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December 7th, 2010, 11:39 AM
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I had my ultrasound. The saw a subchorionic hematoma...which is what has been causing my bleeding. They saw the baby...measuring 7 weeks 2 days...which according to my LMP I'm 7 weeks today. What they did not see was the little heart beating. They didn't say for sure that I'm miscarried...but obviously that is what has happened. I had more blood work to see what my levels are doing. Re test again on Friday...then ultrasound again next week to confirm. I'm absolutely pissed. Angry at my body, angry at the doctors for making me wait, just angry right at this moment. I want to get it all over with.
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December 7th, 2010, 11:44 AM
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I am so, so sorry. I'm praying for a miracle for you.
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December 7th, 2010, 12:12 PM
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(((hugs))) I'm so sorry ...You know I had one in my last pregnancy, and the baby actually was alive and grew for 2 1/2 weeks before I miscarried...I also read that some pregnancy's can go on with an sch...I hope that that's the case for you and you get good news at your ultrasound next week.
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December 7th, 2010, 12:17 PM
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I'm so sorry, Amanda. I hope that it was just the angle of the u/s. (((hugs)))
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December 7th, 2010, 12:23 PM
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I don't have much to add other than I'm sorry honey.
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December 7th, 2010, 12:33 PM
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I am so very sorry. I have had that happen twice when I went in for u/s and did not see a heartbeat. My issue then was that the size showed that the baby died a few days prior or weeks in one occasion before. But the good sign is that the baby is measuring the right size so there is still some hope. Hang in there. It is not over yet. I am sorry you have to wait so long to see what is going on. Hopefully your levels will give a definitive answer and you will not have to wait for another week for the U/s.
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December 7th, 2010, 12:46 PM
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December 7th, 2010, 01:02 PM
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Oh Amanda- I'm so sorry! I'm holding out for a miracle and praying it was the angle. It is good that baby is measuring on time.
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December 7th, 2010, 01:45 PM
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Still rooting for you. Hoping it all works out. You have every right to feel angry. So sorry this is happening to you.
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December 7th, 2010, 01:45 PM
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I know it's hard holding out hope, but I am for you.
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December 7th, 2010, 01:47 PM
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I agree with the others - there is still hope. Hang in there
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December 7th, 2010, 01:52 PM
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Im sorry, I just want to offer hugs.
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December 7th, 2010, 02:25 PM
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I'm very sorry. Holding out hope for you too.
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December 7th, 2010, 02:41 PM
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Praying you hear good news at your next appointment. Will be thinking of you.
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December 7th, 2010, 03:09 PM
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Hugs Amanda! I'm praying it was just still to early for the heartbeat. I'm still holding out hope for you hun!
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December 7th, 2010, 03:31 PM
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i am just so very sorry you are going thru this. huge hugs~
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December 7th, 2010, 03:41 PM
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I am thinking of you - There is hope for your little one.
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December 7th, 2010, 05:22 PM
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sending you many thoughts and prayers....hugs!
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December 7th, 2010, 06:17 PM
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I agree with the others. I think there is still hope <3 I hate that you have to wait and all that It is hard to deal with the waiting when you just want to know for sure.

*hugs* praying for you and your little one!
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December 8th, 2010, 05:09 AM
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Thanks everybody. I wish I still had hope but...7 weeks. I would expect the heart to be beating now. And since the baby is measuring 7 weeks 2 days I'm pretty sure it either stopped beating or never started. I just want to get this all over with. It totally sucks.
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