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December 30th, 2010, 09:14 AM
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Mega Super Mommy
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Gotten any betas done?
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December 30th, 2010, 10:02 AM
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Hi Michelle,
I decided not to go and get betas done. I know this sounds crazy but I don't want to go to the doctors yet. When I was pregnant last time my betas were perfect and I still lost the baby due to implantation.
Right now my husband is so happy and being so adorable that even if this baby doesn't make it I want him to enjoy every second of this pregnancy without the worry. He actually cleaned the livingroom yesterday and he has never cleaned, ever! He is so excited. I went food shopping last night and he wouldn't let me lift a thing. He keeps talking about the baby.
I will call the doctors next week and see what they say to do, I am sure they will ask me to come in.
I just want to enjoy this happy, fantasy life for a little while more.
What do you honestly think?
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December 30th, 2010, 10:17 AM
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I totally understand what you are saying. I think you should wait as long as you need to. KUP though, I'm eagerly awaiting your good results.!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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December 30th, 2010, 10:34 AM
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Quote:
Originally Posted by missy123
I decided not to go and get betas done. I know this sounds crazy but I don't want to go to the doctors yet. When I was pregnant last time my betas were perfect and I still lost the baby due to implantation.
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I just want to enjoy this happy, fantasy life for a little while more.
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I think this is a great attitude. It's how I hope I will be next time I am pregnant. Intellectually, I would like to believe that I will not allow this other negative event to affect any future events, but I won't really know until I am actually going through it. I am glad you're enjoying it though!
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December 30th, 2010, 10:35 AM
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Michelle - You and Kary are very bad girls! I called the doctors office and have an appointment Monday morning. Oh My husband is happy I decided to go to.
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December 30th, 2010, 10:55 AM
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I think having a positive attitude is great! I hope that next time i'm pregnant I can think that way too. GL at your appointment monday!!!
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December 30th, 2010, 11:01 AM
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You can still have fun being pregnant after a loss.... We are making dreams and plans. I feel like if we lose this baby we are more prepared to deal with the pain so we might as well enjoy every second we can!
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December 30th, 2010, 11:25 AM
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Mega Super Mommy
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No loss talk Missy, this one is it.
I'm a pusher, so whether it's poas or getting beta's, i'm like a bad afterschool special.
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December 30th, 2010, 01:34 PM
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I am there with you Missy...I decided not to get beta's done this time and I have to say that it hasn't been as hard as I thought it would be. I am over 5 weeks now, no cramping and no more spotting...so for now in my mind things are good. Next wed is my ultrasound and we will find out then if I have cause to worry or not. My doc isn't a huge "beta" man and I have to say I don't mind.... 
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December 30th, 2010, 01:59 PM
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I love your attitude Missy. The next time we get pregnant I hope to have your attitude. Good Luck on your appointment on Monday.
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December 30th, 2010, 02:31 PM
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OMG Missy you are preggers!! I am so very excited for your right now. Saying lots of prayers for a beautiful sticky bean. I can't wait to hear your good updates! Sounds like hubby is being adorable. That is so nice. Enjoy every minute hun you deserve it.
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