sleep,
I pray the Lord your soul to keep;
Within his arms he'll hold you tight,
My Heavenly Angel, My Guiding Light."
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September 26th, 2010, 08:11 AM
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Mega Super Mommy
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CONGRATS YAAYY i just got my bfp also!! we need to be buddies!! well we already are but u know what i mean lol get throught this together : )
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September 26th, 2010, 08:13 AM
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Mega Super Mommy
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Thanks ladies. I think I may go to urgent care on Monday. I was supposed to go back anyways b/c I went in last week b/c I thought I had a uti. That is the exact same way I felt last year when I was pg. She told me to come back Friday if it got worse and come in on Monday if it stayed the same. Of course now it feels more like AF cramps so I don't know. She said something about doing a pap and running bw. Maybe I will just have her do a pg test in the office. I told her there was a possibility last time I was there. Then I could go to my obgyn office and tell them I had a positive test at urgent care.
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Originally Posted by Fanias08
CONGRATS YAAYY i just got my bfp also!! we need to be buddies!! well we already are but u know what i mean lol get throught this together : )
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When is your edd? I haven't joined any of the other boards yet. Have you?
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Jacob Matthew born 5/30/11 at 5:27 pm 8 lbs 9 oz and 19.5 in long
 http://www.fertilityfriend.com/home/1db5ff
Mommy loves you!
Thank you Shortcake for my siggy!
 Thank you Shortcake for my siggy!
Gabriel Matthew- Induced @15w4d on 12/16/09 (Partial Molar Pregnancy). Took 6 1/2 months reach negative after 3 methotrexate injections, D&C 2/19/10, & 6 rounds of chemo Act-d.
url=http://www.myfitnesspal.com/weight-loss-ticker]  [/url]
Created by MyFitnessPal.com - Free Calorie Counter
"Now I lay you down to sleep,
I pray the Lord your soul to keep;
Within his arms he'll hold you tight,
My Heavenly Angel, My Guiding Light."
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September 26th, 2010, 08:15 AM
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Mega Super Mommy
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May 25th and i joined due dat club and been posting at PAL.. more actinv on the ddc tho.
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September 26th, 2010, 08:24 AM
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Mega Super Mommy
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I think my edd will be June 7th. Give or take a day.  I will probably head over to PAL after I get my first hcg.
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Jacob Matthew born 5/30/11 at 5:27 pm 8 lbs 9 oz and 19.5 in long
 http://www.fertilityfriend.com/home/1db5ff
Mommy loves you!
Thank you Shortcake for my siggy!
 Thank you Shortcake for my siggy!
Gabriel Matthew- Induced @15w4d on 12/16/09 (Partial Molar Pregnancy). Took 6 1/2 months reach negative after 3 methotrexate injections, D&C 2/19/10, & 6 rounds of chemo Act-d.
url=http://www.myfitnesspal.com/weight-loss-ticker]  [/url]
Created by MyFitnessPal.com - Free Calorie Counter
"Now I lay you down to sleep,
I pray the Lord your soul to keep;
Within his arms he'll hold you tight,
My Heavenly Angel, My Guiding Light."
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September 26th, 2010, 08:25 AM
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Mega Super Mommy
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Aww ok.. Sounds good
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September 26th, 2010, 08:31 AM
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Mega Super Mommy
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Lisa, I would say it's GOOD that you didn't see those second lines... it means that your HCG is most likely not shooting through the roof right away!... and since you feel like you did with your pg last year, that's also promising!!!! I am very hopeful for you that this will be your rainbow baby's BFP!!!!
I think your plan of going into urgent care is good. I understand being afraid of doctor's lectures. I was actually afraid of one myself (I was supposed to wait for 3 normal cycles after the ectopic - didn't even wait for 1!!) but I didn't get one! If you have a good OBGYN, they will know it's not their job to shame you, just treat you for whatever you are going through... either way, though, it will be good for your peace of mind to get into the system ASAP and get monitored... good luck and KUP!!!!!!
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September 26th, 2010, 08:39 AM
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Mega Super Mommy
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Quote:
Originally Posted by shen7
Lisa, I would say it's GOOD that you didn't see those second lines... it means that your HCG is most likely not shooting through the roof right away!... and since you feel like you did with your pg last year, that's also promising!!!! I am very hopeful for you that this will be your rainbow baby's BFP!!!!
I think your plan of going into urgent care is good. I understand being afraid of doctor's lectures. I was actually afraid of one myself (I was supposed to wait for 3 normal cycles after the ectopic - didn't even wait for 1!!) but I didn't get one! If you have a good OBGYN, they will know it's not their job to shame you, just treat you for whatever you are going through... either way, though, it will be good for your peace of mind to get into the system ASAP and get monitored... good luck and KUP!!!!!!

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Yeah- I remember last year it was faint, but the digi showed up right away. This time it took awhile or seemed like it took forever for it to show up on the digi. I am actually not as worried about telling my obgyn as I am for my gyn. oncologist. They insisted on me taking bcp. When I told them no, one dr. in there said you mean you would rather die if you get pg than take bcp. Then he was telling the other person in the room you need to put that in her chart that she would rather die. He was very harsh. I think he was the head of the dept. I had about 5 diff. people in my room so not sure exactly if they were all students/interns etc. My actual dr. came in after he left.
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Jacob Matthew born 5/30/11 at 5:27 pm 8 lbs 9 oz and 19.5 in long
 http://www.fertilityfriend.com/home/1db5ff
Mommy loves you!
Thank you Shortcake for my siggy!
 Thank you Shortcake for my siggy!
Gabriel Matthew- Induced @15w4d on 12/16/09 (Partial Molar Pregnancy). Took 6 1/2 months reach negative after 3 methotrexate injections, D&C 2/19/10, & 6 rounds of chemo Act-d.
url=http://www.myfitnesspal.com/weight-loss-ticker]  [/url]
Created by MyFitnessPal.com - Free Calorie Counter
"Now I lay you down to sleep,
I pray the Lord your soul to keep;
Within his arms he'll hold you tight,
My Heavenly Angel, My Guiding Light."
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September 26th, 2010, 09:03 AM
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Platinum Supermommy
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 Thanks Katie for the siggy!
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September 26th, 2010, 09:14 AM
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Don't dream it, BE IT!
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I was wondering about what your siggy meant last night when I was perusing the boards, but now I know I was right!
This is your first month trying again right?
CONGRATULATIONS!!!!!!!!!! *sticky dust, non molar dust!*
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September 26th, 2010, 09:18 AM
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Mom of 4
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Lurking!
Lisa I am so happy for you!!!! I've been following your story and you really have had a really rough time. It's about time you had some good news! CONGRATS on your BFP and wishing you a H&H 9 months. Sending you tons of sticky dust!!!!!!!!!!!
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September 26th, 2010, 09:24 AM
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Mega Super Mommy
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Quote:
Originally Posted by LisaG825
I am actually not as worried about telling my obgyn as I am for my gyn. oncologist. They insisted on me taking bcp. When I told them no, one dr. in there said you mean you would rather die if you get pg than take bcp. Then he was telling the other person in the room you need to put that in her chart that she would rather die. He was very harsh. I think he was the head of the dept. I had about 5 diff. people in my room so not sure exactly if they were all students/interns etc. My actual dr. came in after he left.
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I am HOPING that it was a student... that is SO INAPPROPRIATE... if it really is that dangerous, he should be able to rationally and calmly explain it to you so that you will understand... if he can't, and so resorts to threats and viciousness, it is because he's not in the right and he's just power-tripping!!!! I can only imagine that your actual doc would never treat you like that. So, I would be a bit apprehensive for the gyn. oncology visit too, but no matter what DON'T stand for any more such treatment!!!!! Honestly, the nerve.
Either way, though, don't be afraid to get the care you need. I'm going through an uncertain time w/ early pg as well so if the stress starts to get to you, please know that you can always PM me!  You'll be in my T&P, good luck!!!!!
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September 26th, 2010, 09:39 AM
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Platinum Supermommy
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