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December 2nd, 2010, 11:33 AM
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Platinum Supermommy
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i dont even no how to explain it but 1 min im okay then all of a sudden just want to cry? im not depressed i dont think.
alot of people i no have got bfps latley i think thats what it is, dont get me wrong im happy for them i really am but i should be pregnant also and i dont even no when i cant start trying again cause i have to wait for stupid af 
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December 2nd, 2010, 11:52 AM
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Platinum Supermommy
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I'm sorry. I go through the OK one minute than just want to start bawling the next.
Hang in there AF will show soon, and then hoping you BFP is right around the corner!!
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December 2nd, 2010, 11:55 AM
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Platinum Supermommy
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thank u :wub?:
its that i just needed to get it out and say it if u no what i mean
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December 2nd, 2010, 12:46 PM
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Tobi
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Location: Ontario, Canada
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I know exactly what you mean. Sometimes just seeing it written down somehow validates our feelings. You will get through this, hugs~
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December 2nd, 2010, 01:08 PM
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POAS Queen
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Location: San Diego, CA
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What's that song? "Waaaiiiiiting, is the hardest part." Yup. Vent anytime you want, cry if you feel the need 
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With us on earth for five short days, with us in our hearts forever.
(Thank you Natasha for this beautiful graphic of Andrew, and to the ladies of the Nov 10 PR who help me in carrying on his memory.)
Jan. 2009: Came off years of BCP and started TTC
March 2010: BFP -- finally!
Oct. 22, 2010: Drew is born, but has to stay in the NICU because of cord complications resulting in oxygen deprivation and brain problems =(
Oct. 27, 2010: I held him in my arms while Daddy, Grandma, Great-Uncle and I sang him to sleep =( Hardest thing I've ever done...
June 14, 2011: Drew's baby brother or sister waved hi to us with a BFP!
June 25, 2011: Natural miscarriage... Can we please catch a break here?
Nov. 2011: 100mg Clomid followed by 2mg Estrogen, Ovidrel trigger, and 200mg progesterone suppositories 2x/day 14 days. BFN.
Dec. 2011: 2nd medicated cycle. BFN.
Jan. 2012: Took a month off to breathe...
Feb. 2012: Same regimen of Clomid and other meds, add IUI. 2 eggs and 8.5 million swimmers. BFN.
March 2012: 75 IU Follistim CD 3-11, follie scan CD 8 showed 6 follies likely to mature. Triggered, IUI on CD 14, 4 million swimmers. BFN.
April 2012: 75 IU Follistim CD 3-10. Scan showed 2 mature follies, 2 almost certain to mature, and two not likely but possible. (All 6 evenly and perfectly spaced out between the left and the right.) Triggered, IUI CD 13 with 5 million swimmers. BFN.
May 2012: 75 IU Follistim starting CD 3. Waiting to O. Timed intercourse. Likely 5 follies to mature.
^^ Click graphic for chart ^^
 
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December 2nd, 2010, 01:18 PM
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Platinum Supermommy
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(((hugs))) I think all of us have BTDT and your feelings are very normal...I'm so happy for everyone that gets their BFP, but at the same time it's so hard when it's not you getting it...I think everyone who has been through a loss understands...We are all here for you...I hope things get better 
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December 2nd, 2010, 01:19 PM
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Wife/Mommy/Photographer
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Location: Oneida, TN
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Waiting IS the hardest part  I hope AF shows back up real soon for you.
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December 2nd, 2010, 01:32 PM
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Platinum Supermommy
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Join Date: Feb 2007
Location: huddersfield uk
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after my las missed m/c i think af came back after 5 weeks so i have at least another 2 weeks to wait that is of course if i dont get a bfp first i might get the best crimbo present ever 
thanks ladies
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December 2nd, 2010, 06:26 PM
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Platinum Supermommy
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Join Date: Feb 2006
Location: MA
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I can relate to how you're feeling. I swear, so many people I know are pregnant!! Its so hard to not be upset. Don't get me wrong, I'm happy for them, but it still hurts.
sending you many hugs!
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December 2nd, 2010, 06:53 PM
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Mega Super Mommy
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Join Date: Nov 2009
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Waiting to TTC is awful! But I do hope you get that BFP soon!
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December 2nd, 2010, 07:00 PM
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Veteran
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Join Date: Jul 2010
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Waiting for that first AF was so hard for me... I would go through time periods where I thought I was fine, and then just be horribly depressed for a few days. We've all been through it, and we're here for you.
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December 3rd, 2010, 07:41 AM
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Platinum Supermommy
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Join Date: Nov 2005
Location: Southern PA
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I feel that way sometimes too. It is normal and a part of the grieving process. In fact, I think you are much stronger than me. After my first loss I stayed in bed for 2 weeks crying. I hope AF comes fast for you!
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