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January 18th, 2011, 04:07 AM
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Waiting for our Miracle.
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For the ones that don't know. I took a First Reponse digital pregnacy test on Friday and the test came back as yes right away. I took two more later on in the morning after not holding my pee and both of them came back not pregnant. I also had a blood test done on Friday to see if I was pregnant. They didn't do an HCG test just a pregnancy blood test. Pregnancy blood test was negitave. Well what I thought was af showed up on Saturday. This af is so weird. It is acting like it did after my checmical in December. With my loss in December my bleeding was very heavy for couple of days not usual for me and very painful. Well this cycle is just the same. I have to take pain meds to get through the day because of the pain. Now this is where Shanise readings come into play.
I did a paid reading from Shanise. I asked her: Do I have a little bundle settling in my uterus now? She said yes. Then on a free reading on AIP board Jan 7th. I asked her if I would get my BFP and she said no. So I wrote back and said I was confused if I have a little bundle settling in my uterus now why wouldn't she see me getting a BFP. She answered back:
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Thats what i was telling you that it could of just been happening. my pendulum is specific when i asked it could of just been happening i am still get that you are pregnant though i asked again and it said yes just give it a couple of days
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Before Friday I was having some symptoms. My boobs were real sore, I was getting sick to my stomach, real tired and headaches, peeing a lot (which is very unusal for me and pain in my right side (which I got both times I was pregnant before) Now that af has showed all of the symptoms have stopped.
Now here is the question I have for you ladies. Is it possible that I had another Chemical Pergnancy? It still bothers me that the test came up yes right away.
If you made it this far thank you for reading. I am sorry it is so long.
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January 18th, 2011, 05:15 AM
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That does sound like a very early chemical. I had one of those, that happened before I even knew I was pregnant for two days. Usually they will have one or two positive tests and then they go back negative and you get a "period." Your blood test did not confirm a chemical, but it is pretty weird for a preg test (which the digis usually have a limit of about 50, according to the charts...I know I have gotten positives with lower numbers though) to read positive and then not be pregnant. Chances are your levels were high enough on Friday to get that positive and then they started dropping immediately. I am assuming you got the blood test hours after the positive pregnancy test? If so, it is possible it dropped into negative range (I believe that lots of places will consider under 10 a negative, even though it should be under 5 to be completely negative). It is not adding up like I mean for it to, but I know that the levels can cut in half pretty quickly if the loss is impending. I am sorry for you getting your hopes up and having them dashed...that has happened to me WAY too often
BTW: I find it pretty cool that Shanise totally called that happening. You DID have something in your uterus...it just did not produce the results you were hoping for. Which is sad, but she had that reading pretty spot-on.
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January 18th, 2011, 05:34 AM
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I agree it does sound like a chemical. HUGS hun.
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January 18th, 2011, 05:56 AM
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I took the home pregnancy test at 12:30 am and I had them draw the blood at noon so almost 12 hours differance. On Saturday's free readings I ask Shanise if I was going to have any more losses.
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Shanise,
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Thanks Shanise for doing this again for us.
1) Will I get pregnant this cycle?
2) Will I have any more losses?
yes
chemicals - yes
m/c - no
I am wondering if this was the chemical she was talking about. I just think it is weird that all of my symptons has disappeared when af showed up on Saturday.
I love the gift Shanise has. I love how she is right on with what is happening even though the little bundle didn't grow. I am suprised but I am ok with it.
Thanks Ashlee for all of your information. I am sorry all of us have went through what we went through. I wish all of us could get pregnant and stay pregnant.
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January 18th, 2011, 06:19 AM
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I agree that it sounds like a chemical. I'm so sorry this is happening to you!
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January 18th, 2011, 06:19 AM
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Mega Super Mommy
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I agree with the other girls that it could have possibly been a chemical. Huge hugs!
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January 18th, 2011, 06:57 AM
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I am so sorry. I really am I wish that wrong whenever i get a reading like that. I wish it was something i could say or do for you but i know because ive went through it also that nothing will change the way you feel but i am sorry and i am praying for you to get that beautiful bfp
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January 18th, 2011, 07:06 AM
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Thank you ladies. I am surprised that I am ok with it. I think the reason I am ok with it is I didn't really have time to enjoy the fact that I was pregnant. So much was happening last Friday. It also helps to know that there are other women thinking the same thing I am thinking that it was a chemical. I was beginning to think I was going crazy.
Shanise please don't ever feel bad about any of your readings. I love your readings and I love the gift you have.
I am holding out hope that on Saturday when I asked you if I will have anymore losses you said yes a Chemical. I am holding out hope that this past chemical was the one you were talking about.
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January 18th, 2011, 07:17 AM
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i know yall tell me not to feel bad but i cant help it i have a big heart and it will never just be a job to me because i know what yall are feeling and i know how it is going to feel when i have to tell ppl bad news so it was always bother me even if your okay with it i will still feel bad for having to tell you.
and i think it was because i asked again if you would have a chemical or m/c in your life and it said no so i hope that is right
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January 18th, 2011, 07:19 AM
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I have no advice to offer on whether it sounds like a chemical or not, I am new to the whole miscarriage world but just wanted to offer you some hugs and support!
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January 18th, 2011, 07:39 AM
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Shanise, I can tell you have a big heart because you keep doing this for free on this board and the AIP board. I think if you didn't have a big heart you couldn't do what you do. I like reading your readings on this board and the AIP and I can tell when you have to give someone bad news you feel bad about it.
With this lastest Chemical you have actually helped me deal with it.
Shanise,
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and i think it was because i asked again if you would have a chemical or m/c in your life and it said no so i hope that is right
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Thank you for asking this question for me.
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January 18th, 2011, 07:40 AM
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I'm sorry <3 I was upset for a couple of days over a reading too because I got no to a 2011 baby but yes to a 2011 pregnancy so I'm worried that I will miscarry now because it never takes me more than a month to get pregnant
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January 18th, 2011, 08:15 AM
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It very well could of been a chemical pregnancy Stacey...I've never heard of a false positive on a digital. (((hugs)))
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January 18th, 2011, 08:21 AM
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Thanks Megan, You actually were the one that got me to doing a lot of thinking and research on digital's. They have almost 99.9 success rate on being right.
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January 18th, 2011, 08:22 AM
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praying for our rainbow
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January 18th, 2011, 08:49 AM
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They have almost 99.9 success rate on being right.
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Wow I didn't know that.
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January 18th, 2011, 09:25 AM
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I'm sorry <3 I was upset for a couple of days over a reading too because I got no to a 2011 baby but yes to a 2011 pregnancy so I'm worried that I will miscarry now because it never takes me more than a month to get pregnant 
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o is that what you was worried about hunni you are going to give birth in 2012 that why you will get pregnant this year but not give birth this year omg i thought i had told you something like really really bad or something i didnt remember what it is because i get them confused after awhile
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January 18th, 2011, 10:34 AM
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Platinum Supermommy
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It sounds like a chemical. My digi said pregnant when my hcg was only 24 so I bet it was just low. I'm so sorry. I hope you get a bfp this next cycle.
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January 18th, 2011, 11:24 AM
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I am so sorry.
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January 18th, 2011, 06:38 PM
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Awe Stacey, I'm sorry sweetie but it does sound like a chemical... I had that happen a couple times late spring early summer and was even confirmed by my RE's nurse. They both ended up being chemical's and were heavier than a regular for me period, clottier as well (not to be TMI)
I'm really sorry, keep your hope and faith alive! You can get thru this and will have your rainbow in the future
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