[ldovey83]

4 yrs ago today!!! Bright and early in the morning I found out I was expecting my son.. Had the smoothest pregnancy, and not a care in the world.. It has been hard on me cause I never expected that I would struggle so much to keep a pregnancy after having such an easy time while pregnant with him.. Dosen't help that I had a close friend tell me she is expecting her second yesterday.. I am happy she called to tell me instead of me finding out via facebook, but still kind of stung alittle... The way she worded it, and came out and said it was a shock just kind of took me back.. She said she wanted to call and tell me cause she knew what I have been threw, and didn't want me to be hurt by it... I am thankful that she did that.. I probably would've been really hurt finding out on facebook.. Just needed to vent a little..

[ohnicole]

I'm sorry that you had to find out about your friend, Lindsey. But what an amazing memory to have of finding out you were pregnant with your son!

[MeganMomof5]

(((Hugs)))

[ldovey83]

Thanks ladies.. It is an amazing day.. Just brings back so many memories, and pain from my losses at the same time..

[Halfbaked]

[Pitridge]

What a beautiful memory!

It's sort of weird that you were thinking about this. Because when I m/c, one of my aunt's nieces was (very) pg and that was the reason she never came to see me (we live 5min away from each other), last week, I found out that she was pg again, she's 7 weeks pg and as happy as I am for her, it hurts a bit that she is pg..............

[ldovey83]

Totally understandable... HUGS!!

[Brittanie]

I just had my 4 year anniversary with Erin. I'm sorry that it's so bittersweet for you right now. I hope you get another one of those days. It won't be so extremely happy to start out, but when you hold that baby in your arms and look back on it it'll be nothing but happy.

Until then,

[luvmykids623]

I just had my 3 year anniversary with Maryella 3 days after my d&c and I'm coming up on my 5 year anniversary with Aiden in the middle of November. You're right it's bittersweet when you've had losses.

[missy123]

((Hugs)) Lindsay. You are super special and a great mom!

I am glad your friend thought about you and let you know first. Even though it still stung at least she had you on the forefront of her mind. ((More Hugs))