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January 8th, 2011, 11:03 AM
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Platinum Supermommy
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Yes, there have been a lot of losses lately, but unfortunately that is what brings us all here together. It sucks, it is not fun, it is the worst freakin pain but at the same time it does not mean that we should not all celebrate those that go on to graduate.
We are a family and should be here for the good and bad. To support those going through a loss as well as cheer those on that graduate and to comfort each other during the stressful TTC time.
 to those that have gotten their BFP's lately!!!
And to those that are suffering a loss (myself included)  .
Just my 2 cents....
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January 8th, 2011, 11:15 AM
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Mega Super Mommy
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I agree 100%%%%%%%
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January 8th, 2011, 11:24 AM
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Way to make me freakin cry Missy.
But thank you I feel so welcome and loved here and know I have found the best suppord out there.
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January 8th, 2011, 12:03 PM
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hugs and lots of ++++ dust to everyone!
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January 8th, 2011, 12:07 PM
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praying for our rainbow
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I know that I am new here, but you ladies have welcomed me and I am very grateful to all of you. I am so happy to see all the BFP's coming after the losses. It gives me hope that one day too I will get that BFP after all the heartache.I cry every time I see someone here get a BFP because they deserve it so much after the pain they have went through loosing a child. I can't wait one day to see all of use get that BFP and then 9 months later having a healthy baby 
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January 8th, 2011, 12:08 PM
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Mega Super Mommy
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Ditto to Missy. It gives me hope.
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January 8th, 2011, 12:23 PM
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Platinum Supermommy
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I totally agree! It makes me happy to see the BFPs!
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January 8th, 2011, 12:31 PM
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Psalm 138:8
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Love this post Missy!!!
I LOVE ALL the bfps they are like reminders to never give up. 
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January 8th, 2011, 12:35 PM
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Mega Super Mommy
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Quote:
Originally Posted by missy123
Yes, there have been a lot of losses lately, but unfortunately that is what brings us all here together. It sucks, it is not fun, it is the worst freakin pain but at the same time it does not mean that we should not all celebrate those that go on to graduate.
We are a family and should be here for the good and bad. To support those going through a loss as well as cheer those on that graduate and to comfort each other during the stressful TTC time.
to those that have gotten their BFP's lately!!!
And to those that are suffering a loss (myself included) .
Just my 2 cents....
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yes, this.......
and the main reason why I had a hard time sharing. This group of ladies is so special and my heart truly breaks for all of our losses and seeing someone hurting so badly puts my good news to the backburner and there's nothing wrong with that.
Heart you all
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January 8th, 2011, 12:42 PM
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Mega Super Mommy
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I'm just a lurker but i 100% agree. We've all had a loss(es) and it thrills me to see so many women who have endured so much hurt get good news!
Now someone who gets a BFP when they didn't even want kids yet, have never endured a loss, and were on BC at the time....that's different
Congrats to all of you wonderful ladies.
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January 8th, 2011, 12:44 PM
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I agree with Missy congrats to everyone that has gotten their bfp in the past little while!!! It is great to see hope that I will be there some day in the future.
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January 8th, 2011, 12:50 PM
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Waiting for our Miracle.
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I totally agree with what Missy said. I am happy for each one of you. I pray that we continue seeing BFP.
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January 8th, 2011, 01:04 PM
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I was going to post something like that as well this morning Missy, but I wasn't sure if everyone felt the same way so I kept my trap shut... lol
I'm glad you posted this!!!!
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January 8th, 2011, 01:12 PM
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I agree HUGS to everyone going through a loss right now and CONGRATULATIONS to all the new BFPS!
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January 8th, 2011, 02:09 PM
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I like your two cents worth Missy...it's logical and kind, but still supportive! I have had 4 losses now but I still love love love to see those bfp's and then to go on and see some really beautiful babies born from them. As hard as it is to suffer a loss it would be harder to never get to see the succes stories. I think those give the rest of us faith!
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January 9th, 2011, 05:47 AM
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I couldn't agree more!
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January 9th, 2011, 07:45 AM
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Mega Super Mommy
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Aww thanks for this post!! really : )
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January 9th, 2011, 11:16 AM
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I agree 100%! I get SO happy when I see a BFP post! I'm really glad you said this, I think it's perfect.
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(Thank you Natasha for this beautiful graphic of Andrew, and to the ladies of the Nov 10 PR who help me in carrying on his memory.)
Jan. 2009: Came off years of BCP and started TTC
March 2010: BFP -- finally!
Oct. 22, 2010: Drew is born, but has to stay in the NICU because of cord complications resulting in oxygen deprivation and brain problems =(
Oct. 27, 2010: I held him in my arms while Daddy, Grandma, Great-Uncle and I sang him to sleep =( Hardest thing I've ever done...
June 14, 2011: Drew's baby brother or sister waved hi to us with a BFP!
June 25, 2011: Natural miscarriage... Can we please catch a break here?
Nov. 2011: 100mg Clomid followed by 2mg Estrogen, Ovidrel trigger, and 200mg progesterone suppositories 2x/day 14 days. BFN.
Dec. 2011: 2nd medicated cycle. BFN.
Jan. 2012: Took a month off to breathe...
Feb. 2012: Same regimen of Clomid and other meds, add IUI. 2 eggs and 8.5 million swimmers. BFN.
March 2012: 75 IU Follistim CD 3-11, follie scan CD 8 showed 6 follies likely to mature. Triggered, IUI on CD 14, 4 million swimmers. BFN.
April 2012: 75 IU Follistim CD 3-10. Scan showed 2 mature follies, 2 almost certain to mature, and two not likely but possible. (All 6 evenly and perfectly spaced out between the left and the right.) Triggered, IUI CD 13 with 5 million swimmers. BFN.
May 2012: 75 IU Follistim starting CD 3. Waiting to O. Timed intercourse. Likely 5 follies to mature.
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January 9th, 2011, 01:35 PM
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I agree 100%!!!!!
I know I been MIA for a while, but I do think of you girls often and when I came back I kept wondering who graduated. This is a special group of strong women and being girls graduate, it's truly great.
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January 9th, 2011, 03:17 PM
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Platinum Supermommy
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Thanks Missy.
I hope that everyone will be a graduate soon!
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