[LindseyE117]

Ok, so I do not know how many of you know that I have been battling anxiety disorder for the last 4 years. I had been doing extremely well recently with me being able to work and drive for short distances. Then my miscarriage happened and I just went right back downhill.

I have been battling it again ever since. But since we moved to Texas and I don't currently have to work, I am glad that I am at least not having episodes in public. Still, these past 2 days I have been over the edge. I'll shorten the "why" up.

We currently started the home buying process back in end of Oct, early Nov. The seller of the house we wanted asked for a longer closing date. He originally wanted to close on Dec 15th, then asked for Jan 31st. We settled and agreed on Jan 6th. We are putting down 60% on the house and financing the rest. So the bank has had 2 1/2 months to do our paperwork-normal closings take 30. I tried and tried to work with my processor, getting her everything she asked for on time and making sure that nothing else was needed. She was sooooo difficult to get ahold of, and then went on a 2 week vacation during Christmas time....without ever telling me!!! I had been waiting on her reponse about any additional paperwork too. So I got ahold of a girl helping her and I found out this girl did NOTHING..... So the new girl helped me and got everything she saw into underwriting. Then my processor got back and the new girl was no longer able to help me.

Long story short... this girl procrastinated and NEVER did any of our paperwork. Then she submitted all of the conditions back to the underwriters a day before we were supposed to close!! We just submitted more paperwork again today that they asked us for. She rerequested paperwork that I had already sent her.... TWICE before. I lost it. I completely lost my cool and I kind of went off on her. Needless to say we did not close, the seller is p*ssed, I am p*ssed, and we are both losing money on rent among other things. She still does not know when we are going to close either. Her response was that underwriting might ask for even MORE stuff.

UGH!!!! Now I am afraid that we will never close on our house and I have been pacing the floors all day today and yesterday. I even got on my hands and knees to scrub the floor. I HATE feeling this way. It's almost like a heart attack. With all this stress, I might even have one!!

Sorry for the long post. I just needed it off of my chest.

[Shadeauxe]

I can tell you that you don't need anxiety disorder to feel that way. I would be livid too. Anger physically manifests itself in me quite a bit. So, I'd be in the same boat as you right now and probably being thankful that I don't own any weapons.

Just reading your story is making my blood pressure go up.

[LindseyE117]

Oh it is way up there. I hate to rant (because honestly I know it annoys some people), but I am livid.... I have tried everything to get my mind off of it. Exercise, walking, cleaning the house, playing online.... NOTHING is helping. Grrrr...

[ohnicole]

We just bought our house in August, and the had the same kind of crap happen to us (for example, 2 days before the set closing date, they decided that since the house had been sold in the last year, we needed ANOTHER appraisal- like they didn't know all along that the house had been recently sold?????) Ugh, buying a house is SO frustrating! I hope it all works out quickly, because living that p***ed is terrible.

[LindseyE117]

Originally Posted by ohnicole

We just bought our house in August, and the had the same kind of crap happen to us (for example, 2 days before the set closing date, they decided that since the house had been sold in the last year, we needed ANOTHER appraisal- like they didn't know all along that the house had been recently sold?????) Ugh, buying a house is SO frustrating! I hope it all works out quickly, because living that p***ed is terrible.

How many days past your closing were you? I had appliances scheduled to be delivered and moving trucks paid for. Lost money!! Ugh!! My realtor is pushing for Monday, but I do not see it happening.

[ohnicole]

We ended up closing the middle of the next week (3 or 4 business days later), but neither us nor the seller were in a huge rush (we still had time on our lease and hadn't scheduled the move until after the modified close date). I think they could have rushed it even more if we pushed. I think you should get in touch with a supervisor- they should be liable for those costs if the closing is delayed through negligence of an employee

[LindseyE117]

Believe me I have told 2 different supervisors. In fact, one supervisor is helping her to get it done.

[ohnicole]

I hope they get it settled today!

[.:Shortcake:.]

Hope things get settled soon. Moving/buying a house is a pain!

[SillyKitty]

I would be livid, too! I hope it gets sorted out in the next couple of days.

[luvmykids623]

Buying a house is a nightmare! I'm so sorry that you have to deal with her incompetence. My blood pressure went up just reading what you're going through. I hope you're able to go to closing soon. Great big

[joyguide]

Ugh! What a nightmare - even if you're NOT struggling with anxiety! I've struggled with it for years (misdiagnosed as "depression" for a long time, no wonder nothing ever seemed to work!) - and I'm determined to not go on any medication, especially while TTC.

Sending you calm and peaceful thoughts!