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October 12th, 2010, 06:21 AM
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Platinum Supermommy
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Join Date: May 2009
Location: Pennsylvania
Posts: 14,553
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Saw this on another board and thought it looked fun!
Are there any boards that you wouldn't or couldn't join but you like to lurk on?
Are you a JM junkie?
Do any of your real life friends or family post on JustMommies?
Do you visit JM while you are at work?
Do your real life friends know you post on JM?
Does your dh/so ever lurk on JM?
Does your dh/so get annoyed with how much time you spend on JM?
Have you met anyone on JM in real life?
How long have you been a member of JM?
How many PMs are in your JM inbox right now?
How much time do you spend on JM a day?
What does your user name mean?
What have you learned from JM?
When you first joined JM did you have any idea you would be there this long?
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October 12th, 2010, 07:28 AM
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Mega Super Mommy
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Join Date: Jul 2009
Location: Virginia
Posts: 3,871
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Are there any boards that you wouldn't or couldn't join but you like to lurk on? Not really. I lurk alot but only post on TTCAL.
Are you a JM junkie? Oh yes!
Do any of your real life friends or family post on JustMommies? No
Do you visit JM while you are at work? Im at work now! 
Do your real life friends know you post on JM? No
Does your dh/so ever lurk on JM? No (he just listens to the stories)
Does your dh/so get annoyed with how much time you spend on JM? Better not! He's a Facebook junkie so he has nothing on me!
Have you met anyone on JM in real life? No
How long have you been a member of JM? Since July of last year
How many PMs are in your JM inbox right now? None... Noone wuvs me 
How much time do you spend on JM a day? A few hours throughout the day
What does your user name mean? Im not creative, just my name.
What have you learned from JM? Patience.... Just seeing other ladies and what they go or have gone through.
When you first joined JM did you have any idea you would be there this long? At first - no, but now I cant imagine being without JM.
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October 12th, 2010, 07:39 AM
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Platinum Supermommy
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Join Date: Mar 2008
Posts: 11,542
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Are there any boards that you wouldn't or couldn't join but you like to lurk on? I lurk on a lot of boards, but mostly post on this one...I guess the only ones i'd like "join"are past DDC's I was in
Are you a JM junkie? Yes...while on vacation I went crazy lol
Do any of your real life friends or family post on JustMommies? NO
Do you visit JM while you are at work? I don't work
Do your real life friends know you post on JM? No...they know I visit a message board, but I don't tell them which one
Does your dh/so ever lurk on JM? I don't think so...I hope not lol
Does your dh/so get annoyed with how much time you spend on JM? No
Have you met anyone on JM in real life? Nope...No one ever seems to live very close to me
How long have you been a member of JM? 3 years in March
How many PMs are in your JM inbox right now? 9..it's 96% full...I need to clean it out...I wish they held more than they do lol
How much time do you spend on JM a day? I keep it signed in all day, and check it a few days through out the day...Some days when I have nothing to do, I spend more time on it than I should lol
What does your user name mean? pretty obvious, not very creative
What have you learned from JM? oh wow, I've learned a lot...I didn't know anything about pregnancy loss till I joined JM, and I didn't think it happened as much as it does
When you first joined JM did you have any idea you would be there this long? Not at all...I was googling something and came across the am I pregnant board, and that's how I joined
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Forever Missing My Baby Girl Ella Grace  Born Sleeping October 14, 2009
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October 12th, 2010, 07:41 AM
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Platinum Supermommy
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Join Date: May 2009
Location: Pennsylvania
Posts: 14,553
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Are there any boards that you wouldn't or couldn't join but you like to lurk on? I do lurk on TTC w/ PCOS & Endo but I don't really post there. I also lurk on PAL to check in on our grads 
Are you a JM junkie? OH YES!
Do any of your real life friends or family post on JustMommies?Nope
Do you visit JM while you are at work?Lol like Rebecca I'm at work now 
Do your real life friends know you post on JM?Nope, they wouldn't understand...
Does your dh/so ever lurk on JM?Lol no he just knows that I come talk to my "Online friends" 
Does your dh/so get annoyed with how much time you spend on JM? Not really he watches TV while I'm on
Have you met anyone on JM in real life? Not yet but I'm hoping to get to!
How long have you been a member of JM? May 2009
How many PMs are in your JM inbox right now? 28 I believe
How much time do you spend on JM a day? Hmmm depends on the day but a good bit of time 
What does your user name mean? It's my nickname from as far back as I can remember
What have you learned from JM? I learned that HOPE is what keeps people going, that no matter what I have the best bunch of ladies on here and if I ever need anything that you guys are here for me and your the bestest! 
When you first joined JM did you have any idea you would be there this long? Not a clue but now I can't imagine my life without you ladies!
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October 12th, 2010, 08:36 AM
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Platinum Supermommy
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Join Date: Nov 2007
Location: Sunny California
Posts: 9,815
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Are there any boards that you wouldn't or couldn't join but you like to lurk on? I go to Mom of toddlers. pumping moms, here and once in w while to PAL
Are you a JM junkie? Yeap 
Do any of your real life friends or family post on JustMommies?Nope
Do you visit JM while you are at work?Sadly, I only have time to come in here when I am at work
Do your real life friends know you post on JM? Nope
Does your dh/so ever lurk on JM? Nope, I think he would think it's silly.
Does your dh/so get annoyed with how much time you spend on JM? Nope, since I only do it when I'm at work
Have you met anyone on JM in real life? Yeap, one girl from the pumping moms.
How long have you been a member of JM? 2007, but don't remember the month
How many PMs are in your JM inbox right now? I have no idea, no one really send me PMs
How much time do you spend on JM a day?Well I work for 8 hrs a day....so much of that time I spend it in here
What does your user name mean? The type of breed my dog is. Pitt Bull and Rhodesian Ridgeback
What have you learned from JM? One thing I learned is how to TTC the right away, it sounds silly, but before I came in here I did not know much about TTC. Also, about BFing, thanks the boards here I was able to increase my supply. It's been great. I love JM.
When you first joined JM did you have any idea you would be there this long? heck no but now I can't live without it.
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October 12th, 2010, 11:18 AM
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Don't dream it, BE IT!
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Join Date: Apr 2010
Location: Southern Utah
Posts: 925
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Are there any boards that you wouldn't or couldn't join but you like to lurk on? I lurk on some of the DDC's, and a few others, but mostly i'm a masochist
Are you a JM junkie? Indeed
Do any of your real life friends or family post on JustMommies? Nope
Do your real life friends know you post on JM? DH does, and i've mentioned it to a few other friends.
Does your dh/so ever lurk on JM? He probably does when I accidentally leave it open in my browser.
Does your dh/so get annoyed with how much time you spend on JM? No, cos he has no room to talk. He spends a lot of time on car forums.
Have you met anyone on JM in real life? Nope
How long have you been a member of JM? About seven or eight months
How many PMs are in your JM inbox right now? 12
How much time do you spend on JM a day? too much time to count!
What does your user name mean? It's an old nickname one of my best friends and her family gave me, and my age.
What have you learned from JM? That you don't have to know people face to face to become friends.
When you first joined JM did you have any idea you would be there this long? I expected I would stay around for awhile. I enjoy message boards--though I haven't joined one in forever!
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~Amy and Rodney trying to conceive since June 2009.
~Ectopic pregnancy March 2010.
~First Cycle Since ectopic May 21st 2010
~Forever missin' our little angel.
http://msshamisdavis.blogspot.com/

Thank you to Katie (Shortcake) for my beautiful siggy!


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October 12th, 2010, 11:26 AM
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Mega Super Mommy
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Join Date: Nov 2009
Posts: 4,944
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Are there any boards that you wouldn't or couldn't join but you like to lurk on? I still lurk on the March 2010 playroom That was my DDC, and even though I never posted there before my loss, I still check things out there pretty often.
Are you a JM junkie? Definitely
Do any of your real life friends or family post on JustMommies? Nope
Do you visit JM while you are at work? Yeah.... right now I'm working as a part time nanny, so naptime is my JM time
Do your real life friends know you post on JM? No
Does your dh/so ever lurk on JM? I hope not... he keeps trying to spy on me while I'm on it, though
Does your dh/so get annoyed with how much time you spend on JM? Sometimes he does, I think
Have you met anyone on JM in real life? Nope
How long have you been a member of JM? I joined in November 2009
How many PMs are in your JM inbox right now? 14, I never delete them
How much time do you spend on JM a day?
Ummmm, too much Probably at least an hour or two
What does your user name mean? I'm Nicole, and I'm in OH
What have you learned from JM? I have learned so much about TTC, about causes of miscarriage, and about related health issues, not to mention learning (by force ) that I am not in control of this part of my life.
When you first joined JM did you have any idea you would be there this long? No, to be honest, I thought it would take me a long time to get pg after my loss, but by 'long time' I meant like 8-10 months. Here I am 13 months later But JM is the only thing that gets me through
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Thanks, Katie (.:Shortcake:.) for the adorable siggy!
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October 12th, 2010, 01:04 PM
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just me
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Join Date: Jul 2006
Location: Littleton, CO
Posts: 39,665
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Are there any boards that you wouldn't or couldn't join but you like to lurk on? Um, not really. I post on all the boards I look at regularly. I sometimes lurk on other boards when a friend has something going on.
Are you a JM junkie? Yes.
Do any of your real life friends or family post on JustMommies? My sister does, but we aren't speaking at the moment.
Do you visit JM while you are at work? I'm a SAHM, so yes. lol
Do your real life friends know you post on JM? I've talked about JM, so yes. But they probably don't remember which site it is specifically
Does your dh/so ever lurk on JM? No
Does your dh/so get annoyed with how much time you spend on JM? Sometimes, usually when he's trying to talk to me while I'm typing up a response, lol
Have you met anyone on JM in real life? Just once. I've tried with a couple other people but it didn't work out.
How long have you been a member of JM? Since July of 2006. July 26, actually, the day a good friend had her baby, and I did a google search for stillbirth support because I was just having a really hard time with it.
How many PMs are in your JM inbox right now? 18. I recently cleaned it out.
How much time do you spend on JM a day? off and on throughout the day
What does your user name mean? It's my first name. So original I know. lol
What have you learned from JM? I've learned a whole lot more about TTC that I've ever thought there was to know. lol. I've learned that being online can bring out the worst of people, but that people can also be more compassionate and loving than I'd ever expected.
When you first joined JM did you have any idea you would be there this long? No, I didn't right at first. But then I just felt at home here and I can't imagine ever leaving.
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October 12th, 2010, 01:24 PM
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Proud JM hostess
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Join Date: Jul 2009
Location: @ JM if I'm not at work
Posts: 5,209
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Are there any boards that you wouldn't or couldn't join but you like to lurk on?
DDC's on rare occasions, like Sept 2010 DDC
Are you a JM junkie?
of course 
Do any of your real life friends or family post on JustMommies?
one, but I'm not so sure she does now. She introduced me to JM 2.5yrs ago at which time I did join, but couldn't remember my log in info when I wanted to join TTCAL
Do you visit JM while you are at work?
No, it's impossible for me to I cook
Do your real life friends know you post on JM?
yes and no, bcz I don't want them lurking they know I'm part of a specfic support group
Does your dh/so ever lurk on JM?
not that I know of, TG!
Does your dh/so get annoyed with how much time you spend on JM?
there was a time when he has, but I think because he knows how much it's helped me he doesn't say anything anymore. He wasn't there for me truly our first 2 losses.
Have you met anyone on JM in real life?
I've met Kary's parents, they came and dined in 501 for Valentines day
How long have you been a member of JM?
this profile over a year, originally joined about 2.5yrs ago
How many PMs are in your JM inbox right now?
oh gosh, allot and that's after I've cleaned it a few times a week LOL
ok, I just looked... 70 in all and I just cleaned it out a couple days ago! 
How much time do you spend on JM a day?
not sure, if I work that day I do for an hour or two at night... my days off probably off/on equalling a few hours LOL!
What does your user name mean?
it's my first name, which means: goddess of the moon
What have you learned from JM?
all sorts of things!
When you first joined JM did you have any idea you would be there this long?
I really though I'd of joined and graduated from a DDC by now... No, no idea I'd be here in TTCAL this long.
Last edited by Celena; October 12th, 2010 at 04:45 PM.
Reason: added to pm question
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October 12th, 2010, 01:52 PM
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Platinum Supermommy
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Join Date: Jul 2007
Posts: 5,673
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Are there any boards that you wouldn't or couldn't join but you like to lurk on? The tattoo and piercing board. I like to look at the pictures but won't ever get a tattoo and I only have my ears pierced.
Are you a JM junkie? Yes
Do any of your real life friends or family post on JustMommies? No, This is my retreat and if they posted here, I couldn't share the things that I do (like ttc)
Do you visit JM while you are at work? If you count while sitting at the Dr's office, then yes
Do your real life friends know you post on JM? Real Life friends? What are those?
Does your dh/so ever lurk on JM? no but he knows I post
Does your dh/so get annoyed with how much time you spend on JM? No, he spends just as much time on techy msg boards
Have you met anyone on JM in real life? yes, years ago but she moved
How long have you been a member of JM? 3 years
How many PMs are in your JM inbox right now? 33, maybe I should clean it out
How much time do you spend on JM a day? about an hour off and on except when we have chat
What does your user name mean? besides the fact that I'm crazy, my kids were all early, thus they came halfbaked
What have you learned from JM? How to be a POAS addict
When you first joined JM did you have any idea you would be there this long? not really
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October 12th, 2010, 03:31 PM
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Tobi
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Join Date: Feb 2010
Location: Ontario, Canada
Posts: 3,610
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Are there any boards that you wouldn't or couldn't join but you like to lurk on?
I lurked on Sept DDC but now that Ive read all the birth stories, I dont really have any draw to it.
Are you a JM junkie?
Oh yes, I miss you girls when Im away!
Do any of your real life friends or family post on JustMommies?
No
Do you visit JM while you are at work?
Usually, when its break, I can usually get a few minutes, plus the computer is right in the classroom so if Im needed Im right there.
Do your real life friends know you post on JM?
yes, cause I tell them some of the stuff that Ive learned, and dbf hears about it all the time!
Does your dh/so ever lurk on JM?
He has Probably still does and I wouldn't mind really, it would help him to understand all this ttc stuff , xoxo hun!
Does your dh/so get annoyed with how much time you spend on JM?
I think sometimes but he really doesnt say anything about it, he knows JM is important to me
Have you met anyone on JM in real life?
No but I think it would be a lot of fun!
How long have you been a member of JM?
Since February
How many PMs are in your JM inbox right now?
17
How much time do you spend on JM a day?
a couple hours for sure
What does your user name mean?
My name and I have 4 children. Originally it was tobi4 plus one more cause I joined when I was preg and thought it was cute
What have you learned from JM?
Other than all the medical stuff, for which I thank you all so much for! I think I've learned to be more tolerant and generous in spirit.
When you first joined JM did you have any idea you would be there this long?
For sure I did, I stumbled across JM googling something, and I absolutely loved the Sept DDC, I just didnt realize it wouldnt be the DDC I would be spending my time. And since I didnt have a choice with the m/c, Im so glad to have been able to choose ttcal. Id like to graduate mind you, but I could never leave ttcal totally. There are too many women here who have touched my heart, and supported me though everything. Thank you ladies, from the bottom of my heart.
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October 13th, 2010, 04:46 AM
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Weiner Dogs Rock!
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Join Date: Jul 2010
Location: Maryland
Posts: 7,682
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Are there any boards that you wouldn't or couldn't join but you like to lurk on? Eh, not really. I pop on and off different boards depending on the day/mood. But I am a member of the boards I want to be
Are you a JM junkie? Guilty as charged
Do any of your real life friends or family post on JustMommies? No, and I would not want them to post on here! I say stuff on here that I might not want them to read
Do you visit JM while you are at work? Uh, yeah. I work out of my home, but I guess that means that any time during the day is "work" and I post all throughout the day.
Do your real life friends know you post on JM? Yeah, my closest friend thinks I am nuts. But that is okay, she is a phone addict and I can't stand that, so we are even.
Does your dh/so ever lurk on JM? Not that I know of. Although he spends a lot of time on the computer too, so he might.
Does your dh/so get annoyed with how much time you spend on JM? No, not that he says. He likes to be on the computer too, so he can't really say anything.
Have you met anyone on JM in real life? No, not yet. Although I probably would if it was someone I felt close to and they were close by.
How long have you been a member of JM? I joined this room in July, right after I found out our LO was gone. I wasn't dealing well and my DH was not addressing it at all. I knew we wanted to get preg again, so I came here.
How many PMs are in your JM inbox right now? About 50, most of which are purchases/sales from the cloth diaper forum
How much time do you spend on JM a day? If I added it up, I would prolly be embarrassed. But I would say 2 hours between naptime, procrastinating work, and chilling out before bed. OUCH!! Lol.
What does your user name mean? Nothing creative. My first name is Ashlee (so Ash is obvious). My middle name starts with J and my birthday is 12-18
What have you learned from JM? So much!! There is so much support on here that I would have never known in the real world. I learned that my thoughts are not weird or bad, because lots of folks who have had losses feel similarly. I learned all about cloth diapers and started an addiction too.
When you first joined JM did you have any idea you would be there this long? In this room, yeah, I coulda said it would be a while. I just had a feeling. But I also sorta hoped I would be gone the month after
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