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January 12th, 2011, 04:06 PM
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Tobi
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Today is 7w3d for us. This is the point where I started bleeding last time. Then the next day I lost my little bean. I saw the heartbeat that same day, so having seen the heartbeat last Saturday means absolutely nothing in terms of viability to me at this point. I just feel sick, like Im going to throw up, and sad. And scared. I actually took tomorrow off work, just to stay settled. My first m/c happened at 7w4d as well. What are the chances of a third time? That couldn't happen right? Only I know how it can. I have the same cramping Ive had this entire pregnancy, Im still having all my preg symptoms. I just want to sleep for the next few days. I have no reason to suspect anything is wrong, but I didnt any time before either.
Please be ok, baby.
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January 12th, 2011, 04:08 PM
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Mega Super Mommy
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Huge huge huge huge 
It must be terrifying, Tobi. I have everything crossed that this time is different and you get to hold your rainbow baby in your arms next summer  If you need someone to talk to (or to distract you) tomorrow, give me a call- I don't have to work and I don't have my sister.
I wish there was something I could do for you. It's so unfair that you have to go through this!
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January 12th, 2011, 04:11 PM
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Mega Super Mommy
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believe me going through this pregnancy right now all i have been was scared!ut here i am about 14 weeks past when i had my last miscarriage and i Just Thank God and keep the faith! I think its your time Tobi! Try To stay positive : ) im rooting for you!!
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January 12th, 2011, 04:12 PM
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Tobi I wish I could literally be there for you to hang out, make you some food and watch movies... help you feel some ease during this worrisome time. I want you to know that there's such slim to no chances that anything will happen this time around, don't allow those negative thoughts consume you, taking away the joy you have had so far. Please just take it easy as best you can, get some comfort food and your favorite movies to watch while you take a *YOU* day(s)
Love you girl, you're going to get thru this and ya know what... I'm here for you NO MATTER WHAT!!!
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January 12th, 2011, 04:21 PM
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Don't dream it, BE IT!
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Tobi I can definitely see why you are worried, and stressed!
Put on a few movies, grab your favorite snack and relax for tonight, and tomorrow.
*hugs*
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~Ectopic pregnancy March 2010.
~First Cycle Since ectopic May 21st 2010
~Forever missin' our little angel.
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January 12th, 2011, 04:26 PM
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That is terrifying I am sure  I am afraid of going through that myself. Keeping you in my prayers and thoughts.
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January 12th, 2011, 04:33 PM
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Platinum Supermommy
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Tobi I know it's hard but try your hardest to stay positive and hopeful for this little one. We love you and we are all here for you. I know this is the scariest part. Maybe you and DH could cuddle and watch movies to take your mind off things!?
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January 12th, 2011, 04:56 PM
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oh tobi i sooooo know what you are going thru. i totally understand your fear - it is totally justified!!! there is just no way not to let the past creep into our future. i pray the next few days pass quickly for you, with lots of breast tenderness and nausea! - laughing, but not really......
i ordered a doppler cause i am neurotic and have such little faith.
we are here for you.
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January 12th, 2011, 05:35 PM
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Mega Super Mommy
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I can't even imagine what is going through your head right now. I will keep you in my thoughts and prayers. I know it is hard but you will get past this milestone and move onto a healthy baby in your arms
Take it easy and try not to stress out, I know that is easier said than done
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January 12th, 2011, 05:36 PM
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Tobi
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Ahhh my girls, the ladies of ttcal. thank you for understanding. (Of course you do) I wish I could cuddle up with dbf right now, but hes sick running a fever, so Im keeping my distance!!
"Laughing but not really" I couldnt agree more.
I feel like Im spinning in circles, trying to find any answer what so ever that will bring me safely into next week. Im so lost. Im really not used to feeling this way. I am usually that 'got a problem, lets solve it' action type. I feel helpless, which I am. Totally out of my control. We are trying to be positive, talking about going to buy a doppler on the weekend. Im going to call the store that carries them to see if they are open on Sunday, just to make it to 8 weeks. Im out of words...
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January 12th, 2011, 05:56 PM
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you hit the nail on the head, didnt you!!! it is the absolute lack of control. we can do everything 100% right and.....
for us control freaks - this just sucks!
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January 12th, 2011, 06:20 PM
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Tobi
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lol control freaks. Funny how many of us there are here! I wonder if we started this way (I did lol) or if ttc made some of us this way?! Between charting, opk's and ttc shopping sprees, its enough to make any right minded woman crazy!
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January 12th, 2011, 06:28 PM
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I'd be terrified too! HUGS! We are all praying for you!
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January 12th, 2011, 06:30 PM
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Mega Super Mommy
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If you want to count the control freaks, you can start by counting any of us who have POAS before 7 dpo 
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January 12th, 2011, 06:31 PM
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Aww I'm so sorry, I think I will be the same way
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January 12th, 2011, 06:47 PM
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Quote:
Originally Posted by ohnicole
If you want to count the control freaks, you can start by counting any of us who have POAS before 7 dpo |
I can't believe anyone would test before 7dpo!  
Hang in there Tobi, we are here for you and with you every step of the way. I understand how you feel completely. But you will be another success story and in less than 8 months you will be showing us pictures of your baby.
We love you Tobi!
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January 12th, 2011, 08:20 PM
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Platinum Supermommy
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(((hugs))) I'm sure everything will be alright
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January 12th, 2011, 08:30 PM
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Platinum Supermommy
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I've thought about how this would feel for me and I too know that until i get through my first trimester screen and know that my baby is healthy i am going to be very uneasy
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January 12th, 2011, 08:37 PM
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Mega Super Mommy
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(((hugs))) I will feel the same way next time, too, Tobi. PAL is so scary.
The August DDC Dropout Club is closed to new members, BTW.
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January 13th, 2011, 03:40 AM
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Waiting for our Miracle.
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Thinking of you today Tobi. I hope you can fine something to keep yourself busy. I know it is easier said then done. Try to relax. You will be holding your rainbow baby soon.
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