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January 5th, 2011, 05:36 PM
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Ok guys, this is going to be way TMI but when I m/c the twins I wasn't this far along so this has never happened. I went to the potty today and a huge long greyish thing come out. Im freaking out since I know I passed the sac and the sac wasent seen Tuesday on the ultrasound. What could this be??
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January 5th, 2011, 05:37 PM
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I'm sorry, I can't help you because I had a D&C with my loss  I hope some of the other girls can help you out.
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January 5th, 2011, 06:16 PM
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I'm thinking maybe a part of the placenta? When I passed my baby everything was attached together, sac, placenta etc, and the placenta part was kind of greyish on the outside.
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January 5th, 2011, 06:19 PM
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I lost the baby at 6weeks exactly, would there be a placenta? I don't know this all has me freaked out, the smaller things didn't worry me but this thing was bigger than my hand
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January 5th, 2011, 06:24 PM
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There a lot of Goop up there that comes out. I remember passing something during one of my miscarriages that looked like a sea urchin. I was completely freaked out but found out that it was normal. I hope this helps.
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January 5th, 2011, 06:41 PM
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Originally Posted by mmllhh
... that looked like a sea urchin...
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Ok, so this is probably in bad taste, but this made me giggle. I have a very visual and slightly twisted mind.
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January 5th, 2011, 06:58 PM
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That I have to say is part of the sac....
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January 5th, 2011, 07:01 PM
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I have had similar experiences with some of my miscarriages. With my second one things came out that were down right alien, after the baby had already gone. So I think it's probably ok to have that. Better to have that out...
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January 5th, 2011, 07:05 PM
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Sorry guys just really freaked me out, ive never has a miscarriage that i actually passed more than just blood and that thing fell out and i was like OMG my uterus fell out  I feel like death anymore because of this whole thing and I can barely eat. Thanks so much for your input!
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January 5th, 2011, 07:24 PM
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I'm sorry that I don't have more to say... I have lost that several times. It's unfortunately normal didn't think it was either when I saw it and was like HOLY ****!
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January 5th, 2011, 07:31 PM
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I passed something like that with my loss too. I wouldn't worry about it.
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January 5th, 2011, 07:36 PM
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Lol I came running out of the bathroom screaming OMG MY UTERUS FELL OUT. The bleeding seems to be easing up thank god. I am so ready for the bleeding to stop and get back to feeling like my self again...im just so drained anymore doing anything but laying in bed is hard
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January 5th, 2011, 07:55 PM
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I'm so sorry . . . this would freak me out too, however "normal" they say it may be!
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January 5th, 2011, 08:12 PM
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I really think doctors should be more involved in miscarriages, instead of just sending girls home saying you will bleed and pass clots, let them know there are going to be sci-fi looking things going on. No one told me anything to expect and its horrible
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January 6th, 2011, 06:38 AM
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I am sorry. I remember calling my friend who lived next store to come look at m toilet. I am sure it was TMI overboard for her but I just wanted someone to see it incase I died or something to explane what was going on. I was not told anything nothing about bleeding or clots. I just remember going potty and the toilet would be RED and I was possing tissue looking stuff.
My last loss was a D&C so I don't have the 2 to compaire.
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January 6th, 2011, 07:03 AM
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My loss at 7.5 weeks I had some larger clot/tissue looking stuff. it is normal.
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January 6th, 2011, 08:03 AM
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The bleeding seems to be slowing down alot so Im sure it was normal since im not dead. I was so scared to go to bed last night
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January 6th, 2011, 08:55 AM
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The bleeding seems to be slowing down alot so Im sure it was normal since im not dead. I was so scared to go to bed last night
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I am glad you are ok and so sorry the doctor did not prepare you for this. ((Hugs)). It is scary and emotionally taxing. If you just want to stay in bed then do it, you need to take care of you right now.
We are here for you.
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January 6th, 2011, 09:07 AM
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huge hugs. it's all normal. it's freakish what all comes out even when there is "nothing" else in there.
hopefully that was the last of it and you can begin the healing part~
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January 6th, 2011, 01:14 PM
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So I really, really, really hope that no one will ever have to go through a miscarriage ever again. That would be a perfect world, right? But if something like this ever happens again, it's perfectly okay to put it in a plastic baggy and bring it to your doc's office for reassurance if it's really worrisome. I passed a HUGE clot after Drew was born, it looked like the lips of my vagina had fallen off, I was freaking out, it was on the toilet paper... So I set the whole mess aside and asked a nurse to come look at it, and she and my doc both confirmed that it was totally normal.
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Jan. 2009: Came off years of BCP and started TTC
March 2010: BFP -- finally!
Oct. 22, 2010: Drew is born, but has to stay in the NICU because of cord complications resulting in oxygen deprivation and brain problems =(
Oct. 27, 2010: I held him in my arms while Daddy, Grandma, Great-Uncle and I sang him to sleep =( Hardest thing I've ever done...
June 14, 2011: Drew's baby brother or sister waved hi to us with a BFP!
June 25, 2011: Natural miscarriage... Can we please catch a break here?
Nov. 2011: 100mg Clomid followed by 2mg Estrogen, Ovidrel trigger, and 200mg progesterone suppositories 2x/day 14 days. BFN.
Dec. 2011: 2nd medicated cycle. BFN.
Jan. 2012: Took a month off to breathe...
Feb. 2012: Same regimen of Clomid and other meds, add IUI. 2 eggs and 8.5 million swimmers. BFN.
March 2012: 75 IU Follistim CD 3-11, follie scan CD 8 showed 6 follies likely to mature. Triggered, IUI on CD 14, 4 million swimmers. BFN.
April 2012: 75 IU Follistim CD 3-10. Scan showed 2 mature follies, 2 almost certain to mature, and two not likely but possible. (All 6 evenly and perfectly spaced out between the left and the right.) Triggered, IUI CD 13 with 5 million swimmers. BFN.
May 2012: 75 IU Follistim starting CD 3. Waiting to O. Timed intercourse. Likely 5 follies to mature.
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