[Braysmomma03]

Well after getting good news at the ER thursday I started spotting heavier today and cramping some so I am heading this way. It sucks because as I was crying DH tells me "It is what it is and im not going to get all sad on my 2 days off over this" so basically im sitting here crying and alone.

[Joanna1127]

I'm so sorry for your loss.

I can also relate a bit on the lack of support from DH. Mine just tells me that it will happen when it happens and not to be sad. GRR!

[ohnicole]

I'm so sorry Your DH's comment is horrible. Your lost little one is so much more important than his days off. I wish he was more supportive for you.

[lindsey2000k]

I am so sorry.
My DH was this way with my first loss. His comment as we are leaving the DR office was "good now I can stop on the way home and get a cycle tradder and by a 4 wheeler now".
I think this is just how men deal with it.

My last loss he went and bought some remote control truck. I think its his way of keeping his mind off of it.
But he has expressed how he did want this baby and it did hurt him. My DH just needed to grow up.

[asunflower]

I am sorry for your loss. It is so hard for DH to understand. They have their own way of coping with it. Thank goodness we have places like this to come and vent and get the support we need.