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November 29th, 2010, 05:21 PM
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Hi Ladies,
Im new to the just mommies website. My husband and I have been TTC since January of this year. In March we found out we were pregnant, one week later my period came and I was told it was a Chemical Pregnancy. In July we found out we were pregnant again, two weeks later I was admitted into the hospital for sever abdominal pain. Turned out to be an ectopic pregnancy. I had to have my left tube removed because there was so much damage. So now its the end of November and we are still TTC. I just started doing a BBT chart this month. I dont really understand the chart quite yet, but we are BDing on all the right days and yet nothing is happening. Im now 3 DPO and once again my hopes are up for this month. Ive been having tender breasts and some cramping. Ive also noticed that I feel a tightness in the center of my uterus. Could these actually be signs of a pregnancy this soon after ovulation? Has anyone out there had a tube removed and been able to conceive naturally? Any info would be so appreciated!!

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November 29th, 2010, 06:11 PM
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Welcome to the group sorry you have to here. I lost my left tube due to endometriosis in Feb of this year. We conceived without medical assistance in April. My understanding is that I have a slim chance of getting pregnant the month I O on the left side. Good luck!!
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November 29th, 2010, 06:30 PM
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thanks so much for responding! You give me hope! I have never felt ovulation pain until after the surgery. Now every month since then I can actually feel ovulation pain. And from what I feel every month it seems like my right side has taken over. Im only feeling this ovulation pain on my right, which is a great sign! However, we still havent been able to conceive. I have appointment with a specialist on dec 13th and my period is due on the 10th. So Im hoping to either not get my period, or at least get some good news from the doctor on what we can do! Thanks again for your comment!
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November 29th, 2010, 06:47 PM
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Good luck!!! And yeah, I've felt pregnancy symptoms within 2-3 days of ovulation with 3 of my 4 pregnancies.
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November 30th, 2010, 04:40 AM
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Thanks Joni! I am starting to think Im going crazy! Im having nausea that comes and goes and last night i had an awful taste in my mouth. Kind of like metal. Im not sure what that was, but it was horrible! Ill be taking an HTP on Sunday! Thanks for your posts!
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November 30th, 2010, 05:19 AM
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So sorry for your losses. I don't have experience ectopic and losing a tube but wanted to welcome you here.
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November 30th, 2010, 06:41 AM
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I'm sorry for you losses! I've known several ladies who have gotten pregnant 'naturally' with one tube.
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November 30th, 2010, 08:20 AM
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Just lurking, but I had the same thing happen to me last year. I got pregnant shortly before my dad passed away in July, had a m/c in Aug, got pregnant again in September, and started bleeding and thought I had another m/c, but when I didn't pass any tissue I knew something was different and wrong so I was diagnosed with an ectopic. They tried methotrexate and it didn't work so at the end of Oct I was rushed in for emergency surgery and had my left fallopian tube removed. The doctor said my right tube looked good and to wait 2 months before TTC again, but TTC was the last thing on my mind. We had DTD several times and never got pg so I figured I wasn't meant to have a baby and didn't bother using any form of BC. In January we DTD 4 or 5 days before I was suppose to O, thinking I was ok, and like you after my surgery could feel ovulation and on what side, started having O pains on my right side, which was a first since my surgery they had always been on my left. Anyway 3 days after I O'd I knew I was pregnant, just needed the test to back it up. I had sore BB's, wanted to eat non stop, nausea didn't kick in for me until I was about 5 weeks. I started taking IC's about 7 DPO and got my BFP at 10 DPO. When I got the BFP I went to the doc and had my beta's drawn, they confirmed I was pregnanct, my HCG was 12. So, to answer your question, yes you can get pregnant naturally with one tube. Although I did only have 2 months in between the surgery and getting pregnant again, I think sometimes my body made it feel like I ovulated on one side, but actually did on the other side. Anyway, good luck! It can happen
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November 30th, 2010, 10:10 AM
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Just wanted to welcome you to the board! I am very sorry for your loss and I do know several ladies who have gotten PG with one tube! Hoping you get a sticky bfp soon!
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November 30th, 2010, 10:13 AM
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I am so sorry for your losses But welcome to the board! The ladies here are great.
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November 30th, 2010, 01:11 PM
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I am sorry for your losses, but glad you found us! I hope you are pregnant and your stay here is really short! ... and yes I "knew" I was pregnant about 3dpo last year
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November 30th, 2010, 03:53 PM
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thank you ladies so much!! You have all given me hope! I am waiting until this friday to take my first HPT test. My nausea is still here, but it just comes and goes. Im really feeling like this could be the month, however I have felt that before and I wasnt pregnant. Thank you so much for the good lucks! Hopefully it works! I will post on here once I take my test and let you all know! Thanks again for making me feel so welcome on here, I really enjoy this site!
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