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October 26th, 2010, 10:22 AM
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Someone stop me before I do some damage to my SIL. She has known for months that we are leaving, she had months to come and see her brother and spent time with him, but no, can't be bother. So, this weekend is dh last weekend here, we have tons of **** to do, it's going to be stressful weekend by itself, but the B**ch decides to come on Friday at 1 AM ***! I swear this girl has no consideration for other people, I can't stand her. I am so mad right now.
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October 26th, 2010, 11:18 AM
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some people are clueless...and others do it on purpose....which one is she?
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October 26th, 2010, 11:29 AM
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Ugh- how frustrating, Patty!
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October 26th, 2010, 11:32 AM
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some people are clueless...and others do it on purpose....which one is she?
She's both that's my take on it.
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October 26th, 2010, 11:44 AM
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I would not change my schedule to meet hers. Moving takes a ton of time... from packing to cleaning to organizing. I would go about my day and not allow it to stress you out. Who knows, maybe she will step up and help out! (one can hope)

I re-read your post, are you moving or going on vacation somewhere?
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October 26th, 2010, 11:47 AM
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I re-read your post, are you moving or going on vacation somewhere?
Missy, we are moving out of the country for a year. Dh leaves next week and I stay until mid Dec.
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She's both that's my take on it.
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I have a SIL like that too! We could start a support group!

I agree, go about your day because you have a ton to do!
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October 26th, 2010, 08:15 PM
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Patty I am sorry.. Some people I guess think that it is ok to be like that. I agree with Missy. Try not to let it stress you out, and keep going according to plan.. Best of luck hun, and hang in there..
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October 27th, 2010, 06:23 AM
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I say, just ignore her. It's her loss not yours. If she is doing it on purpose she has some serios problems. And who goes to someones house at 1AM uninvited???? I don't think that I would have even answered the door. Was she drunk??
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October 27th, 2010, 07:32 AM
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Well an update. Dh drilled some sense into her and now she is not coming.
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October 27th, 2010, 01:31 PM
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Gotta love the DH when he comes thru huh?
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October 27th, 2010, 03:32 PM
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I'm sorry you're having to deal with her right now but glad your DH did something about it. I hope the moving goes smoothly.
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