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October 5th, 2010, 02:37 PM
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That I think you ladies are great...We had a troll on this board, and you all are so caring and so supportive that you supported her without thinking twice...It is a shame that someone would come here and lie about losing a pregnancy, and being pregnant...I'm sure no one here wishes the pain of losing a pregnancy on any one, and why would someone want to pretend? it's just sick... i'm so glad that the troll is gone, and we can go back to our wonderful supportive board
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October 5th, 2010, 02:51 PM
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Agreed Megan! It's so hard to believe that anyone would do something like that. I just think it's horrible. But I love you REAL ladies here!
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October 5th, 2010, 02:56 PM
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A person who lies about something like a loss, has major head issues IMO. I hope she gets the help she needs.
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October 5th, 2010, 03:17 PM
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I feel kind of dumb now. I wondered about the Troll but didn't say anything and kept posting to her.

I'm just glad everyone is so supportive here.
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October 5th, 2010, 03:38 PM
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I agree, everybody on this board is so supportive and wonderful. I really miss being an active member here. You ladies are so great.
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October 5th, 2010, 03:48 PM
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I cant say I was supportive of her at all. I tried to be but I felt so 'icky' when I read her posts. Last night in chat so many times I wanted to just sign off, but I was having great fun when she wasnt trying to dominate the conversation. Im so glad Celena was able to post and let everyone know what she is. Again, Celena ... thank you for picking up on it. And so quickly. HUGS to all you ladies. You have amazing faith in people and goodness in your hearts.
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October 5th, 2010, 04:00 PM
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I wasn't supportive of her either Tobi LOL...I don't think anyone is dumb for supporting her...I just think it just shows what a great board this is
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October 5th, 2010, 04:02 PM
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You have amazing faith in people and goodness in your hearts.
I hope this is true because I also have the word GULLIBLE written on my forehead
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October 5th, 2010, 04:14 PM
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I hope this is true because I also have the word GULLIBLE written on my forehead
No hun, no you dont. (I totally wanted to pm you in chat last night! lol)
All this tell me is that you are so sweet and honest that you never would expect someone to be so fake and manipulative. This says way more about you than it does her. Trust me.
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October 5th, 2010, 04:17 PM
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Thanks, Tobi... I'm not stressing on it, though. I think it just never occurred to me because I don't see what someone could possibly get out of doing that. Oh well, though, I would rather trust and be burned than not trust at all (aren't I so poetic? )
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October 5th, 2010, 04:29 PM
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Nicole, it dosent mean your gullible.. Just means your a kind hearted person that was there for someone that needed us or so pretended to need us.

Last night in chat it just didnt feel right and it. I even mentioned it to DH that something was just off about her and I couldnt figure out what it was.

I love all you ladies and want to be able to continue to trust everyone. Thank you Celena, Kary and Megan for not giving up and getting to the bottom of it all!
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October 5th, 2010, 04:52 PM
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I'm going to have to try to make it into chat one of these days lol ...it's not at a good time for me, by the time my kids go to bed chat is over.

I remember reading her post about leaving her husband how she was leaving this group...Then she stayed and I remember thinking "oh she'll end up pregnant too"...it was so predictable...Another thing was, her story changed when she joined the TTCAL group than her posts in some of the other groups she had posted in...Maybe she didn't think that you could go and see old posts here? lol
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October 5th, 2010, 05:50 PM
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I have always believed, if you haven't been taken advantage of, then you haven't given enough. It's hard to tell sometimes if ppl are who they say they are online. I didn't read most of her posts before, just the ones where she said she was pg. Kind of reminds me of that commercial with the fat guy sitting there typing to the other guy.
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October 5th, 2010, 05:57 PM
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Well I definitely thought she seemed real at first. I was totally taken in up through the leaving her husband bit. Then it just seemed like she was all drama and no substance, esp with the bfp, but also these crazy sounding stories about her past. I dunno. I agree with Rebecca that it is not bad to be "had" once in awhile by someone very sneaky. But I'm also glad OCD Megan was so suspicious and even found the original bfp pic!!! Most impressive
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October 5th, 2010, 06:07 PM
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I just looked back at her posts... man that was some pretty sick stuff if it was all made up why would ANYONE fake such things makes me sick to my stomach that you ladies had to endure her!!

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October 5th, 2010, 06:09 PM
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A troll? What did I miss???
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October 5th, 2010, 06:10 PM
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Am I dumb to not even know who this this?
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October 5th, 2010, 06:18 PM
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Megan I TOTALLY love that you stalked her this morning and caught what she was up to .... stealing a pic right off of JM? Not really the brightest, thats for sure! I mean really, she had the whole web to browse and find a bfp pic and she chooses JM?
Rebecca- that commercial, Perfect! You are so right!
Does anyone else feel injured? I feel like shes left a dirty feeling around. That yucko violated feeling.. Karma. One day karma will come upon her. I hope it does, and that right there ticks me off too, cause I hate thinking bad things upon someone. Stupid b!tch. (sorry ladies)
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October 5th, 2010, 06:20 PM
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ok, I figured it out now and am up to speed.

I have been a member of this board for 1 1/2 years and we have had less than 5 real trolls. The awesome girls that are here outweigh a few silly people.
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October 5th, 2010, 06:31 PM
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Ya I was googling her last night during chat.

Y'all are so genuine and sweet that I think we know a troll because they stick out like a sore thumb!!!
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