Cool, it sounds like your doctor will help you with this. I found a few articles on ABO incompatibility as a possible factor in early pregnancy loss online, but they were from the 1970s. And they were conflicting. I think probably most of the work is not online or in the online databases. I saw some references going back to the 1960s.
Opinions I have developed as a result of my (non-thorough) research:
- Maternal/fetal ABO incompatibility is quite common (like 20% of all pregnancies), generally not a problem, and affects the first child and subsequent children in equal measure (unlike Rh incompatibility)
- And yet for some reason, sometimes ABO incompatibility is a very serious problem in specific cases (why only sometimes??? mysterious) (most recent sources on it were case studies of random serious cases)
- In the past (one study in 1975), early (<16w) losses that were chromosomally normal have been statistically correlated with ABO incompatibility - but lately the issue has not been examined - maybe because the matter was settled somehow?? Or maybe it just fell off the radar since there's no obvious fix for ABO problems - no Rhogam shot - and so people didn't find it a useful line of research.
Here's the article:
Materno-fetal ABO incompatibility as a cause of spontaneous abortion - Lauritsen - 2008 - Clinical Genetics - Wiley Online Library
I can tell even from the abstract that they were pretty sloppy with what they considered a "control group" and with jumping to causation statements from somewhat weak statistical patterns. And be warned, they use that terrible term "spontaneous abortion" instead of miscarriage.

So I don't put much trust in this old study!
Fascinating. Do let us know what you learn!! I am very interested now too.