[Erin84]

I'm a newish kid on the block as far as this TTCAL thing goes, so I haven't seen a lot. I've seen BFPs, and I've seen WAY too many BFPs be taken away.

You know the Grey's Anatomy that just aired? "Disarm." Even if you don't watch Grey, you might have seen a commercial, where Bailey is screaming at God. She said something like, "You send this one back right now!" next to a boy who's flatlining. I'm starting to feel the same way. Stop taking all these beautiful babies! Let our girls be happy!

Aaaauuuuggghhh!!!

[NsMommy]

:'(

[missy123]

I have been a member of this board for almost 2 years and if I try to look at it with a clear head I think it is all a numbers game. Unfortunately it is all based on percentages... and we recently had the biggest BFP boom ever so the sad part is there will also be a big percentage returning.

I hope that doesn't sound too cold but I tried to take all emotion out of it as if I don't there will be way too many curse words in there.

((Hugs)) Try not to let all of this scare you on your TTCAL journey. For the most part girls that graduate here go on to have their rainbow babies.

[MountainMomma]

I've been here for 3.5 years and I have to agree with Missy. Most of the grads move on and have their rainbows. There are a few that have multiple losses before graduating, but most move on. I've seen several grads become a grad multiple times in my time here.

Anytime you have a HUGE bfp boom you hare also going to have more people coming back. It sucks, but it does happen occasionally.

[.:Shortcake:.]

I agree! It sucks but there is really nothing we can do about it