Forum: Trying to Conceive after Loss
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October 25th, 2010, 10:07 PM
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I just wanted to say that I really like this board I have been lurking for a while and you all seem like bunch of girl friends.
I'm Colleen mom of 2 LC and had a loss at 10 weeks. When I went in for my follow up I ask my doctor for BC. I have not taken BC since I had my youngest and I do no do well on it. So I never let the doctor finish on what he would recommend for me to do with TTC again. Well since I did not fill the BC script I starting taking my temp and I'm not sure what to make of my chart. So I was wondering if someone could look at my chart? I really just want to poas again but I know its to early.
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October 25th, 2010, 10:48 PM
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Don't dream it, BE IT!
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First off, Welcome, and I'm very sorry for your loss. *hugs* But you are right, the ladies here are fabulous, and amazing!
Do you have a link to your chart? I'm still kind of new at charting--but I'd be happy to take a look anyway, and i'm sure many more ladies will as well. Most recommendations for TTC from doctors anyway, are at least one cycle, but it's mostly to help time your EDD if you were to get PG, and to help heal emotionally a little bit. And I know for a fact that most of us ladies here did not follow our docs advice. (Shhhh!)
Do you think you DTD around the right dates? How long ago was your loss if you don't mind me asking. Just for timing of course.
Again, *hugs*
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October 26th, 2010, 05:16 AM
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Mega Super Mommy
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Welcome....we are bunch of girlfriends around here and no matter what we will have your back. Sorry about your loss and I hope you get a beautiful bfp soon. I do not temp or chart so I can't help you there...but good luck!
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October 26th, 2010, 06:05 AM
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Platinum Supermommy
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Nicely said Julie!
Welcome to the group and to JM! 
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October 26th, 2010, 08:51 AM
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Platinum Supermommy
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I'm sorry for your loss! Welcome to JM and yep you found an amazing group of ladies here!
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October 26th, 2010, 08:57 AM
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Sorry for your loss 
The girls here are amazing and yeah I guess it feels like a bunch of girlfriends hanging out 
I can't help you with you chart because I don't temp, but many of the girls here do.
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October 26th, 2010, 11:35 AM
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Mega Super Mommy
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I'm so sorry for your loss Welcome to the board... if you post a link to your chart, I'm sure a bunch of us will take a look
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Thanks, Katie (.:Shortcake:.) for the adorable siggy!
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October 26th, 2010, 04:49 PM
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Platinum Supermommy
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Julie put it perfectly!  I'm so sorry for your loss! I don't temp or chart, so I'm no help there, but I hope you get your sticky bfp soon!
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October 26th, 2010, 06:57 PM
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I am so sorry for your loss. I tried to chart for a bit but I am not very good at it sorry. I wish I could help more. I know many of the ladies do. If you post a link they should be able to help.
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October 26th, 2010, 08:21 PM
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Well FF is saying that I O on cycle day 19 which I was so not expecting. I kinda started late with the temping this cycle only because I was unsure what we were going to do. meaning the BC or no birth control. I started to lose my baby on 9/19/10 but I did not pass anything until I got the pills from my doctor that Friday. So Dh and I waited until after I was done bleeding to do anything. I had sex on the morning of 10-19 I took a pregnancy test a few days after and it was negative. I wanted to make sure my hormone levels had gone back to normal. and I just wanted to pee on something. With my Daughter Dh and I only had sex once that cycle and we got preggo with her so I know that I'm highly fertile I'm just not sure If I should keep my head up so high and think that I could have happened this time. fertilityfriend . com/home/d7cbc is my chart. ( take out the spaces I need 10 posts before I can post a link)
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October 27th, 2010, 07:09 AM
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Mega Super Mommy
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I wish I could help but I haven't charted since a few months before I got my BFP with my DD. I was going to start again, but have just decided to go with the flow
I am sooo sorry about your loss, it is not an easy thing to get through, but the ladies on this board are wonderful and very supportive
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October 27th, 2010, 12:33 PM
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 Hi Colleen and welcom to TTCAL
I'm sorry for your loss and hope that your here for only a short amount of time before getting your bfp! However in the mean time you'll find the most supportive group of ladies ever here
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October 27th, 2010, 03:28 PM
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Platinum Supermommy
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Welcome! I'm sorry you're joining us but glad you are here.
I took a look at your chart. You may have O'd on cd27 but it's hard to know for sure because the temp shift is slow rising and not very high. I would wait another 4 days or so to test. That would put you at around 12dpo. How long were your cycles before your loss? Good luck!
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October 27th, 2010, 09:21 PM
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My cycles before my big birth control mess were 34 days on the dot. 9 months after I had my daughter I had the implant birth control put in and I bled the hole time I was on it. which was only 9 months that was not fun. I had 3 somewhat normal cycles before my BFP with the baby that I lost. and My temp went back up today I'm really not sure what to make of my chart other than I might be going crazy over it.
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