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January 4th, 2011, 05:12 PM
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Platinum Supermommy
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Join Date: Feb 2006
Location: MA
Posts: 22,162
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AF arrived today.  We're onto cycle 3.
I'm so drained by this all and can't help but wonder if there's something wrong. Do you think there is?? I got pregnant very quickly my last 2 pregnancies, now this....
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January 4th, 2011, 05:23 PM
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Mega Super Mommy
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Join Date: Nov 2009
Posts: 4,944
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I am so sorry that AF showed I know it is unbelievably hard, but please don't worry. It is absolutely normal for it to take several months to get another BFP. 
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January 4th, 2011, 05:43 PM
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POAS Queen
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Join Date: Feb 2009
Location: San Diego, CA
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You only have about a 20-25% chance of actually getting pregnant each month, even if you do everything right. Three cycles sucks when you thought you were gonna have a BFP so quickly, and especially after a loss, but there's no reason to think anything is wrong 
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With us on earth for five short days, with us in our hearts forever.
(Thank you Natasha for this beautiful graphic of Andrew, and to the ladies of the Nov 10 PR who help me in carrying on his memory.)
Jan. 2009: Came off years of BCP and started TTC
March 2010: BFP -- finally!
Oct. 22, 2010: Drew is born, but has to stay in the NICU because of cord complications resulting in oxygen deprivation and brain problems =(
Oct. 27, 2010: I held him in my arms while Daddy, Grandma, Great-Uncle and I sang him to sleep =( Hardest thing I've ever done...
June 14, 2011: Drew's baby brother or sister waved hi to us with a BFP!
June 25, 2011: Natural miscarriage... Can we please catch a break here?
Nov. 2011: 100mg Clomid followed by 2mg Estrogen, Ovidrel trigger, and 200mg progesterone suppositories 2x/day 14 days. BFN.
Dec. 2011: 2nd medicated cycle. BFN.
Jan. 2012: Took a month off to breathe...
Feb. 2012: Same regimen of Clomid and other meds, add IUI. 2 eggs and 8.5 million swimmers. BFN.
March 2012: 75 IU Follistim CD 3-11, follie scan CD 8 showed 6 follies likely to mature. Triggered, IUI on CD 14, 4 million swimmers. BFN.
April 2012: 75 IU Follistim CD 3-10. Scan showed 2 mature follies, 2 almost certain to mature, and two not likely but possible. (All 6 evenly and perfectly spaced out between the left and the right.) Triggered, IUI CD 13 with 5 million swimmers. BFN.
May 2012: 75 IU Follistim starting CD 3. Waiting to O. Timed intercourse. Likely 5 follies to mature.
^^ Click graphic for chart ^^
 
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January 4th, 2011, 05:44 PM
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Platinum Supermommy
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Join Date: May 2009
Location: Pennsylvania
Posts: 14,553
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Hugs! I hope you get your sticky BFP soon. I know it's frustrating waiting month after month.
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January 4th, 2011, 06:09 PM
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Platinum Supermommy
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Join Date: Nov 2005
Location: Southern PA
Posts: 13,228
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So sorry Sometimes it takes our bodies a few cycles to get back on track after a loss. Try to keep your head up and not get too frustrated.
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January 4th, 2011, 06:28 PM
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Platinum Supermommy
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Join Date: Mar 2008
Posts: 11,542
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(((hugs))) I know it's frustrating, but hopefully it wont take much longer...I'm also on my 3rd cycle, and it's NEVER taken me more than 3 months to get pregnant in the past, so it worries me too.
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January 4th, 2011, 07:34 PM
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Mega Super Mommy
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Join Date: Nov 2010
Posts: 2,568
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I'm sorry for the BFN and the frustration. Just think that your body is doing what it needs to get ready for a healthy pregnancy.
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January 5th, 2011, 05:25 AM
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Platinum Supermommy
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Join Date: Nov 2010
Location: Ohio
Posts: 5,185
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I am so sorry
I know how you feel this is the first time Its taken me longer than a month to get pregnant. Acually I had 2 opps and DD was planned and she happen the first month.
If A/F shows next week I will be going onto cycle 4.
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January 5th, 2011, 05:53 AM
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Waiting for our Miracle.
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Join Date: Jul 2010
Location: Clarence, Pa
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I am sorry that af arrived. I can't say anything more then what has already been said. Try to keep you head up.
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January 5th, 2011, 06:19 AM
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Platinum Supermommy
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Join Date: Sep 2008
Posts: 16,285
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I'm sorry! I was going to post exactly what Erin did. You have to remember that you only have a 20-25% chance of conceiving each month.
Hope this next cycle is it for you!!
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