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January 18th, 2011, 07:58 AM
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Last edited by MrsAndMommy; January 18th, 2011 at 08:46 AM.
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January 18th, 2011, 08:01 AM
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IAmOneWithSupremeReality
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Are you asking have I ever been wrong. Yes I have esp in the beginning i was horrible at it. and also i dont know if i mention this or not on here but circumstances and sitiuations in your life can change and this is can change your reading because its a simple yes/no so if you get a no to something you can change that but changing what your approach is to what ever you asked.
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January 18th, 2011, 08:08 AM
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Yeah I saw the part about circumstances but I'm still worrying about whether or not I'm "trying hard enough" to change circumstances lol. It just seems like you've been right for EVERYONE and that makes me want to really amend whatever I'm doing that's putting me on the path! I had an extra conversation with my DH about the reading and I'm honestly hoping just KNOWING about it can change it. Can that be? I don't know, I never even used to be a believer in this stuff until I met DH who has a little gift of his own, and now I feel crazy because I feel like I'm obsessing and I totally do not mean to! OY. I think I'm just emotional right now, I'm losing my marbles......
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January 18th, 2011, 08:17 AM
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She was wrong for a few of my questions. (I was told I was pregnant 3 cycles ago, but wasn't. And I know it wasn't a chemical or anything like that). She's also been right for me too. I just take everything with a grain of salt and don't consider it "fact", ya know?
Hoping this doesn't offend anyone!
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January 18th, 2011, 08:32 AM
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IAmOneWithSupremeReality
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That doesnt offend me at all because i always tell people this is only a prediction and it doesnt mean its destined to happen cause like stated above you can change there for causing it to change but also i mean i have been wrong so dont take what i say to literal just take it as something that might happen. dont live your life or change you life based on something i say please. this is why it hurts me sometimes because i dont like to give out bad news but when ppl ask i do it for now on im going to say are you sure you want to know this because when i see people get sad and confused and stuff like this it makes me crying and im crying now just typing this hate gettin so emotional about it but please just forget what i said okay and do you.
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January 18th, 2011, 08:34 AM
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Platinum Supermommy
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Shanise, I wouldn't let it bother you if someone doesn't like their prediction...We as adults should know that just because you tell us something, it doesn't mean that it's going to happen....I think of it as something fun, and yes maybe it gives us some hope, maybe not...Your doing this out of the goodness of your heart for us...If it's something that might bother us, then we shouldn't ask
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January 18th, 2011, 08:43 AM
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I'm sorry, I didn't mean for it to be bad at all. You sound like you're really good at what you do! You didn't really give me *bad* news it's just that it has made me worry, that's all. Don't feel bad, I'm sure I would have been worried anyway. This was my first time getting a reading from anyone and I'm just in a PMS-type easily emotional mood this week, so I've been extra worried. I'm not upset with you or anything! It just seems like you're right a lot and I just wanted to hear from others if you've been wrong since you're obviously really freaking accurate, that's all! Good news or bad news, you have a good gift! Please don't be upset with me, I wasn't trying to hurt your feelings, if anything I just made myself look bad!
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January 18th, 2011, 08:45 AM
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Platinum Supermommy
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Oh and I should add that my post wasn't directed at anyone, it was just in general...I hope I didn't make anyone mad
Try not to worry Tiffany
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January 18th, 2011, 08:47 AM
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Yeah I think it's basically just normal worry anyway Megan, ya know? I mean, I'm trying to get pregnant for the first time since my loss...there are a million things going on in my mind!
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January 18th, 2011, 08:48 AM
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no you didnt make yourself look bad im also in the emotional stage of pms right now so its not ur fault i just get sad sometimes. sorry if i made you feel bad though seriously. but please even though im usually accruate still dont think of what i say as law or fact or anything like that just do what other poster said take it with a grain of salt okay.
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January 18th, 2011, 08:49 AM
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Yes, I understand that...Pregnancy/TTC after a loss is a whole new world...Everyone here understands it...I ment don't worry about your prediction...Like she said, it can change, and she even said she's not always right...I've gotten readings from other people before that were wrong.
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January 18th, 2011, 08:53 AM
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Super Mommy
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 . I have had a few done that are/wereTTC related... I do them for hope and fun :-) as sometimes all you need is a little hope.. but ya gotta think , so many things change in life so quickly . So while I hope the readings give me good news, your own positivity is what will carry you through in the end and bring you to your desired result :-) If that makes any sense.....
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January 18th, 2011, 08:54 AM
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Just wanted to say huge hugs to everyone here
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January 18th, 2011, 08:54 AM
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Originally Posted by shanise.robertson
no you didnt make yourself look bad im also in the emotional stage of pms right now so its not ur fault i just get sad sometimes. sorry if i made you feel bad though seriously. but please even though im usually accruate still dont think of what i say as law or fact or anything like that just do what other poster said take it with a grain of salt okay.
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Well it's weird because I used to be a complete non-believer but my husband has had so many premonitions and he's never able to change them so now not only am I a believer but even more of a worrier! lol I was reading your page about the premonition of the girl getting hurt in the water, have premonitions like that happened to you again? Were you ever able to intervene?
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January 18th, 2011, 08:56 AM
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Shanise - You shouldn't feel bad for the results of your readings. We asked the questions.
Tiffany - Take what you heard as "advice" almost, and not cast in stone. Our actions change events everyday! And no wonder you're scared with your history. Anybody would be. HUGS!! (To all)
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January 18th, 2011, 08:57 AM
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Originally Posted by okiliz
 . I have had a few done that are/wereTTC related... I do them for hope and fun :-) as sometimes all you need is a little hope.. but ya gotta think , so many things change in life so quickly . So while I hope the readings give me good news, your own positivity is what will carry you through in the end and bring you to your desired result :-) If that makes any sense..... 
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See I think that's what it was! I was a dummy and expected all replies to be hunky dorey lol. Is real life hunky dorey? No, not 100%. I'm just out of it lately! Either way, I like to hear it just like gender predictions.
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Originally Posted by mom2moose
Shanise - You shouldn't feel bad for the results of your readings. We asked the questions.
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THAT one is the best sentence yet because it's true! And I asked again and will continue to ask, if the answer isn't to my liking, oh well. Neither is all of life! I didn't want to hear that my baby didn't have a heartbeat either but I needed to know. And you give way more good news than bad!
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January 18th, 2011, 09:02 AM
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And I was in a rush to ask again Saturday lol but I came on too early and then too late!
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January 18th, 2011, 09:19 AM
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IAmOneWithSupremeReality
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was you able to get your question in for todays reading?
Also a premonition is way different then what i am doing. i always have premonitions and other things that come to me. the only reason the pendulum results can change is because it is not a premonition it is just a simple yes/no and what you do can change this. even with a premonition there is nothing i can do to stop something that is meant to happen because even if i did do it it would mess up something else that is suppose to happen have you ever seen the movie the butterfly effect. plus half the time when i do get premonitions it is to late because it is already in effect. Now i can do a reading where i can tell you what i feel and what is coming i think its called a cold reading i can also read auras and right now yours is pink
Pink represents unconditional love, love requiring nothing in return. It is also the color of friendship and conviviality. In the aura it signifies balance between the spiritual and the material. also could mean you have fallen in love or you in love.
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January 18th, 2011, 09:29 AM
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IAmOneWithSupremeReality
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I just seen what you was worried about omg you arent going to give birth this year because you will be due next year. thats y a yes to pregnancy but no to birth not because a m/c
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January 18th, 2011, 10:52 AM
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Originally Posted by shanise.robertson
I just seen what you was worried about omg you arent going to give birth this year because you will be due next year. thats y a yes to pregnancy but no to birth not because a m/c
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LOL I know I know that's why I said you didn't technically give me bad news but the part that had me worried is that it's never taken me more than two months to conceive (we're a little TOO fertile in this family heh) and so that had me worried that I will get pregnant soon and miscarry, and then get pregnant again later or that DH will change his mind and won't TTC until the end of the year. Yeah, now it all sounds :-o to you right lol but my mind is a mile a minute now that we're actually going to TTC. I'm excited about trying but scared as hell about what will happen. Don't mind me, really. You don't want inside my mind, it's confusing here lol.
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Originally Posted by shanise.robertson
was you able to get your question in for todays reading?
Also a premonition is way different then what i am doing. i always have premonitions and other things that come to me. the only reason the pendulum results can change is because it is not a premonition it is just a simple yes/no and what you do can change this. even with a premonition there is nothing i can do to stop something that is meant to happen because even if i did do it it would mess up something else that is suppose to happen have you ever seen the movie the butterfly effect. plus half the time when i do get premonitions it is to late because it is already in effect. Now i can do a reading where i can tell you what i feel and what is coming i think its called a cold reading i can also read auras and right now yours is pink
Pink represents unconditional love, love requiring nothing in return. It is also the color of friendship and conviviality. In the aura it signifies balance between the spiritual and the material. also could mean you have fallen in love or you in love.
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Thanks and yes, I got it in today. It was the first thing I checked! Hehe. I understand now what you mean about premonitions Vs pendulums. Very interesting, I had no idea!
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