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January 5th, 2011, 10:37 PM
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Lovin my baby girl
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Join Date: Jan 2011
Posts: 487
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Wondering if I can join you ladies? I am pregnant at the moment but there is not much chance it will last much longer. On monday my HCG was 115 and 48 hours later it was 117  ! I have another draw on Friday AM then talk to the doc about where to go from here Friday PM. I have had a previous ectopic in Oct 2009 in which I lost my left tube and a pregnancy that was not viable for unknown reasons in May 2010. No one besides me, fiance, and doctor know I am pregnant irl and I plan on keeping it that way if this pregnancy does not last. I'll just tell people I am sick. I just can't handle the "I'm sorry's" yet again. So I'll need support from ladies who know what I am going through.
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January 6th, 2011, 03:22 AM
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Waiting for our Miracle.
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Join Date: Jul 2010
Location: Clarence, Pa
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 Sorry you are going through this. You will fine out that all the ladies on this board are very caring and you can lean on us.
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January 6th, 2011, 04:19 AM
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Platinum Supermommy
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Join Date: May 2009
Location: Pennsylvania
Posts: 14,553
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Welcome to the board. I am very sorry for your loss. HUGS! This board is full of amazing ladies that are super supportive. Any questions/concerns you might have please feel free to ask us.
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January 6th, 2011, 04:31 AM
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Mega Super Mommy
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Join Date: Oct 2008
Location: Montreal
Posts: 3,168
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Welcome. I'm so sorry you're going through this, but know that you'll find lots of support and understanding here.
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Forever missing our angel November 9, 2010, with us for 9 weeks
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January 6th, 2011, 05:03 AM
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Weiner Dogs Rock!
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Join Date: Jul 2010
Location: Maryland
Posts: 7,682
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Welcome. We hate new people!  . I mean in the sense that you have to come to our board because of a loss. We would love to get to know you and have you join our sad, happy, frustrating, joyous, impatient, obsessive roller coaster to a rainbow baby. I hope your stay is short, but sweet.
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Big thanks to tasha_mae for my perfect siggy!
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January 6th, 2011, 05:23 AM
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Mega Super Mommy
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Join Date: Nov 2010
Posts: 2,568
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I'm sorry that you are going through this. I'm going through it right now, too. Like you, most of the people I know don't know what happened, so having this board of ladies to "talk" with has been very helpful. Sorry we have to meet like this, though.
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January 6th, 2011, 06:42 AM
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Platinum Supermommy
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Join Date: Nov 2010
Location: Ohio
Posts: 5,185
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I am so sorry.
This is the best loss board I have found yet so you are in really good hands here.
Welcome and I am so sorry we had to meet this way
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January 6th, 2011, 06:46 AM
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Mega Super Mommy
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Join Date: Jun 2009
Posts: 1,623
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Welcome Aboard. I wish you didn't have to join us and I hope that your stay isn't along one. I'm ssoooo sorry about this loss, it's just not fair. I hope that we can help you thru the tough days.
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Forever Missing Our Eight Angels
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January 6th, 2011, 06:46 AM
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Mega Super Mommy
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Join Date: Jun 2009
Posts: 1,623
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Welcome Aboard. I wish you didn't have to join us and I hope that your stay isn't along one. I'm ssoooo sorry about this loss, it's just not fair. I hope that we can help you thru the tough days.
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Forever Missing Our Eight Angels
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January 6th, 2011, 06:47 AM
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Mega Super Mommy
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Join Date: Nov 2009
Posts: 4,944
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Welcome to the board. I wish you didn't have to be here, but I hope we can offer you some support!
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Thanks, Katie (.:Shortcake:.) for the adorable siggy!
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January 6th, 2011, 06:49 AM
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Platinum Supermommy
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Join Date: Sep 2008
Posts: 16,285
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Welcome to the board,. I'm sorry you are going through this too. But this is a great place for support. Glad you joined us.
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Waiting for our ELF to get here!
Thank you .:Shortcake:.!! for my awesome siggy!
My Forever Babies- 07/20087.5 weeks, 10/2008 4.5 weeks 12/2008 4 weeks 06/2009 our twin 7.5 weeks 08/2010 4 weeks 10/2010 Mr. Spud 9.5 weeks 04/2011 twins 6 weeks
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January 6th, 2011, 01:21 PM
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POAS Queen
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Join Date: Feb 2009
Location: San Diego, CA
Posts: 3,947
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I'm sorry about your losses If nothing else, know that you're now part of an amazing group who is always there for each other, through all the ups and downs. I wish you didn't have to experience such sadness, but we're here to help you through it. 
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With us on earth for five short days, with us in our hearts forever.
(Thank you Natasha for this beautiful graphic of Andrew, and to the ladies of the Nov 10 PR who help me in carrying on his memory.)
Jan. 2009: Came off years of BCP and started TTC
March 2010: BFP -- finally!
Oct. 22, 2010: Drew is born, but has to stay in the NICU because of cord complications resulting in oxygen deprivation and brain problems =(
Oct. 27, 2010: I held him in my arms while Daddy, Grandma, Great-Uncle and I sang him to sleep =( Hardest thing I've ever done...
June 14, 2011: Drew's baby brother or sister waved hi to us with a BFP!
June 25, 2011: Natural miscarriage... Can we please catch a break here?
Nov. 2011: 100mg Clomid followed by 2mg Estrogen, Ovidrel trigger, and 200mg progesterone suppositories 2x/day 14 days. BFN.
Dec. 2011: 2nd medicated cycle. BFN.
Jan. 2012: Took a month off to breathe...
Feb. 2012: Same regimen of Clomid and other meds, add IUI. 2 eggs and 8.5 million swimmers. BFN.
March 2012: 75 IU Follistim CD 3-11, follie scan CD 8 showed 6 follies likely to mature. Triggered, IUI on CD 14, 4 million swimmers. BFN.
April 2012: 75 IU Follistim CD 3-10. Scan showed 2 mature follies, 2 almost certain to mature, and two not likely but possible. (All 6 evenly and perfectly spaced out between the left and the right.) Triggered, IUI CD 13 with 5 million swimmers. BFN.
May 2012: 75 IU Follistim starting CD 3. Waiting to O. Timed intercourse. Likely 5 follies to mature.
^^ Click graphic for chart ^^
 
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January 6th, 2011, 01:29 PM
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Platinum Supermommy
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Join Date: Jun 2009
Location: Bethlehem, PA
Posts: 5,018
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hello there and welcome. i am so sorry you are going thru this, but am glad you found your way to us. the women here are the absolute best.
i pray your stay here is a short and sweet one.
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 Colleen ~ Wife to JD  , Mom to Tori Rose and Caden Thomas 
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January 6th, 2011, 02:07 PM
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Proud JM hostess
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Join Date: Jul 2009
Location: @ JM if I'm not at work
Posts: 5,209
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Of course you can and we will be your support system being that we've all been thru a loss or multiple losses ourselves... so we can relate in our own ways from our own experiences.
I'm sorry you're joining us... but a warm
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January 6th, 2011, 09:43 PM
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Lovin my baby girl
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Join Date: Jan 2011
Posts: 487
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Thank you all so much for the kind words. I have been cramping really bad and bleeding a little today so the doctor thinks I am having a miscarriage.
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January 6th, 2011, 10:51 PM
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Platinum Supermommy
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Join Date: Jul 2006
Location: blaine wa
Posts: 5,277
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i am so sorry
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January 7th, 2011, 09:47 AM
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Mega Super Mommy
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Join Date: Sep 2010
Posts: 1,171
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I'm so sorry that you have to be here but you're in a great place for the support!
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I had my rainbow baby on December 14, 2011. Now my family is complete!
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January 7th, 2011, 10:56 AM
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Wife/Mommy/Photographer
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Join Date: Jan 2008
Location: Oneida, TN
Posts: 7,313
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Welcome  Sorry you have to be here though *hugs*
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January 7th, 2011, 03:02 PM
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Platinum Supermommy
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Join Date: Feb 2007
Location: huddersfield uk
Posts: 19,232
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so sorry to hear your bad news i hope u dont have to stay long
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January 7th, 2011, 03:46 PM
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Platinum Supermommy
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Join Date: Jul 2007
Posts: 5,673
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I'm sorry you are joining here and hope you aren't here long, but glad to have you join in.
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