Just need to vent (loss ment) update post 1

Halfbaked · #1 October 19th, 2010, 10:07 AM

I'm just having a bad day. I woke up this morning and my temp had dropped. I attributed it to setting my clock for the wrong time and waking up 2 hours early. So when I finally got up, I went into the bathroom to find spotting. Ok, not unheard of. I spotted with my other kids and didn't have spotting with my MC so maybe it's ok. I was still upset though so after flushing the toilet, I turned around and knocked my phone into the toilet. I couldn't hold it in anymore

I'm now cramping, just waiting to miscarry. I used my last digital and it still says pregnant but the way I'm feeling, I just know something is wrong. I'm going to see if I can go in tonight for an hcg test. Tomorrow I have to go see about getting a new phone. I just want to curl up in a ball and melt away.

Update: I'm back. I started having pain in my side and bright red blood so we went to the ER. They thought maybe it was an ectopic. After a painful u/s they determined that it's not ectopic, or at least they couldn't see anything, and that I have a huge fluid filled cyst on my left ovary. They said my cervix is also wide open and I'm more than likely miscarrying. I don't know what the HCG is, I didn't want to wait for it to get back. I'm not as upset as I thought I would be. I'm sure it will hit me later. Going to take some sleeping meds and go to bed.
Thank you all for being here.

msshamis23 · #2 October 19th, 2010, 10:31 AM

Oh honey. Definitely get on the phone with a doc, and push your way in! Or even go to the ER if you have too.

*hugs*

I hope this isn't what you're thinking it is!

ldovey83 · #3 October 19th, 2010, 10:45 AM

Oh Rebecca... I am so sorry hun.. Sounds like you are having a rough day.. Do whatever you have to, to get answers.. Also try to relax, and keep your feet up.. Remember it is normal for temps to go up and down when pregnant, and it is also normal to spot.. If the spotting turns into bleeding try to go to the ER.. HUGE HUGE HUGS!!!

Pitridge · #4 October 19th, 2010, 11:02 AM

Call the doctor, if you are spotting, they will want to test your levels.
I spotted with ds and I thought the worse, so I understand where you are coming from. Sorry you are having a rough day

ohnicole · #5 October 19th, 2010, 11:34 AM

Rebecca, I'm sorry you're having such a rough day, hon

Forget about the temp!!! That doesn't mean anything. And I am hoping with everything I have that the spotting and cramping are just normal early pg symptoms. I agree, go in, get your hcg checked to ease your mind, even if you have to pay out of pocket for it.

Huge, huge hugs

asunflower · #6 October 19th, 2010, 03:09 PM

Yes, all of those are symptoms of pregnancy as well. Just relax and know that you are not alone! The sign still says positive so think that way!

MeganMomof5 · #7 October 19th, 2010, 03:21 PM

(((Hugs))) I hope you can get in and get some blood work done...I also hope the spotting stops...Try to stay positive (which I know is really hard)...Spotting and cramps can be very normal...I wish there was something I could do for you