[*SamF*]

Well I get to come back again.
I really thought that I was 'safe' after two good u/s with a good strong HB.

Story on this one-

I had a regular appointment last Monday and they did an u/s and baby was perfect. HB was 164 bpm, even got to hear it. We did all the blood work, weigh in and everyone was happy. Wednesday night I had a small amount of spotting, talked tot he on-call Dr. he wasn't worried because we had a good u/s two days before. But I just knew. Thursday morning woke up with horrible cramps, they stayed for about 40 minutes then went away. My doctor got me in that morning to check and as soon as they got the baby on the screen I knew.
According to the measurements baby died on Wednesday.
They had me meet with one of the OB's in the office (my peri doesn't deliver or due surgery anymore) who was absolutely wonderful, I plan on keeping her! They got me in for a D&C on Friday morning. I had the choice of waiting or talking medication, but my first m/c was at 7.5 weeks and lasted over three weeks- didn't think I could go through that again.
I'm waiting on the chromosomal analysis to see what happened.
OB wants me to wait at least 2 cycles- peri wasn't as concerned- his response is when ever I'm physiologically ready. I think we will wait out one full cycle, then NTNP for the next. Then get back on trying.

So- I'm officially back. This board was my first home at JM so I always check in out it, but was hoping to not have to come back.

[Pitridge]

Oh Sam........ I'm so so sorry....

[ldovey83]

Oh Sam sweety.. I am so sorry to hear about this.. It is so not fair!!! I am glad that you do have wonderful Dr's that are hands on... HUGS!!!

[Servilia]

I'm sorry you are back here

[MeganMomof5]

I'm so sorry to hear about your loss (((Hugs)))

[missy123]

I am so sorry you are back here Sam. When I first joined this board, you had just gotten your BFP with your twins and I was like wow, she is a special person. Everyone was so excited for you and you had the longest thread of well wishes from everyone here that I had ever seen. It was like 10 pages long of people so happy for you. I am rambling but I wish you well and I am so sorry for your loss.

[avasmom603]

I am very sorry for your loss

[*~ Joni ~*]

I'm so sorry

[Halfbaked]

I'm so sorry.

[ohnicole]

I am so sorry

[dreamer10]

I am so sorry Sam. I know how you feel. I recently had something similar. Everything was fine until 13 weeks when we discovered my baby had died just a day before. Hang in there and make sure you keep up with your doc as to where to go from here. I sincerely hope you don't have to stay here long....good luck!

[luvmykids623]

I'm so sorry that you had to come back! I've been praying for you and your bean, and I'm so very sorry for your loss! I pray that your recovery from the d&c is quick and complete, and your stay is short.