[Celena]

to be forgotten in the DDC. I hate that. Granted it was only a *blink* of an eye, but still... to be forgotten so easily sucks. Sorry.

[ohnicole]

We will NEVER forget you, Celena!

[MeganMomof5]

I understand Celena ...When I was in the March ddc I was very active, posted on almost every thread, started new topics every day (I applied for host), then I had my miscarriage and was forgotten the next day ...I know people need to move on, but it's still hard to be forgotten.

[Braysmomma03]

I hear you Celena, it was less than a day and i was forgotten *hugS*

[asunflower]

That is one reason I have not even introduced myself to the DDC. I just want to wait until I know I am there to stay. You are loved and supported here and always will be.

[tobi4]

Awww ladies, Im so sorry you feel that way. I know for sure that you havent been forgotten but I know last year I felt the same way. I just think that beyond the "Im sorry's" people just dont really know what they can do for you, and Im sure that some are afraid to ask how you are doing, for fear of tearing open your pain again. And of course the largest factor... unless theyve been in our postition, they just dont understand.

[Braysmomma03]

When/if we get pregnant again I am not telling anyone until around 15-20weeks.

[purplelady]

[StaceygirlPa]

Celena, I know how you feel. We will never forget you here.

Megan I still remember you from March. We were in there together.

How are you doing today Celena?

[lindsey2000k]

I dont remember most of the ladies on my DDC with DD and we even all talked for 1.5 years. But its been 4 years since I was on the loss group on the same board and Some girls are back or still there that remember me and I remember them.
To me that means more.

I will never forget you. I will never forget most of the active ladies on here. How can I forget the people who ment the most to me in my time of need.

[Celena]

Tobi I think you're right, but I guess with this gaping wound it feels that way.... there is nothing anyone can do exactly, or say. It's just so whatever.... people move on with their happiness, joy, lives, and so on... dammit I don't want to be bitter over it or sad or envious it isn't going to make anything better but make me dwell in the oh woah is me. Is like to get that BFP and move on to a HeALTHY pregnancy and a surviving baby. The next one is going to be Zoe meaning life.... that's if we decide to do that.

[JessP]

I am so sorry. I was in mine until almost 13 weeks and they forgot me . I wish there was something we could do to help you feel better. Just know I am thinking of you.

[BeccaM]

I know for me the ladies of the August DDC have not been forgotten. Rebecca (Halfbaked) even made a blinkie for us so we have a way to remember our August angels.

For some its really hard. Like Tobi said beyond the sorry's if they have never experienced a loss they dont know what else to say. I know for others like myself that have been thru a loss its hard to read about them because I still have my own fears of whats going to happen.

I know how you feel Celena but I want you to know that for me.. You will never be forgotten. HUGS!

[TnPhotoMama81]

I know how you feel Celena In the DDC I was in, they deleted the angel sticky that honored the babies that were lost in the DDC. That really hurt.

[*SamF*]

I know, I was even the host for a brief time before I lost spud.
I don't know if they actually forget, or just choose not to dwell on the sad posts.
I keep kicking myself for going in there to see whats going on.

Hugs Celena!!!

[dojodiva]

((HUGS)) I remember too well all the pain you're feeling, and I'm so sorry there's nothing I can do to ease it for you. Please know you haven't been forgotten. If you remember, it was people lurking who posted your news before you. That's how liked you are and how much people care about you. For me, I'm always nervous to just be my pg around friends who have m/c because I know that it's like putting salt in a wound. After my losses the LAST thing I wanted to see or hear about what someone else's pg. Please know you're in my thoughts and prayers.

[momof6lopez]

I know Im the minority on this one, but when I was in the ddc, I always took a day of mourning for angels....by not posting at all. I could never understand how someone could post about their loss and two seconds later someone is posting about how crappy morning sickness is......I found it disrespectful and hurtful, even if you have never experienced a loss, come on....one of the worst parts of PAL is that some of the women will never know this pain until they have walked in your shoes.

[sweetgirl51305]

I'm sorry you feel this way Celena. I just wanted you to know I have not forgotten you! I'm always checking this board to see how everyone is doing even though I rarely post on here anymore...it's just too hard. I know how it is though Celena, I felt the same ways with my ddc's. I lurked in them after I m/c'd up until about a month ago. I had to stop 'cuz it was just self destructive. But, I hope you do get your rainbow baby Celena. I gave up after my 2nd m/c, but then after a lot of soul searching and positive thinking I finally felt ready after a few months. I hope everything goes well for you and know that we have not forgotten about you!

[Micksbabe]

I was in the august ddc as well and then had a chemical. I feel the same way that you are just forgotten It sucks but at least you know that if you come here there are people who understand and remember.

[Halfbaked]

Celena, you will never be forgotten. That's part of the reason I keep coming back here. I can't just move on and forget everyone. I don't know what else to do. It saddens me that anyone has to go through what we've all been through. After my m/c, I never went back to my ddc. No one seemed to understand until I found this board.
We all love you Celena. Please let us know if there is anything we can do for you.