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January 5th, 2011, 05:48 AM
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I went to my first midwife appointment at 9 weeks thinking everything was ok and it was just going to be a regualr visit.
Thats when I learned my baby had no heartbeat and had stopped growing 5 days earlier.
I seems it was just yeasterday it happen and then again it also feels like the longest 3 months of my life trying to TTC again.
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January 5th, 2011, 05:54 AM
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Waiting for our Miracle.
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Sorry Lindsey. Here's hoping you get BFP real soon.
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January 5th, 2011, 06:09 AM
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January 5th, 2011, 06:33 AM
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Mega Super Mommy
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I'm so sorry. 
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January 5th, 2011, 06:52 AM
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(((hugs)))
I understand, monday was 5 months since my last miscarriage...Seems like so long ago, but at the same time it seems just like yesterday.
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January 5th, 2011, 06:58 AM
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Mega Super Mommy
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I'm so sorry. Anniversaries suck. That same day that you found out, I was in the ER with my first miscarriage with severe abdominal pain, and I miscarried a couple days later. I hope you get your healthy, sticky BFP soon!
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January 5th, 2011, 10:09 AM
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I know! It is so not fair how long ago that feels when you are trying to get pregnant. And how short three months ago would feel like if it were an upcoming visit from my MIL  I hope you get that BFP soon (like in a couple days!)
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January 5th, 2011, 10:18 AM
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January 5th, 2011, 11:10 AM
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I just found an old blog of mine yesterday. I only made three posts in it, but those posts were so happy. I feel like I'm a different person from the girl who wrote those things... It's strange.
Really, REALLY HOPING that you have a BFP in a couple days! I'm sorry today's rough on you 
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With us on earth for five short days, with us in our hearts forever.
(Thank you Natasha for this beautiful graphic of Andrew, and to the ladies of the Nov 10 PR who help me in carrying on his memory.)
Jan. 2009: Came off years of BCP and started TTC
March 2010: BFP -- finally!
Oct. 22, 2010: Drew is born, but has to stay in the NICU because of cord complications resulting in oxygen deprivation and brain problems =(
Oct. 27, 2010: I held him in my arms while Daddy, Grandma, Great-Uncle and I sang him to sleep =( Hardest thing I've ever done...
June 14, 2011: Drew's baby brother or sister waved hi to us with a BFP!
June 25, 2011: Natural miscarriage... Can we please catch a break here?
Nov. 2011: 100mg Clomid followed by 2mg Estrogen, Ovidrel trigger, and 200mg progesterone suppositories 2x/day 14 days. BFN.
Dec. 2011: 2nd medicated cycle. BFN.
Jan. 2012: Took a month off to breathe...
Feb. 2012: Same regimen of Clomid and other meds, add IUI. 2 eggs and 8.5 million swimmers. BFN.
March 2012: 75 IU Follistim CD 3-11, follie scan CD 8 showed 6 follies likely to mature. Triggered, IUI on CD 14, 4 million swimmers. BFN.
April 2012: 75 IU Follistim CD 3-10. Scan showed 2 mature follies, 2 almost certain to mature, and two not likely but possible. (All 6 evenly and perfectly spaced out between the left and the right.) Triggered, IUI CD 13 with 5 million swimmers. BFN.
May 2012: 75 IU Follistim starting CD 3. Waiting to O. Timed intercourse. Likely 5 follies to mature.
^^ Click graphic for chart ^^
 
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January 5th, 2011, 11:47 AM
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Erin, I know I am totally changed after each pregnancy and loss.
I remember being pregnant with my first and saying I was never going to breastfeed and this and that.
I went on to get pregnant again and had DD and I nursed her for 2.5 years and was a homemade Babyfood making, baby wearing momma..lol
I do think I have become a very bitter person and try so hard to not be a debbie downer. I do seem to come off as rude or negative to a lot of people and don't mean to... so that is something I am trying to work on.
Thanks Ladies... Tomorrow marks the day that I had the D&E... I acually count that day as my Angelversary because its the day my angel left my body. Even though he or she passed away days before that.
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January 5th, 2011, 12:41 PM
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Quote:
Originally Posted by lindsey2000k
I do think I have become a very bitter person and try so hard to not be a debbie downer. .
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I feel you. I have become very bitter also. I cry every time we go into Wal-Mart or Target and pass by the baby isle. I loathe every pregnant woman I see. I am trying my hardest to stop feeling this way. I do have my up and down days though. Give it time. I am taking it day by day.
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January 5th, 2011, 12:49 PM
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Hugs I know how you feel
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January 5th, 2011, 01:21 PM
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Mega Super Mommy
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Lindsey, I am so sorry.
It has been about 3.5 months since my D&C and not even 2 weeks since my last loss. I am even more different than I was 3 weeks ago when I knew I was pregnant. Now I know I can lose more babies than I can keep. I thought that I was okay after this last one and that trying again right away is what I want. But the anger, pain, and fear have really started to come out. I'm considering counseling.
Just know how you feel...
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