[Brittanie]

I always feel a little guilty posting here. There are so many of you who have been struggling to get pregnant, and it's makes me so sad. But it's just never been that way for me.

Promise you won't hate me if it happens quickly for me again? I'll understand if you envy it, since that's human nature, and it's totally forgivable. I just don't want you guys to hate me.



((okay, so I admit, I've been worrying about this for a while. I just don't want to hurt any of you lovely ladies!))

[DIANA092778]

I could never hate you Brittanie you have been such a big support person for me!!! I would be ecstatic for you if it happens right away!!!!

[ldovey83]

Brittanie I could never hate you hun... I will be super happy for you as I would any of these other ladies.. You've been through alot also and you deserve to be happy too.. Best of luck to you hun... HUGS!!!!!!!!!

[MamaRN]

Of course not! I think we ALL want to see all the ladies in here have a successful pregnancy, you included.

((HUGS))

[MeganMomof5]

Brittanie, I won't hate you...I too feel guilty for getting pregnant so easily, so I really understand how you feel

[Joanna1127]

I totally understand how you feel. I think I get pregnant easily too....got lucky the first month with my loss I just had and with my daughter 4 years ago it was right when I got off the pill. Now I'm just petrified of staying pregnant!

[stargatemommy]

You know, I get pregnant really fast too! But I always end up losing them just as quickly. I have always resented people stay pregnant, even if it took them a long time to get pregnant. I hate that I have to live with the constant fear of loss while they obliviously enjoy there pregnancies like nothing could possibly go wrong. Of course I wouldn't wish loss on anyone...

[sexypepsi25]

I'm new here and don't really know you nor the other ladies, but I would never get mad or hate someone else for getting pregnant easier or sooner than me. I struggle with this myself. Seeing that I wonder if people think diffrent of me for TTC a 6th one when it so hard for many to have one or two. I will share in the enjoyment of anyone here that becomes pregnant and be a source of comfort for those still trying. If I could I wish this board never exsisted and we could all be pregnant with NO losses

[ohnicole]

Brittanie, we could never hate you, hon

Our journeys are all different... some have early losses, some late losses, some m/c naturally, some have a D&C, some get pg quickly, and others will struggle to get pg again... but we all have grieved the loss of a pg and the loss of a baby, and we all deserve to get those beautiful BFPs. I can't wait until the day when I am congratulating you on yours!!!

[SkyBaby]

I could never hate you either! You're far too great a person!

[dreamer10]

Try not to worry hun, those of us here love love love to see one of our members get pregnant...no matter how hard it is that we are not. But we do love to enjoy those that do get pregnant and I think its beacuse we find hope in others joys and accomplishments. At least I do....good luck!

[KAB]

You are such a huge support to all of us! I can't see anybody being anything but happy for you, I hope that it does happen for you right away, you deserve it!

[ashj_1218]

To repeat what EVERYONE has said...I would never, ever hate anyone for getting pregnant quicker or easier than myself. I also have that same worry, since I tend to fall pregnant very easily...but can't keep them very long. There is NOTHING for you to feel guilty about.

We all have completely different reasons for being on this board and that would result in all of us having completely different TTC experiences. No worries, my dear. I will jump up and down for you just as much as anyone else on here

I think lots of ladies have different "feelings" about being on this board, be it they don't feel they have struggled as hard, or as long, or as tragically as others. I know I do have those feelings, and I have heard others elude to it. But we all have the same thing in common and that means we can relate and support. I, for one, would be thrilled if you popped up pregnant immediately. You deserve that just as much as the next person.

[*~ Joni ~*]

Ditto everyone I know how you feel. All 3 of our pregnancies were either the first month we tried or the first month we were careless with preventing I feel so guilty when I see ladies trying so hard and then I get pregnant on accident.

[msshamis23]

Of course we won't hate you! I agree with everyone here. Everyone has different TTC experiences, and then add in TTCAL and we just have to hope for a healthy pregnancy.

You included honey. No matter how easy it is for you to get pregnant. We just want you to have a healthy one.

*hugs*

[Pitridge]

Well not to copy what everyone says but don't be silly No one will hate you.

[Brittanie]

Thanks ladies!! I feel so loved!

I have been kind of depressed lately, and freaking out over silly little things. So thanks!

[luvmykids623]

I agree with everyone else, I could never hate you, especially not for that. I share that feeling with you. With all 5 of my pregnancies we got pregnant the first cycle, and I often feel bad about that when there are so many wonderful women here who struggle so hard. I am happy for anyone on this board who gets pregnant! I wish it could happen quickly for everyone!

[Celena]

No WAY! Of course we'd be happy and over the moon for you... you're so sweet to be so thoughtful Brittanie!!!! To be honest, for some of us, it might hurt a teensy bit not because of you, but the hopes of a bfp with the cycles and seasons passing by. Never a malicious feeling towards you honey so get that out of your HEAD! NOW! This instant!!!!