[missy123]

What does your SO say about your time on JM? Do the two of you ever talk about it?

[Celena]

He's glad that I've had such a great support group of ladies that have gone thru and understand what I've been thru to talk with as well as provide support to as well. He says it's my nature and nurture.... but most of all that we've helped each other get thru the turmultous times together when he didn't know what to say or how to help me as much as he has wanted to. (and even when he's been an ***... lol)

He always asks me if I tell y'all his jokes about TTC...

[ohnicole]

He is glad that I have you guys to talk to, but I think sometimes he wishes I wouldn't spend quite so much time on here Also, whenever he says something funny, he says, "Now you're gonna go laugh at me on your message board, aren't you?" He's a good sport.

[Jessica121706]

he loves that i have people that understand me...he knows that he can only understand so much because he is a man and there is some stuff that he doesn't want to know. lol he doesn't like hearing about stuff that i get concerned with

[MeganMomof5]

He doesn't say much...He thinks sometimes i shouldn't come on here...for some reason he thinks JM is just about pregnancy and babies...I hope he never finds out the actual name of the site and come and stalk me lol

[Micksbabe]

My dh doesn't say much either, sometimes I think it annoys him because he thinks I am on here to much. He knows that it is good for me to have support though especially because he isn't home a lot, he has been gone sine Jan 3 and won't be back until sometime in feb.

[ohnicole]

Originally Posted by MeganMomof5

.I hope he never finds out the actual name of the site and come and stalk me lol

LOL one day I made my DH take an oath that he would never visit JM

[Micksbabe]

Originally Posted by ohnicole

LOL one day I made my DH take an oath that he would never visit JM

[Celena]

LOL he might hijack this place making it his own comedy stage show!

Lord, there was a time when he would make snarky comments in an arguement about me being on here like I was crazy for talking to people online about such a private situation, but he's long since realized the importance of our relationships here and how we've helped each other especially when he wasn't emotionally there for me. I don't know I could really ramble on here about how far he's come to understand all of our relationships here, lol.

So y'all remember the song my hubby made up?

"Too shy, shy... hush, hush IUI"

[Joanna1127]

Mine knows about it and doesn't say much. He knows that I come here for support, etc. He also thinks I spend too much time on the computer though....lol!

[TnPhotoMama81]

a phrase that my husband says often "Oh what now....is it something on your mommy board?" hahaha!

[missy123]

One time my hubby walked in and I was in chat and he glanced over and some girls were getting pretty graphic about CM and Checking their cervix. That was enough for him, lol!

Originally Posted by TnPhotoMama81

a phrase that my husband says often "Oh what now....is it something on your mommy board?" hahaha!

My hubby says the same thing... But now I have HIM addicted to facebook so we are all good!

[MeganMomof5]

Nicole, If I asked my DH to that, it would probably make him find the site and come and read LOL

[TnPhotoMama81]

Missy - lol....that is so funny what he saw about the cm and stuff.

[StaceygirlPa]

At first Dh couldn't understand why I spend so much time on the computer. Now he understanding the kind of surport we provide each other. He also knows that I have learned things from this board which has helped us get through both of the m/c and helped us get pregnant on our own.

[Shadeauxe]

My husband is indifferent about the forums. I don't think he has strong emotions about it one way or the other. I think he thinks it's a useful resource and I am mostly on here while I am at work, so the better question would be, "What does your boss think?" To which I would answer, "He doesn't know".

[Toots216]

My DH doesn't know much about it, he just knows I go on a "message board". Like he'll look over my shoulder and say, "Oh, you're on your message board again." He's not really into computers and the internet (doesn't even have Facebook!) - he only really uses it for email and checking on his favorite sports teams.

[okiliz]

Well... My husband loves me and losing our twins was hard on him too.. but I admit he delt with it better then me .. I was a lurker for awhile and I think he was happier abotu it once I started to post more often.. It's hard to go through a loss or losses with out family and friends around nd being stationed overseas away from all of them made it so much worse... You guys gave me a window into a world of hope.. and htoughhe does not know you he is very thankful that strangers on the net so to speak were able to do soemthing for me that no one else could at the time.. that and he is happy that I have others to talk to about AF,CM,CP IUI......

[mmllhh]

My DH doesn't really have an opintion on it, sometimes I will tell him about stuff, he listens but is pretty indifferent about it. I think he understands that we women need to talk about this stuff over and over and over.

[msshamis23]

Yeah my DH doesn't really care either way. Besides the fact that now since we only have one computer I always hijack it from him and go straight here lol (we are both very into computers. Not just the internet though)

Though he did see the title of the forum, and said "Trying to conceive after loss? How about we change that to--Women always pee-ing on sticks, demanding sex, and taking vitamins and herbs I didn't even know existed?"

Later when I said something about the whole demanding sex part of it--he told me, he didn't really mind the whole demanding sex thing--just don't do it before I brush my teeth in the morning LOL!