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January 14th, 2011, 12:33 PM
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Platinum Supermommy
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 Forever Missing My Baby Girl Ella Grace Born Sleeping October 14, 2009
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January 14th, 2011, 12:38 PM
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HUGS Megan! I am so sorry that you, and the other ladies have to go through this. It truly breaks my heart. I'm here is you need to talk.
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January 14th, 2011, 12:50 PM
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I am so sorry honey...
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January 14th, 2011, 12:50 PM
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Mega Super Mommy
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I'm so sorry, Megan  I wish you didn't have to go through so many losses. It's so unfair 
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Thanks, Katie (.:Shortcake:.) for the adorable siggy!
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January 14th, 2011, 12:52 PM
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just me
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Oh honey, I'm seriously sitting here in tears. 
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January 14th, 2011, 12:52 PM
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I am so sorry Megan. I got chills reading that. It is so hard to understand how things like that happen right after seeing your baby be so active!!
My heart hurts for you today. We love you!
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January 14th, 2011, 12:55 PM
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Thanks everyone
I had just seen the baby alive 9 days before I found out it wasn't...The baby only measured 13 weeks 1 day at almost 15 weeks, but I know that it didn't pass till over 14 weeks because heard the heartbeat at home at I think 14 weeks 1 day or 2 days I can't remember...I had 3 or 4 ultrasounds and everytime it looked so healthy and active...I guess it's something i'll never get an answer to
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Forever Missing My Baby Girl Ella Grace Born Sleeping October 14, 2009
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January 14th, 2011, 01:18 PM
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oh megan, i am just so so sorry. no one should have to endure so much heartbreak
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January 14th, 2011, 04:04 PM
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I am so sorry
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Mommy to Alexander, Annabella, & always missing our angel!
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January 14th, 2011, 04:21 PM
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Waiting for our Miracle.
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Megan, I am so sorry. Sending lots of hugs your way.
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January 14th, 2011, 04:29 PM
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Mega Super Mommy
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I am so sorry
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January 14th, 2011, 04:29 PM
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I'm so sorry Megan  I can only imagine how you feel today. We love you and we're here for you.
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With us on earth for five short days, with us in our hearts forever.
(Thank you Natasha for this beautiful graphic of Andrew, and to the ladies of the Nov 10 PR who help me in carrying on his memory.)
Jan. 2009: Came off years of BCP and started TTC
March 2010: BFP -- finally!
Oct. 22, 2010: Drew is born, but has to stay in the NICU because of cord complications resulting in oxygen deprivation and brain problems =(
Oct. 27, 2010: I held him in my arms while Daddy, Grandma, Great-Uncle and I sang him to sleep =( Hardest thing I've ever done...
June 14, 2011: Drew's baby brother or sister waved hi to us with a BFP!
June 25, 2011: Natural miscarriage... Can we please catch a break here?
Nov. 2011: 100mg Clomid followed by 2mg Estrogen, Ovidrel trigger, and 200mg progesterone suppositories 2x/day 14 days. BFN.
Dec. 2011: 2nd medicated cycle. BFN.
Jan. 2012: Took a month off to breathe...
Feb. 2012: Same regimen of Clomid and other meds, add IUI. 2 eggs and 8.5 million swimmers. BFN.
March 2012: 75 IU Follistim CD 3-11, follie scan CD 8 showed 6 follies likely to mature. Triggered, IUI on CD 14, 4 million swimmers. BFN.
April 2012: 75 IU Follistim CD 3-10. Scan showed 2 mature follies, 2 almost certain to mature, and two not likely but possible. (All 6 evenly and perfectly spaced out between the left and the right.) Triggered, IUI CD 13 with 5 million swimmers. BFN.
May 2012: 75 IU Follistim starting CD 3. Waiting to O. Timed intercourse. Likely 5 follies to mature.
^^ Click graphic for chart ^^
 
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January 14th, 2011, 08:48 PM
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I just have to say thanks to everyone for being here for me...It's been a tough day...No one know's IRL, I didn't even bring it up to my husband today ...I don't know what I would do without you guys.
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Forever Missing My Baby Girl Ella Grace Born Sleeping October 14, 2009
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January 15th, 2011, 05:56 AM
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so so sorry
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January 15th, 2011, 07:58 AM
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Mega Super Mommy
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Hugs! So sorry!
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I had my rainbow baby on December 14, 2011. Now my family is complete!
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January 15th, 2011, 08:33 AM
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Megan I'm so incrediably sorry honey! I know it's hard, I feel you on that... the time passes so long and slow. It's seems like an eternity, but looking back years from now it will be a faded memory once you have you Rainbow LO! Right now it is NOT easy with all of our reminders, the dates and constant ttc.
There's nothing I can say to make you feel better honey and I'm sorry, but if there is let me know I'm here for you. Not the most positive person right now, but I'm still great support and listener... I can give my heartful support and loving shoulder to you when you need it sweets!
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January 15th, 2011, 09:07 AM
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Thanks Celena 
i'm sick of having to face all these dates, and I hope once I do have a baby that these dates wont be so hard on me...I still have what would of been Ella's EDD, and this should of been her first birthday , then my EDD of my last miscarriage...I hope i'm pregnant before then...I honestly thought I would be.
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Forever Missing My Baby Girl Ella Grace Born Sleeping October 14, 2009
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January 15th, 2011, 10:27 AM
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Mega Super Mommy
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 I hope you get your rainbow baby soon!
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January 15th, 2011, 03:33 PM
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((Hugs)) the pain of the dates kind of fades as time goes on even if you don't have a rainbow baby. At least that is how it has been for me. Or maybe I just stick my head in the sand too much.
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January 15th, 2011, 04:49 PM
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*hugs* I really hope your sticky rainbow baby comes soon, more than I even want anything for myself<3
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