Forum: Trying to Conceive after Loss
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January 16th, 2011, 10:05 AM
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There's several more ladies going thru some really scary things, like waking up covered in blood or suddenly bleeding out of no where @10+wks... I know allot of us had to come back here, but as the weeks go on there's ladies still leaving due to the same common thread we all have, loss.
I know there's more than just the ladies from Aug DDC, but I go peek in on them to see how everyone is and there's so many that are possibly going thru the same thing.
Please send some thoughts their way or a prayer.
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January 16th, 2011, 10:11 AM
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Platinum Supermommy
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it's all so so scary! Sending many thoughts and prayers to them.
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January 16th, 2011, 10:38 AM
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Lots of thoughts and prayers to them!
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January 16th, 2011, 10:42 AM
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January 16th, 2011, 10:59 AM
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sending them lots of prayers and healing vibes my heart breaks for them all
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January 16th, 2011, 11:07 AM
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Tobi
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Its very scary there. I find that Im quiet here, there, PAL. Waiting for the other shoe to drop. Im still lurking, checking up on all our girls. Im just so darn afraid. Its almost paralyzing. Are all the ddc's like this? It just seems as though Aug ddc is experiencing such a huge number of losses. So much pain, and truthfully, I have tears in my eyes just typing this, Im afraid to comment on any older belly or ultrasound pics, for fear of unknowingly hurting someone who has left.
Last edited by tobi4; January 16th, 2011 at 12:47 PM.
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January 16th, 2011, 11:19 AM
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I'll definitely be praying for them. I was a part of the April DDC for a bit (so were a lot of the ladies here) and it feels like history is repeating itself. A lot of LOs were lost in that DDC, and now in August as well. Great big ((((((HUGS)))))) to them all!
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January 16th, 2011, 12:42 PM
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Sending lots of prayers and thoughts their way.
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January 16th, 2011, 01:00 PM
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Keeping them in my thoughts. I thought it seemed like a lot, too, but I've only ever been in that one. I guess it just seems to go in cycles.
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January 16th, 2011, 01:00 PM
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how sad...So many DDC's have so many losses...I noticed some not as much as others..I think the first few months are the worst in DDC's
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January 16th, 2011, 01:15 PM
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That is very sad... T&P with them.
I was watching it start to happen slowly in the Sept DDC.
I was also watching other ladies tell them its normal to bleed and not to worry. Or tell them things such as, "as long as you are not bleeding and cramping at the same time you will be ok no need to worry".
So I did a post saying how that is so untrue because my first miscarrige I did not cramp one bit and had a almost 8 week loss. And if they feel something is wrong go to the DR and trust their guts and that there is no "normal" when it comes to pregnancy.
Well I ended up getting a PM from one of the members basically saying I was wrong for posting that and the other ladies should feel free to give there advice and she did not think there advice was wrong that telling them they are fine was ok...
The thing is I never said they need to stop telling them anything I just said this is what happen to me and when someone tells you it is "normal" that may be true for them but you should still see your DR.
I just hope everyone is doing better with this subject in the Aug DDC.
Last edited by lindsey2000k; January 16th, 2011 at 01:19 PM.
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January 16th, 2011, 01:23 PM
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Ugh  how sad.... I hate seeing the threads where people are spotting or starting to m/c. I wish none of us had to go through that pain. Praying for them!
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January 16th, 2011, 01:27 PM
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Mega Super Mommy
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My thoughts are with that DDC. It must be such a scary time. I wish that no one had to experience losses.
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January 16th, 2011, 06:03 PM
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I've been on lots of ddc's and I have to say, I've never been in one that has had so many losses as the August DDC. I thought it would slow down too but there are ladies still having losses at 10+wks. Even after having a loss, I don't know what to say except I'm sorry.
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January 16th, 2011, 08:45 PM
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Many prayers for those ladies. August losses are so hard on me since both my babies were August due dates.
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January 17th, 2011, 05:18 AM
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it really IS scary and sad  maybe it is because SO many women joined August DDC that the loss count seems high, but every day almost someone is scared due to a major bleeding event
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