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January 8th, 2011, 05:39 PM
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Psalm 138:8
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Join Date: Oct 2009
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Did the new year help you to move on (some what)
or do you feel the same as last year?
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January 8th, 2011, 05:44 PM
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Platinum Supermommy
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Location: MA
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NO, not at all! My loss was in September and I still feel horrible about it. Plus with ttc, everytime AF arrives its like digging the wound deeper. I don't think I'll begin to feel somewhat better until I'm pregnant again and know that the baby will be ok.
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January 8th, 2011, 06:15 PM
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Platinum Supermommy
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Location: Southern PA
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I found out on New Years Eve that my levels were dropping and I was going to lose this baby so no.... 
However as each day goes on it brings new hope for one last chance at having a baby here on earth.
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January 8th, 2011, 06:24 PM
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praying for our rainbow
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I lost the baby on New Years so no I am still very hurt, but I have strong faith that I will have a baby this year who is healthy
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January 8th, 2011, 06:32 PM
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I don't know about that... last year the new year started off good because we got a bfp shortly after the new year only to lose our baby in February 2010. We finally conceived again early december and found out we were expectin after almost a year.... here we lost the baby at the beginning of the new year right around when we found out last year we were expecting.
I don't know, we're just here... not sure how we feel.
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January 8th, 2011, 07:34 PM
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Psalm 138:8
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Join Date: Oct 2009
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I can relate with all of you women( had my 3rd loss back in Nov.2010) not far away enough& 1 of those losses being twins all m/c. ....I feel a tid bit better(acceptance stage of coping) if I can even call it that 6 months away from a loss.... so this May 2011 will be bitter sweet for me as that is dh & I's 9 year wedding anniversary. I hope who ever responds to this thread gets your Rainbow baby As Soon As Possible. This subject matter is really so hard for me to talk about.....but I am so thankful l have others to talk to about it.
Last edited by Im.Nayomi; January 8th, 2011 at 08:56 PM.
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January 8th, 2011, 07:44 PM
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POAS Queen
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It doesn't feel any better just because it's 2011. My five-day-old son passed away in my arms in the NICU -- I don't think anything can make that better.
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With us on earth for five short days, with us in our hearts forever.
(Thank you Natasha for this beautiful graphic of Andrew, and to the ladies of the Nov 10 PR who help me in carrying on his memory.)
Jan. 2009: Came off years of BCP and started TTC
March 2010: BFP -- finally!
Oct. 22, 2010: Drew is born, but has to stay in the NICU because of cord complications resulting in oxygen deprivation and brain problems =(
Oct. 27, 2010: I held him in my arms while Daddy, Grandma, Great-Uncle and I sang him to sleep =( Hardest thing I've ever done...
June 14, 2011: Drew's baby brother or sister waved hi to us with a BFP!
June 25, 2011: Natural miscarriage... Can we please catch a break here?
Nov. 2011: 100mg Clomid followed by 2mg Estrogen, Ovidrel trigger, and 200mg progesterone suppositories 2x/day 14 days. BFN.
Dec. 2011: 2nd medicated cycle. BFN.
Jan. 2012: Took a month off to breathe...
Feb. 2012: Same regimen of Clomid and other meds, add IUI. 2 eggs and 8.5 million swimmers. BFN.
March 2012: 75 IU Follistim CD 3-11, follie scan CD 8 showed 6 follies likely to mature. Triggered, IUI on CD 14, 4 million swimmers. BFN.
April 2012: 75 IU Follistim CD 3-10. Scan showed 2 mature follies, 2 almost certain to mature, and two not likely but possible. (All 6 evenly and perfectly spaced out between the left and the right.) Triggered, IUI CD 13 with 5 million swimmers. BFN.
May 2012: 75 IU Follistim starting CD 3. Waiting to O. Timed intercourse. Likely 5 follies to mature.
^^ Click graphic for chart ^^
 
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January 8th, 2011, 08:25 PM
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Mega Super Mommy
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The New Year didn't help me either. My angel baby's EDD is Jan. 28th so.....
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06/2004 - Lap for endo and cysts
08/2006 - Lap for endo and cysts
02/2010 - Lap for endo, cysts, and hydrosalpinx repair
02/2011 - Lap for endo, cysts, and RSO
12/2011 - TAH and LSO
Stage IV endometriosis, sever adenomyosis, PCOS
Waiting on our miracle from God via adoption
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January 8th, 2011, 08:51 PM
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Platinum Supermommy
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Not really...I got a BFP Jan 2010 after my daughter was stillborn in October 2009, then ended up having a late term misarriage in April, another in August...So 2010 was filled with lots of heartache...Now here I am in 2011 and Not only do I not have my rainbow baby, I can't seem to get pregnant, so it's just making things worse I think  I hope that things get better and it's not another bad year.
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 Forever Missing My Baby Girl Ella Grace Born Sleeping October 14, 2009
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January 9th, 2011, 07:51 AM
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Mega Super Mommy
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I wish it would. My recent loss was Christmas eve. My sis, sis in law, and neighbor will are preg. Sis in law and neighbor are due in my original dd months.
New year didn't make anything easier. I just hope it is nicer to me overall.
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I had my rainbow baby on December 14, 2011. Now my family is complete!
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