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December 29th, 2010, 07:54 AM
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Platinum Supermommy
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Join Date: Feb 2006
Location: MA
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UGH, I can't handle this TTC business! I really just want to give up and cry and cry. It's SO frustrating!! 
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December 29th, 2010, 07:58 AM
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Mega Super Mommy
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Location: Kansas City
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Me too girl!!!!!!!!!! I hear ya. We are all here for you so complain away!
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December 29th, 2010, 08:16 AM
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Platinum Supermommy
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Location: New Jersey
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I hear ya! I'll cry with you if you want! Vent away.
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December 29th, 2010, 08:19 AM
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Platinum Supermommy
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Join Date: Feb 2006
Location: MA
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Thank you! Its nice to know I'm not going completely crazy with my emotions!
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December 29th, 2010, 08:39 AM
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Platinum Supermommy
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Join Date: Aug 2008
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I almost DID cry yesterday as I was frantically searching for my pre-seed (took 15 minutes for both of us to find it) It totally sucks!
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December 29th, 2010, 08:45 AM
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Platinum Supermommy
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Join Date: Nov 2005
Location: Southern PA
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I lost track of how many times I cried while TTC... ((Hugs))
Can you do something nice for yourself today to try to get through it?
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December 29th, 2010, 08:54 AM
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Waiting for our Miracle.
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Location: Clarence, Pa
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All of us understand how you are feeling and we are all here for you to cry on. I am feeling the same way.
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December 29th, 2010, 09:02 AM
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Proud JM hostess
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Join Date: Jul 2009
Location: @ JM if I'm not at work
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I'm with Missy, there have been so many tears shed during this whole process and journey it's unreal... I could have supplied a woman made lake. I still have my moments, it's just an emotional time, period!
It's ok, let it out... cry, bawl, sob uncontrollably... then pick yourself up, dust yourself off and get back on that peverbial horse! You can do this!!
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December 29th, 2010, 09:24 AM
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Platinum Supermommy
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(((hugs)))) we all understand
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 Forever Missing My Baby Girl Ella Grace Born Sleeping October 14, 2009
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December 29th, 2010, 10:29 AM
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Platinum Supermommy
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Join Date: Jul 2008
Location: Texas
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 we have all been there...it sucks...
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December 29th, 2010, 11:49 AM
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Veteran
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Join Date: May 2009
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As crazy as this may sound...I still cry sometimes and I am not even ttc. No joke when I hear of people who get pregnant super fast or have baby after baby without ever having a mc it makes me sad. I am so blessed to have 2 healthy boys but when think about the journey it still is hard. As much as you might hate to hear this but not it does happen when you are not trying and least expect it. All the stress really affects your body, I know from first hand experience. Please don't hate me for saying this.
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December 29th, 2010, 12:01 PM
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POAS Queen
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Join Date: Feb 2009
Location: San Diego, CA
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Let it all out, girl.
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With us on earth for five short days, with us in our hearts forever.
(Thank you Natasha for this beautiful graphic of Andrew, and to the ladies of the Nov 10 PR who help me in carrying on his memory.)
Jan. 2009: Came off years of BCP and started TTC
March 2010: BFP -- finally!
Oct. 22, 2010: Drew is born, but has to stay in the NICU because of cord complications resulting in oxygen deprivation and brain problems =(
Oct. 27, 2010: I held him in my arms while Daddy, Grandma, Great-Uncle and I sang him to sleep =( Hardest thing I've ever done...
June 14, 2011: Drew's baby brother or sister waved hi to us with a BFP!
June 25, 2011: Natural miscarriage... Can we please catch a break here?
Nov. 2011: 100mg Clomid followed by 2mg Estrogen, Ovidrel trigger, and 200mg progesterone suppositories 2x/day 14 days. BFN.
Dec. 2011: 2nd medicated cycle. BFN.
Jan. 2012: Took a month off to breathe...
Feb. 2012: Same regimen of Clomid and other meds, add IUI. 2 eggs and 8.5 million swimmers. BFN.
March 2012: 75 IU Follistim CD 3-11, follie scan CD 8 showed 6 follies likely to mature. Triggered, IUI on CD 14, 4 million swimmers. BFN.
April 2012: 75 IU Follistim CD 3-10. Scan showed 2 mature follies, 2 almost certain to mature, and two not likely but possible. (All 6 evenly and perfectly spaced out between the left and the right.) Triggered, IUI CD 13 with 5 million swimmers. BFN.
May 2012: 75 IU Follistim starting CD 3. Waiting to O. Timed intercourse. Likely 5 follies to mature.
^^ Click graphic for chart ^^
 
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December 29th, 2010, 12:55 PM
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Wife/Mommy/Photographer
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Location: Oneida, TN
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I understand <3 It is really hard.
I was in a doctors office today and this woman had a newborn...it was so tiny. Then I thought about how I should have a newborn right now and started crying
TTC is a lot of work and heartache sometimes...even moreso when you experience losses.
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December 29th, 2010, 01:51 PM
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Mega Super Mommy
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Join Date: Nov 2009
Posts: 4,944
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TTC is so hard. It's awful. 
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