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December 6th, 2010, 01:38 PM
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Platinum Supermommy
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Join Date: Jun 2009
Location: Edmonton AB, Canada
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Hey ladies, I don't want to go into all my details, but I belong here now  DH and I have been ttc our first since last April. I have PCOS and he has MFI and we have been working with an RE. I got my surprise BFP on Nov 19th and really thought AF was on her way. I had feelings right from the beginning that I shouldn't get too excited... but for awhile I let myself believe in it!
Anyway, my 1st beta was somewhat low, 46, second it went to 224, but the 3rd one 6 days later only went to 389  Today, 5 days after that it's 123. I've been spotting, and had some bleeding last night. So, right now, I'm just praying this all happens naturally and that's the best I can hope for. The nurse got me a follow up appt with the RE for Thurs which is bitter sweet... I don't have to wait, but it's my birthday So, I guess we'll find out then if we continue with Clomid and IUI or move on to the next step.
My saving grace in all of this is knowing we can get pregnant! Anyway, that's it for my quick intro, I look forward to meeting everyone here!
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December 6th, 2010, 01:51 PM
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Mega Super Mommy
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Join Date: Sep 2010
Location: New Hampshire
Posts: 2,936
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I am sorry for your loss This board is fantastic. Very supportive group of women here. I look forward to getting to know you.
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December 6th, 2010, 02:39 PM
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Mega Super Mommy
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Join Date: Nov 2009
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I'm so sorry for your loss I hope the RE can give you a plan to start moving forward right away!
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Thanks, Katie (.:Shortcake:.) for the adorable siggy!
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December 6th, 2010, 03:11 PM
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Mega Super Mommy
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Join Date: Jul 2009
Location: Virginia
Posts: 3,871
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Im so sorry for your loss. This is a wonderful group of ladies. I hope your stay is short and you get another BFP soon!!
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December 6th, 2010, 05:27 PM
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Platinum Supermommy
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Join Date: Mar 2008
Location: Alberta, Canada
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Tammy I am so sorry that this happened to you. If you have any questions please ask away. This board was my saving grace after my loss.
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December 6th, 2010, 05:45 PM
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Mega Super Mommy
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Join Date: Mar 2009
Posts: 1,708
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I am so sorry for your loss. The women here are great.
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December 6th, 2010, 05:46 PM
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Platinum Supermommy
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Join Date: Feb 2006
Location: MA
Posts: 22,162
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I'm so sorry for your loss! It's devastating.
Please post away, we can all support each other. hugs!
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December 7th, 2010, 04:50 AM
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Mega Super Mommy
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Join Date: Sep 2010
Location: The Heart of Rural England
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I'm so sorry for your loss hun
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Thank you Claire1979 for my beautiful siggy!
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December 7th, 2010, 05:28 AM
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Platinum Supermommy
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Join Date: May 2009
Location: Pennsylvania
Posts: 14,553
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Hugs! I am sorry for you loss hun.
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December 7th, 2010, 06:18 AM
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Platinum Supermommy
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Join Date: Sep 2008
Posts: 16,285
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I'm so sorry for your loss! I also hope the RE can help!
Welcome to the board!
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December 7th, 2010, 11:16 AM
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Member
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Join Date: Nov 2010
Posts: 49
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I'm new as well and although I do not post much, the people here are amazing and it has been a saving grace to hear the strength and positivity that people have for what we have been through. It has been inspiring and I know you will find that in the support here. I am so sorry for your loss.
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December 7th, 2010, 12:24 PM
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Mega Super Mommy
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Join Date: Nov 2010
Posts: 2,568
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I'm so sorry. The women here have been wonderful, but I hope you don't have to stay long.
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December 7th, 2010, 03:44 PM
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Super Mommy
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Join Date: Feb 2010
Location: Georgia
Posts: 548
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Sorry for your loss
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December 7th, 2010, 04:31 PM
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Waiting for our Miracle.
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Join Date: Jul 2010
Location: Clarence, Pa
Posts: 4,828
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Sorry for you loss
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December 7th, 2010, 04:37 PM
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Platinum Supermommy
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Join Date: Jun 2009
Location: Bethlehem, PA
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so very sorry for your loss. huge hugs~
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December 8th, 2010, 09:52 AM
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POAS Queen
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Join Date: Feb 2009
Location: San Diego, CA
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*sigh* I'm so sorry, Tammy I'm glad you have such an amazingly positive attitude. Thinking about the future helps -- it's what's helping me through all this, too. Sorry you landed here, but at least you knew where to go to find this group. I love my ladies here.
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With us on earth for five short days, with us in our hearts forever.
(Thank you Natasha for this beautiful graphic of Andrew, and to the ladies of the Nov 10 PR who help me in carrying on his memory.)
Jan. 2009: Came off years of BCP and started TTC
March 2010: BFP -- finally!
Oct. 22, 2010: Drew is born, but has to stay in the NICU because of cord complications resulting in oxygen deprivation and brain problems =(
Oct. 27, 2010: I held him in my arms while Daddy, Grandma, Great-Uncle and I sang him to sleep =( Hardest thing I've ever done...
June 14, 2011: Drew's baby brother or sister waved hi to us with a BFP!
June 25, 2011: Natural miscarriage... Can we please catch a break here?
Nov. 2011: 100mg Clomid followed by 2mg Estrogen, Ovidrel trigger, and 200mg progesterone suppositories 2x/day 14 days. BFN.
Dec. 2011: 2nd medicated cycle. BFN.
Jan. 2012: Took a month off to breathe...
Feb. 2012: Same regimen of Clomid and other meds, add IUI. 2 eggs and 8.5 million swimmers. BFN.
March 2012: 75 IU Follistim CD 3-11, follie scan CD 8 showed 6 follies likely to mature. Triggered, IUI on CD 14, 4 million swimmers. BFN.
April 2012: 75 IU Follistim CD 3-10. Scan showed 2 mature follies, 2 almost certain to mature, and two not likely but possible. (All 6 evenly and perfectly spaced out between the left and the right.) Triggered, IUI CD 13 with 5 million swimmers. BFN.
May 2012: 75 IU Follistim starting CD 3. Waiting to O. Timed intercourse. Likely 5 follies to mature.
^^ Click graphic for chart ^^
 
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December 8th, 2010, 10:21 AM
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Platinum Supermommy
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Join Date: Feb 2007
Location: huddersfield uk
Posts: 19,232
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so so sorry
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December 8th, 2010, 01:56 PM
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Platinum Supermommy
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Join Date: Nov 2005
Location: Southern PA
Posts: 13,228
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I am so sorry for your loss. We are here for you and understand.
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December 8th, 2010, 04:14 PM
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Veteran
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Join Date: Apr 2009
Posts: 213
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Hello....I am so very sorry for your loss. I as well just experienced a loss today and I am in total shock and really just stopped crying about an hour ago. We had a strong heartbeat last week and everything looked healthy and great at our 6 week 2 day apt. I went back this week and nothing....no heartbeat...no baby. Its just so very hard to understand and seems just so unfair. Trust me I know.....
If you need a friend to chat with I am here......and I am going through the same thing. I have not had any bleeding yet...they told me I will M/C in the next few weeks....great Christmas gift huh? Trying to find a piece of positivity from all of this to move forward with.
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Christina
ME--31
DH--38
Started TTC in June 2008
First RE appt. March 2009
Oct. 2010 - 14 Eggs Retrieved and 6 Fertilized with ICSI
November 4th - ET put back two Blasts!
November 16th - BFP!!!!!
December - M/C Lost Heartbeat
December 31st - 2nd Misscarrige with Ectopic Egg (2nd egg was missed in tubes )
May 4th - Starting Stims for second IVF Round! STICKY VIBES! 
May 17th - ET 13 Eggs Retrieved only Two Fertilized due to maturity. Put Back my TWO LUCKY CHARMS!
May 31st - Its official! 559 HCG Level! Im Pregnant! 
June 2nd - 2nd HCG Test we are now at 1145!! Yay it more than doubled! 
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December 8th, 2010, 04:43 PM
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Platinum Supermommy
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Join Date: Aug 2008
Posts: 10,638
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Tammy I'm so sorry to see you here.. but if you must be here then know that these ladies are really great with support and information 
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