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January 24th, 2011, 03:41 PM
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POAS Queen
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He's been SUCH a turd this weekend. I posted about it in Monday moans, so I'm not going to repeat myself. More the point of this post, is that yesterday and today I have had absolutely BEAUTIFUL EWCM. We BD'd Sunday morning. We *should* BD tonight because tomorrow I'm leaving the house at 6:45am and not coming home until 10:45pm, so we won't get a chance again until Wednesday at lunch. And I like to cover all my bases and at least BD every other day once there's EWCM before a + OPK, then every day once the + hits.
But I do NOT feel like doing anything that seems like a reward. Ugh. Why do we have to fight around O time... STUPID MAN. Lord knows I'm gonna give in, I just hope he's smart and does something nice to apologize, like maybe brings home chocolate or something... I need chocolate, oysters, wine, everything combined to put me in the mood for this!
PS - I know alcohol dehydrates you... Should I lay off the wine now that I'm getting EWCM so I don't dry it up? I've always wondered that, but never thought to ask...
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With us on earth for five short days, with us in our hearts forever.
(Thank you Natasha for this beautiful graphic of Andrew, and to the ladies of the Nov 10 PR who help me in carrying on his memory.)
Jan. 2009: Came off years of BCP and started TTC
March 2010: BFP -- finally!
Oct. 22, 2010: Drew is born, but has to stay in the NICU because of cord complications resulting in oxygen deprivation and brain problems =(
Oct. 27, 2010: I held him in my arms while Daddy, Grandma, Great-Uncle and I sang him to sleep =( Hardest thing I've ever done...
June 14, 2011: Drew's baby brother or sister waved hi to us with a BFP!
June 25, 2011: Natural miscarriage... Can we please catch a break here?
Nov. 2011: 100mg Clomid followed by 2mg Estrogen, Ovidrel trigger, and 200mg progesterone suppositories 2x/day 14 days. BFN.
Dec. 2011: 2nd medicated cycle. BFN.
Jan. 2012: Took a month off to breathe...
Feb. 2012: Same regimen of Clomid and other meds, add IUI. 2 eggs and 8.5 million swimmers. BFN.
March 2012: 75 IU Follistim CD 3-11, follie scan CD 8 showed 6 follies likely to mature. Triggered, IUI on CD 14, 4 million swimmers. BFN.
April 2012: 75 IU Follistim CD 3-10. Scan showed 2 mature follies, 2 almost certain to mature, and two not likely but possible. (All 6 evenly and perfectly spaced out between the left and the right.) Triggered, IUI CD 13 with 5 million swimmers. BFN.
May 2012: 75 IU Follistim starting CD 3. Waiting to O. Timed intercourse. Likely 5 follies to mature.
^^ Click graphic for chart ^^
 
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January 24th, 2011, 03:52 PM
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Platinum Supermommy
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Location: Pennsylvania
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The wine is fine as long as you stay hydrated! Make sure when your not drinking it to drink lots of water and you should be good  I know how it goes with DH's we always seem to fight around O time too. HUGS! What we do to get those spermies 
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January 24th, 2011, 03:56 PM
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Platinum Supermommy
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I'm sorry, what bad timing for a fight? i've btdt, and sometimes it sucks having to give in, when you know you did nothing wrong lol...I hope he gets over his mood soon, and you guys can BD
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January 24th, 2011, 04:00 PM
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Wife/Mommy/Photographer
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I am sorry your husband has been short with you lately. I hate times like that. I hope he starts being nicer and brings you home something awesome 
Also, it always seemed like J and I would get into more squabbles during O time. WHY IS THAT?! Just isn't right.
*egg catchy vibes being sent your way* 
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January 24th, 2011, 04:00 PM
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Mega Super Mommy
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We have the same problem. I *might* be a little more moody during that time
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January 24th, 2011, 04:27 PM
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Mega Super Mommy
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I'm sorry DH is being a jerk. Maybe you should involve a whip in your BDing to get out some aggression
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January 24th, 2011, 04:35 PM
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POAS Queen
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He just texted me to say he's gonna be about 30 mins late getting home from work. I posted on FB earlier about how I'm craving chocolate. Maybe he's being a good boy and putting 2 & 2 together in a way that doesn't make 5.
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With us on earth for five short days, with us in our hearts forever.
(Thank you Natasha for this beautiful graphic of Andrew, and to the ladies of the Nov 10 PR who help me in carrying on his memory.)
Jan. 2009: Came off years of BCP and started TTC
March 2010: BFP -- finally!
Oct. 22, 2010: Drew is born, but has to stay in the NICU because of cord complications resulting in oxygen deprivation and brain problems =(
Oct. 27, 2010: I held him in my arms while Daddy, Grandma, Great-Uncle and I sang him to sleep =( Hardest thing I've ever done...
June 14, 2011: Drew's baby brother or sister waved hi to us with a BFP!
June 25, 2011: Natural miscarriage... Can we please catch a break here?
Nov. 2011: 100mg Clomid followed by 2mg Estrogen, Ovidrel trigger, and 200mg progesterone suppositories 2x/day 14 days. BFN.
Dec. 2011: 2nd medicated cycle. BFN.
Jan. 2012: Took a month off to breathe...
Feb. 2012: Same regimen of Clomid and other meds, add IUI. 2 eggs and 8.5 million swimmers. BFN.
March 2012: 75 IU Follistim CD 3-11, follie scan CD 8 showed 6 follies likely to mature. Triggered, IUI on CD 14, 4 million swimmers. BFN.
April 2012: 75 IU Follistim CD 3-10. Scan showed 2 mature follies, 2 almost certain to mature, and two not likely but possible. (All 6 evenly and perfectly spaced out between the left and the right.) Triggered, IUI CD 13 with 5 million swimmers. BFN.
May 2012: 75 IU Follistim starting CD 3. Waiting to O. Timed intercourse. Likely 5 follies to mature.
^^ Click graphic for chart ^^
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January 24th, 2011, 07:16 PM
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Mega Super Mommy
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Join Date: Jan 2011
Location: AZ
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ugh men can be such pains sometimes!
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January 24th, 2011, 07:46 PM
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Super Mommy
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My hubby says he gets short with me around O time because I make him feel like a machine or like I am using his body :-) .. to which I say if you would not snap at me all the time I might be more loving.. now.. go upstairs and get READY ( in a hormonal snarky tone) .. I hope he cleans up his act !!
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January 24th, 2011, 11:29 PM
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Platinum Supermommy
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i just tell hubby to get over his attitude fast because has a "deposit" to make later, and its not going to be as fun for me if he has a poopy attitude, that usually gets me a smile and some times a laugh. i notice hubby and i tend to argue more around O time as well. maybe we are both just more moody at that time. i hope your hubby made it up to you so you can both have a nice night together.
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January 25th, 2011, 04:50 AM
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Waiting for our Miracle.
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I hope your hubby gets you something special so you don't feel like giving in. I know dh tells me I get a lot moody around o time.
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January 25th, 2011, 06:02 AM
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Platinum Supermommy
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Join Date: Nov 2010
Location: Ohio
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Men!!! Ugh
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January 25th, 2011, 06:28 AM
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It's me
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Join Date: Nov 2010
Location: Massachusetts
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Sorry he's being a jerk. I have to say that your title made me laugh.
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