[sarha81]

**UPDATE***
I tested this morning and got a BFN. I used an early detection PT, so I'm pretty sure AF is going to show up soon. I just want it to come already. All those painful memories of a year of BFNs rushed back to me and I'm in a funk. I can't do this again —*I can't go thru another year of ttc and not getting anywhere.

I dunno why I thought the first try after the m/c would result in a BFP, but I did have hope. Last weekend, I tried to adopt a puppy, but DH said no. I love this doggy and for the first time, I felt happy/joyful, like I had something to look forward to, and to distract me from TTC. Today I realize I have no new puppy and no BFP. The feeling that I just want to sleep the weekend away is back in full force.


cyc 1 since natural m/c. obgyn said to expect my period in early oct. I had lots of stretchy cm last Thursday and dtd. We were supposed to wait one cycle, but obgyn told me 2 wks ago my blood tested 0 for hcg and body feels healthy. so we spent 1/2 cycle preventing and 1/2 cycle trying.
No period yet. very sore breasts. hungry. no cramps or bloat. didn't chart but tested today at 98 — that's pretty high for me. i'm usually at 96 or low 97.
It's been 30 days since m/c
Should I take a preg test (it might be too early)? am I prepared for a BFN?

[shen7]

Two schools of thought on this one... one, wait patiently for nature to take its course... either AF will come, or you will start to get m/s or other obvious symptoms... this may take days or even weeks, as your cycle may be longer than normal...

Two... PEE ON THE STICK ALREADY OMG!!!!!!!!!!

You can probably guess which camp I'm in. It also depends on your stash of HPTs... making a special trip to the store sometimes feels like too much of a production, but if you're like me, you have a pile of internet cheapies so no issue there

Good luck either way!!!!

[Halfbaked]

I would guess that if you had lots of stretch cm last Thursday, it's going to be way too early for a positive test. If you O'd then, you would be around 6dpo. I'd wait a week and if af doesnt come, then test. Of course, I'm the type that starts testing at 8dpo good luck

[SkyBaby]

I'm a poas pusher too lol so I'm no help. TEST omg lol

[Celena]

what Rebecca said.

It is too early, BUT if you have IC's then I say test every morning!

[sarha81]

no tests at home I used the last ones up to confirm my BFP pre m/c. Too sad to order more, but maybe this will be my incentive. I think the sore breasts with no bloat/cramps is odd.