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December 23rd, 2010, 06:49 AM
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Tobi
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I am so nervous and scared! Ive been crampy~achey since the day I got my bfp a week ago. So finally after being awake for 2 hours last night, with the pain, I finally called my RE this morning. They have me on bed rest now, and I have to go in for an ultrasound today at 2pm. I am praying that I have some leftover cyst or something on my ovary to account for the pain. I know that Ill be worried about this little one for a long while yet, but add to it the pain and same cramping that I had with my loss and Im totally a basket case.
Please keep us in your thoughts and prayers....
Last edited by tobi4; December 24th, 2010 at 01:16 PM.
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December 23rd, 2010, 07:14 AM
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Mega Super Mommy
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Hang in there Tobi! Cramping is pretty normal in early pregnancy. I had it pretty bad at times up until about 5-6 weeks. Alot worse than AF cramps. I know it dosent make it any less stressfull. I think your bean is just really snuggling in and gettin comfy. I will be thinking about you and keeping you and bean in my prayers. Update as soon as you can. HUGZ!!
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December 23rd, 2010, 07:34 AM
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Platinum Supermommy
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 I never remembered it being that bad with my other pregnancies. Mine has finally let up, just to be replaced with different pains to make me worry. All you can do is enjoy being pregnant, even if it is just at this moment. Just enjoy every second of it and eventually, there'll come a moment when you realize you aren't worried anymore. I hope everything looks good. Don't worry more if they don't see much this early, just enjoy the fact that right now you are pg.
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December 23rd, 2010, 07:48 AM
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I will pray that your little one is just burrowing in nice and deep  I hope that everything turns out fine with your ultrasound today. I doubt you will stop worrying, no matter what, but I know you know that we all know that feeling. Good luck dear
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December 23rd, 2010, 08:23 AM
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Praying for you and your bean Tobi! Try to stay positive for the LO.
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December 23rd, 2010, 08:55 AM
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I had massive cramping pain from the cysts with DS. Also had it with the last pregnancy too.
Glad they are getting you in for an US to put your mind at ease!!!
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December 23rd, 2010, 09:22 AM
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so glad that they are getting you in today. pray that the u/s sets your mind at ease and the time FLIES by as you wait for your appointment. waiting is the worst part....
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December 23rd, 2010, 09:58 AM
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hugs hun. i will keep you and bean in my thoughts.
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December 23rd, 2010, 10:06 AM
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Platinum Supermommy
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Good Luck with your ultrasound today, Praying for you Tobi!
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December 23rd, 2010, 01:18 PM
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Awe I'm sorry Tobi, I've had a ton of cramping so far and its unnerving. It's hard not to think about anything else when the cramps are there, its like a nagging feeling.... but the more I read the more I felt better. It's entirely normal and one thing I read is that it should be a reassurance that things are progressing normally that the baby or babies are burrowing in there along with 5he physical changes of the uterus. Which I chuckled about because we're not relaxed creatures after all that we've been thru!
Hope to hear an update as soon as you can honey, always praying
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December 23rd, 2010, 02:20 PM
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Tobi
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Thank you ladies, for all of your continuing support. This board is like coming home.
My ultrasound went ok, as far as I could tell. The ultrasound tech isnt really allowed to tell us anything, so we have an appointment tomorrow morning at 8:40am. But she did show us a few things on the ultrasound and we saw the sac. I asked her, "So you see just one then, right?" And her response was .. So far.
hmmmm what the heck does that mean lol. I wouldnt be surprised if there turns out to be 2 after that, especially when she was very specific about not expecting to see anything!
She did however say there are no cysts, so theres no easy reason for all the cramping. They still want me off my feet. Ill update tomorrow after I see the Dr!!
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December 23rd, 2010, 02:25 PM
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You're always in my prayers! I hope the cramping is just your bean burrowing in for a 9 month journey!
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December 23rd, 2010, 05:37 PM
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WOW well so far so good Tobi, I wouldn't doubt if you're having twins... how was the beginning of your pregnancy with your twins? Lots of cramps and stuff? Would you say it's anything similar to this pregnancy?
I'm so glad you're getting an update tomorrow...  at least it's less than 24hrs away!!!
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December 23rd, 2010, 05:50 PM
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Mega Super Mommy
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Sounds like things are ok for now which is a relief.....I hope the cramping lets up soon....hang in there!
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December 23rd, 2010, 07:14 PM
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I really hope you get great news tomorrow from the dr. Thinking of you.
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December 23rd, 2010, 07:20 PM
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Good luck, hoping for good news for you tomorrow!
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December 23rd, 2010, 07:47 PM
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Kewl, a sack! Looking forward to more good news tomorrow.
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December 23rd, 2010, 07:57 PM
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Mega Super Mommy
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Hope you continue to get nothing but good news!
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December 24th, 2010, 02:05 AM
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I'm so glad you got in and got a scan and that would be so wonderful to be pregnant with twins.
Keeping you and baby in prayer.
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December 24th, 2010, 09:39 AM
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Tobi
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The Dr said the scan looked good, happy they saw the sac, but obviously still early. And he suggested taking a low dose aspirin each day. So I feel more positive, glad to be doing something that could help! Still crampy. Just wait and see what happens is all he really said.. Bah!
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