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November 1st, 2010, 02:46 PM
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So I just got a call from the nurse (I called and left another message this morning), and she said they don't have a full report...She took what she had to the doctor and the doctor didn't want to say anything till they have everything done...I have no clue what that could mean? Last time it was so quick, I knew within 24 hours...Now i'm really stressed out about it  ...She said hopefully in the next day they will have it all and will give me a call...ugh
*update*
Labwork came back negative!!! I have mixed feelings about it...On one hand i'm glad that it's negative because I didn't want to have to do shots my whole pregnancy, but on the other hand i'm worried that now again I have no answers as to why I keep losing babies, and it's going to happen again...The doctor called me herself, and of course I was in the grocery store, so I didn't want to talk about everything so people could hear me...She told me that I can start to take baby asprin (which I was going to do any way)...She said that they can also retest me if I want in another 3 months, but again, I don't want to wait to TTC and she said she didn't think I needed to...She also said that they can send me to seattle to see a specialist, which I really don't want to do...She told me that i'm okay to TTC now, so I guess that's about it...I have an appointment on the 15th with another doctor in the same practice, one that I hope to see during my next pregnancy...I'll ask more questions then...I did ask if they will monitor me closer in my next pregnancy and she said yes that i'm going to get an ultrasound at 6 weeks, and then more often after that, so I guess that's a good thing....I still hate not having any answers though
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November 1st, 2010, 03:05 PM
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Ugh, Megan  How annoying! Hoping you get that call ASAP.
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November 1st, 2010, 03:56 PM
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Ugh that stinks! I hope they get the rest soon and they have the news you want to hear!
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November 1st, 2010, 09:05 PM
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That is super frustrating. I am so sorry. I hope you get some information soon.
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November 2nd, 2010, 03:43 AM
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HUGS Megan! I hate waiting for those calls. I just *wish* they knew where we are coming from and why it's so important to have results right away.
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November 2nd, 2010, 06:18 AM
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Waiting for hte call is so frustrating!! Hang in there! I'm hoping for good news for you!
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November 2nd, 2010, 07:52 AM
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Ugh, I'm so sorry honey! that's so annoying! I hope that the lab is just being slow!
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November 2nd, 2010, 07:58 AM
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I hate waiting for their call, I hope you hear something today.
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November 2nd, 2010, 08:24 AM
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Thanks everyone! Of course I have things to do today, so I wont be home to wait for the call...I hope they are smart enough to call my cell, which is going to be annoying because i'll be out in public, and I hate to ask questions etc when people can hear me....Maybe i'll get lucky and they'll call me after I get home lol
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November 2nd, 2010, 11:11 AM
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Hey meg, don't read too much into it. I work for a doctor and he nevers call anyone back if he doesn't have all the answers yet. He only wants to have the conversation once. Will all the labs they see, if they called each person everytime a lab came in, there would never be time to see anyone. They only time my doc would call before all labs in would be if something was real bad. I know it's hard but try to relax your doc sounds like he's been thurough and has your best interests in mind.
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November 2nd, 2010, 11:47 AM
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bump for update.
also, my labwork came in for my thyroid, all is good with with it, so no switching meds..Still taking 175mg...They are making me an appointment for a neck ultrasound (I Have to get them done every 6 months) last one was the day before I found out about my miscarriage in April  ...I have to get another test done in 6 weeks, sooner if I get pregnant.
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November 2nd, 2010, 12:09 PM
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Glad it came back negative! Hope your just one step closer to your perfect rainbow baby.
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November 2nd, 2010, 12:13 PM
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Well, I'm sorry that you don't have something to definitely fix but I'm glad it came back normal.
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November 2nd, 2010, 01:01 PM
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I'm glad it came back negative. I've been thinking about trying baby aspirin too since I seem to have clotting problems when pg. I hope it was all just bad luck and you'll be able to get your rainbow baby. Hang in there.
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November 2nd, 2010, 03:34 PM
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Hugs Megan! I'm glad it came back negative but I wish they could give you answers.
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November 2nd, 2010, 03:54 PM
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I am glad that the test results came back negative, but I totally understand your frustrations on not knowing what in the world is going on and why you keep loosing the babies.. I really hope that when you get your BFP that you will have a super stick bean, and you will get your Rainbow baby.. Just keep your head up and keep that positive attitude you have.. Don't let the fear get to you.. Enjoy and relax... HUGS hun.. We are all here for you.!! We love ya and don't forget that..
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November 2nd, 2010, 05:26 PM
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Megan, I'm sorry you're still without an answer, but I am so hoping that the baby aspirin is your key to getting your next little one!
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November 2nd, 2010, 05:48 PM
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Megan  hon!
I hear ya, it's a relief and disappointing all at once... more confusion and frustration enters as the questions are still not answered. It doesn't bring a sense of peace that we wished it would since there's still a mystery as to why our little ones grew wings. It's hard to come to terms with.
I've been there too with the whole recurrent loss work-up from bw, tests, etc... nothing showed anything! We have not idea why I had my losses except for my ectopic pregnancy  it sucks, I think one of the harder things to accept or try to learn is to accept that some things I want to understand or have an answer for will never be understood nor answered.
BUT.... I must say YAY on a good note that you're given the clear to TTC and that she agrees you should start baby asprin!!! Can I just say I'm  you're officially ttcal again?!
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