[Jessica121706]

Something Missy actually said in shanises thread made me realize that sometimes we over look ourselves so I wanted to make a thread to recongnize everyone...

I want to thank everyone so much! Let me explain a little, I've been on other online communities and never really felt like I fit in when I found out I was pregnant I found jm and loved my april ddc group in my opinion they were extremely welcoming and i really felt a connection there. Before I found out about my baby being sick I have to admit i only talked on my ddc. Since the loss I have met even more great people, and for that I am grateful. Because I made the choice to abort only because of medical I felt like I didn't fit in anywhere, I tried posting in the abortion room but it wasn't right for me, I had a weird way of grieving it took almost a month to absorb. But you ladies took me in and made me feel like family once again. I finially feel like someone out there understands me and gets the fear in me, even DF can't understand this side of me. I love you girls and THANK YOU ALL so much for everything

[Pame£a]

I agree with you about JM, awesome group of women. Over on the stillbirth board, there is a group near the top for those who had a termination for medical reasons. I'm glad you found JM too

[StaceygirlPa]

Jessica, I have to agree with you. I first joined JM when we found out I was pregnant in June. I joined the March DDC group. I lost my mom in March of last year and really felt like I didn't have any where to turn to ask questions about pregnancy. When I joined JM I found the ladies very welcoming and very helpful. When we lost little peanut in July I joined this board and it has been a blessing. This board has helped me through all of my losses and gives me hope that one day Dh and I will be holding our rainbow baby.

[.:Shortcake:.]

I agree with you ladies! And Jessica we welcome everyone here with open arms. We all share a special bond (that I wish we didn't have to iykwim) I have so many ladies on this board that I consider family!

[missy123]

(((Hugs))) I feel like I have a lot to say but can't seem to find the right words right now. I am glad you found the support you needed in all of us. A loss is a loss no matter the circumstances and people should not judge others based on their own opinions unless they have walked in those shoes.

[Shadeauxe]

Definitely a great place. It's refreshing to not have to deal with the drama in the DDC. It can be really annoying in there sometime. In my DDC, there was practically a brawl over the board name (dragonflies). It was so stupid.

I am sorry that Circumstances are what they are, but also had none of this happened, I wouldn't have met anyone in here either.

[TnPhotoMama81]

Originally Posted by missy123

A loss is a loss no matter the circumstances and people should not judge others based on their own opinions unless they have walked in those shoes.

Ditto.

I am glad that you feel welcome and understood here. I really love this board and all the ladies in it. Everyone is so supportive and helpful.