Hello ladies...UPDATE

maryslittlelambs · #1 December 11th, 2010, 02:20 PM

UPDATE: Finally got a pos OPK this evening. Of course DH says he's sick...not sure if I'll get anything out of him tonight...and of course we haven't DTD in like a week, so no chances there. MEN!

Hello ladies, I'd love to join your group if you would have me.
My name is Mary, age 38 and mom to four great kids ages 12, 10, 8 and 1 1/2. I have had three losses, the most recent on October 22nd at 14 weeks. DH and I want to try for one last one, but with my age, recent loss, PCOS, etc. it will probably prove difficult, although we did get pregnant with my last angel the first month we tried.

Anyway, I hope you don't mind me asking for some advice first off...I'm hoping someone can help.

Like I said, my MC was October 22nd.( I had a D&C) I had bleeding for about 2 weeks, and had faint positive tests for about 1 week after that. I had what I thought was AF for 3 days starting Nov. 18th. I then had spotting a week after, and then just started spotting again yesterday (almost like pink CM). I've been taking OPK's for about 3 weeks and haven't gotten a positive, although I have had some sort of line each time I've tested.
The OB never did any follow up HCG although I wish they had.
Anyway, after my first two miscarriages I never had any of these issues, I'm guessing because I wasn't as far along, but I was hoping you guys had some ideas.

thanks for everything ladies. I am looking forward to getting to know all of you and seeing your BFPs!

tobi4 · #2 December 11th, 2010, 06:48 PM

Mary, Im so sorry for your losses. I dont have any answers for you but I do want to welcome you to ttcal. You will find some of the most generous of heart women here, that you could ever hope for. I hope you get some answers soon!

*Tracy* · #3 December 12th, 2010, 02:22 AM

hi mary i remeber u from the may 2009 ddc, im so sorry about ur loss and i hope u get a bfp real soon

avasmom603 · #4 December 12th, 2010, 03:49 AM

Aw, so sorry for your losses. I hope you can find comfort in coming here

missy123 · #5 December 12th, 2010, 09:19 AM

I am so sorry for your losses. If I were you I would call your OB. It seems that your bleeding should have stopped by now and I would ask for a check up. It may be nothing but it is better to be looked at in case there is any retained tissue from the D&C. ((Hugs)) and welcome.

maryslittlelambs · #6 December 12th, 2010, 03:32 PM

Thank you everyone for your welcome and advice. I have to wait until Christmas break to get into the doctor. Hopefully things will resolve themselves soon (Or I have a bfp).