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October 26th, 2010, 05:16 PM
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So AF was due on Monday.....so I tested b/c the prev weekend I was feeling nauseous and it was a BFN so I figured AF was coming. Well Monday came and went and nothing, some slight cramping that night. So now here we are on Tues. and still no AF, still a little cramping but nothing like AF cramps.....no spotting or bleeding either. I am trying to hold off until Thurs. morning before I test again since I already got the negative. Is it possible that I just tested to early and could be pregnant? My cycles are always 28 days to the day so something is definately up.....

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October 26th, 2010, 05:25 PM
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That could very well be, but it could also be your body trying to get back to zero.. I have had 4 losses, and my cycles returning were different everytime.. My first loss it took 30 days, my second one took over a month to get my first cycle, and my third was like a 34 day cycle, and then after my last one it took 28 days from the first day of bleeding till my first AF.. Best of luck to you hun.. I hope you get what you want either way..
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October 26th, 2010, 06:20 PM
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How long ago was your loss? After my first loss it took 4 months for my cycles to regulate again and even then they were 2 days longer than before.
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October 26th, 2010, 06:38 PM
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My cycle also took a long time to get back to normal after my loss. I'm sorry TTCAL is so confusing
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October 26th, 2010, 07:17 PM
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Sorry ladies I guess I should have put that in there. My lost was Dec of last year and my cycles went back to normal the 2nd month after my loss...
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October 26th, 2010, 08:19 PM
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Hopefully you just tested early and you get that BFP.. Good luck hun.
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October 27th, 2010, 04:18 AM
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My cycles got back to normal quickly as well. I would test again with first morning and see where it gets you. Those little cramps are a good sign of a BFP!
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October 27th, 2010, 06:43 AM
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Thank you ladies.....I will be testing again tomorrow morning and I will keep everyone posted....I love being here, it is nice to have women to talk that understand each other and what they are going through....I wish everyone the best of luck....
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October 27th, 2010, 07:15 AM
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I would buy dollar store tests and then buy a First Response Early Response test if I see a hint of something on the dollar tests.
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October 27th, 2010, 07:36 AM
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Did you test? I hope you get a BFP!!
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October 27th, 2010, 12:28 PM
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October 27th, 2010, 03:11 PM
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If you test and it's still negative, it may just be an off cycle. Even before my loss, about once a year I would have a cycle that was longer or shorter than normal. Before my loss and before I started temping, I had a cycle that was 45 days and I thought for sure I was pregnant but after about a dozen negative tests, AF finally came. I hope that you just ovulated late and you get that BFP.
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October 27th, 2010, 04:58 PM
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Did you test? I'd say now is as good as time as any
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October 27th, 2010, 05:44 PM
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LOL....you ladies are so funny....I am trying really hard to wait until the morning so I will let you ladies know. Thanks to everyone
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October 28th, 2010, 06:42 AM
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Grrrrr....I tested this morning....and BFN....still no period....Sunday I will be a week late....trying not to give up hope....if I dont start by Sunday and still get a negative I will make a Dr's appt. Only time will tell.....
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