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December 8th, 2010, 04:08 PM
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Hi Ladies,

I am joining on this board for a while, I was part of the TTC with Medical Assistance group. I had IVF back in October and November was the transfer date. We had a nice BFP in November and strong HCG numbers of 322 527 and up.....saw the first strong heartbeat last week...good size.

Unfortunatley we went back in today and we had no heartbeat and no sign of a baby. Its so hard to understand what happens and why. We had finally come so far and I just am still in shoke that this is happening.

So....how do you move on...?? I am trying to be strong and think positive for the future tries we have left and I am terrified. Right now I have to wait out the M/C...hopefully that wont take too long. For some reason I dont have it in my heart to do an DNC.
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December 8th, 2010, 06:54 PM
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I'm so sorry for your loss.

It is quite shocking the way things happen. My story is similar...made it up to about 8 weeks, healthy baby on u/s, saw heart beating, began to spot a little and went in next day and bam.....nothing, no more heartbeat!

It's devastating! I hope you can find some comfort knowing that we are all in the same boat. big hugs!
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December 8th, 2010, 09:11 PM
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Wow, I'm so sorry you're having to go through this I wish I had the answers for you I pray everything happens naturally for you so you don't have to worry about a DNC over Christmas!

I'm new to the board as well, wish we were joining a different board together...
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December 9th, 2010, 03:09 AM
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I am very sorry for your loss.
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December 9th, 2010, 05:50 AM
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I have had that happen twice and I know the devastation. But the desire to have a baby is what holds you together and keeps you focused on the future and trying again. It will happen for you in God's perfect timing. Keep the faith and hang in there.
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December 9th, 2010, 06:28 AM
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I am so sorry for your loss. We cry a lot together in here and listen to each other vent. We all understand the true pain of pregnancy loss and that is the initial bond that brings us all together as a group. It is hope for the future that keeps us going. ((Hugs)) We are here for you.
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December 9th, 2010, 07:01 AM
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I"m very sorry for your loss.

I had a similar situation. Naturally conceived twins, heartbeat heard at 10w4d and no heartbeat seen on US at 11weeks.

It's very hard to deal with, and moving on takes time. But day by day it will get better. The ladies on this board helped me alot. GL.
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December 9th, 2010, 07:13 AM
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It is so hard to figure out how to move on. I was stuck with that question for a long time and often I still am. So I know what you are feeling - I really hope you find comfort with the ladies here and the positive vibes they give.
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December 9th, 2010, 07:27 AM
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So sorry for you loss.
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December 9th, 2010, 08:33 AM
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I'm so sorry for your loss.
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December 9th, 2010, 08:45 AM
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I'm so sorry for your loss It is devastating to see a healthy heartbeat and have it disappear.
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December 9th, 2010, 09:57 AM
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i am so very sorry for your loss. ((hugs))
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