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January 16th, 2011, 03:46 PM
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January 16th, 2011, 03:57 PM
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I have mixed feelings...I've always been pro choice, but at the same time I'd never have an abortion, and I don't think it should be used as birth control...I know some ladies have to make the horrible decision to have one because either their health is bad, or the baby wont live...I don't like thinking of woman going around having abortions just because they are too lazy to use birth control, that makes me sick...I would also rather a woman that uses drugs have an abortion if she wanted than to go through a pregnancy and harm a baby...That of course is just my opinion...I also think later abortions for non medical reasons should be outlawed...I don't think that the plan B is anything like an abortion...If you get it 24 hours after un protected sex, the egg might not even be fertilzed yet...I think it's a better choice than getting pregnant and having an abortion, IMO....I know people feel differently on this subject, and i'm torn and even feel differently now than I did before I had any losses...It just makes me sad to even think about it honestly.
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January 16th, 2011, 04:00 PM
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The main reason I continue to support pro choice as I get older is because most pro life people think it should be illegal even in the cases of rape and incest and if the mother's life is in danger.
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January 16th, 2011, 04:04 PM
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Thanks for the responses.
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January 16th, 2011, 06:06 PM
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I am PRO-LIFE and the reason I am is because I believe life starts at conception. I don't want to cause drama with the issue so that is all I will say.
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January 16th, 2011, 06:17 PM
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It's hard for me. I've always been pro-choice, for reasons I won't go into because, like the title mentions, this isn't a debate. But now that I've lost Drew, abortion pisses me off. I've always wished people would choose adoption rather than abortion... But now I can't even hear about abortion without getting really angry. I feel like my personal experience shouldn't change what I think is acceptable, that I should think about everyone and all the possible situations... It's a lot harder now though than it was before I lost a baby. A living, breathing, in-my-arms baby...
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Jan. 2009: Came off years of BCP and started TTC
March 2010: BFP -- finally!
Oct. 22, 2010: Drew is born, but has to stay in the NICU because of cord complications resulting in oxygen deprivation and brain problems =(
Oct. 27, 2010: I held him in my arms while Daddy, Grandma, Great-Uncle and I sang him to sleep =( Hardest thing I've ever done...
June 14, 2011: Drew's baby brother or sister waved hi to us with a BFP!
June 25, 2011: Natural miscarriage... Can we please catch a break here?
Nov. 2011: 100mg Clomid followed by 2mg Estrogen, Ovidrel trigger, and 200mg progesterone suppositories 2x/day 14 days. BFN.
Dec. 2011: 2nd medicated cycle. BFN.
Jan. 2012: Took a month off to breathe...
Feb. 2012: Same regimen of Clomid and other meds, add IUI. 2 eggs and 8.5 million swimmers. BFN.
March 2012: 75 IU Follistim CD 3-11, follie scan CD 8 showed 6 follies likely to mature. Triggered, IUI on CD 14, 4 million swimmers. BFN.
April 2012: 75 IU Follistim CD 3-10. Scan showed 2 mature follies, 2 almost certain to mature, and two not likely but possible. (All 6 evenly and perfectly spaced out between the left and the right.) Triggered, IUI CD 13 with 5 million swimmers. BFN.
May 2012: 75 IU Follistim starting CD 3. Waiting to O. Timed intercourse. Likely 5 follies to mature.




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January 16th, 2011, 06:51 PM
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I am pro choice and very much feel the same way as Megan does. The Plan B commercial doesn't bother me either, it is NOT abortion, if you ARE pregnant when you take it, it doesn't work. It works in the same way birth control pills do, prevents fertilization but won't abort an already fertilized egg.
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