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October 1st, 2010, 06:58 AM
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Sorry, girls... I don't think from the responses that I did a very good job of explaining myself here... so I will just remove the post rather than continue the miscommunication
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October 1st, 2010, 08:02 AM
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Oh Nicole, I'm sorry......That's just wrong for so many reasons, there really should be a dislike button and a comment so you can say how inappropriate that was.
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October 1st, 2010, 08:07 AM
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*sigh* After cooling down for a minute, it's really nothing to be mad about... it's actually awesome that she is so excited to be a mom and appreciates her baby. And even for the ladies with losses, it so good to take a moment and be thankful for the living children you have.

I guess it's just a sucky spot to have lost a baby and have no living children... I would so love to be able to click like to that, and I just feel excluded... oh the joys of TTCAL
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October 1st, 2010, 08:52 AM
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Yeah, I don't think it was specifically something she did to spite you. Unfortunately loss makes us hypersensitive to things like that I think.

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October 1st, 2010, 08:55 AM
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Someone on my facebook page had that too...and it hurts. It made me think...what, so because I can't concieve now, I am no longer blessed by God? I hate how people assume those who have children are blessed by God...and those who can't are what? ******? We all know that is a complete load of bull-hockey.

I am so sorry you saw it and it made you hurt. I totally understand where that hurt comes from...it feels like a personal assault...


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October 1st, 2010, 10:46 AM
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I am sorry her comment hurt you but honestly I don't see anything wrong with it. ((Hugs)) Loss hurts and can blind everything out but our focus on pain. I am really sorry, it sucks.
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October 1st, 2010, 10:55 AM
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Thanks, girls.

Brittanie and Missy- thanks for the hugs. I know that there was nothing wrong with her posting it and that it had nothing to do with me. I was just mad at the situation and having that sort of smack me in the face with a blunt statement of exactly what I haven't been blessed with.

Patty and Ash- thanks for understanding that sometimes things just knock you upside the head and make you mad at life.

all of you girls.
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