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January 25th, 2011, 09:27 PM
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Platinum Supermommy
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I've always been able to go back to my old ddc and look through the threads for updates on them. With a loss as late as mine i really did bond with alot of the girls and I worry about them. I don't know what caused it but i haven't checked in for about a week now but i did today and I lost it. i'm truely gone. Maybe it is me being home alone and sara going to bed early which gave me me time i don't know i just miss my baby so much 
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January 25th, 2011, 09:49 PM
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aww hunni im so sorry you feeling this way i wish it was something i could say but i have never been through a late miscarriage. all i can tell you is it will happen for you soon hun and it is okay to grieve but you have to grieve and then try to move past it so you can continue to grow.
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January 26th, 2011, 03:37 AM
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Waiting for our Miracle.
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I am sorry you are feeling that way. I wish there was something I could do to help you. I am sending you lots of hugs.
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January 26th, 2011, 04:36 AM
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Mega Super Mommy
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January 26th, 2011, 04:47 AM
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I'm so sorry hun. I still can't look back on any of my DDC's because it ALWAYS brings me to tears. Allow yourself to cry/grieve. That is your baby you lost. HUGS!
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January 26th, 2011, 05:44 AM
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Super Mommy
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I am sorry HUGS
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January 26th, 2011, 08:39 AM
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Mega Super Mommy
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I'm so sorry
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January 26th, 2011, 09:01 AM
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Loves Kate!
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It bothers me to look back at my DDC. Its hard. So sorry for your loss.
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January 26th, 2011, 09:03 AM
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i am so sorry. it is amazing how certain things will just trigger that "take your breath away" kind of sadness. and it is usually out of nowhere.....
huge hugs.
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January 26th, 2011, 10:19 AM
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I am sorry I know how hard it is to go back and look....even when you shouldnt! ;/
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January 26th, 2011, 11:33 AM
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I'm sorry <3 I had kind of a later miscarriage too, I *thought* I was almost 14 weeks. I got to know everyone pretty well so I do still look at mine too...I've been okay since after they found out the genders. December was difficult because it was basically when everyone was finding out and when I would have.
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January 26th, 2011, 11:41 AM
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(((Hugs))) I have done the same thing to myself in the past. With my first loss I still went back there and posted once in a while to check on the girls and they shunned me like I had a disease that I could give to their babies. That hurt almost as much as losing the baby. ((Hugs)) and more ((Hugs))... Totally understand.
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January 26th, 2011, 01:09 PM
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POAS Queen
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 I'm so sorry you're having a tough day! I go check on my PR still all the time, but there are a lot of posts I won't even open. It's good to cry, get it all out, let yourself feel it. I know it doesn't seem great in the moment, but it's so cleansing. I'm here for you!
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With us on earth for five short days, with us in our hearts forever.
(Thank you Natasha for this beautiful graphic of Andrew, and to the ladies of the Nov 10 PR who help me in carrying on his memory.)
Jan. 2009: Came off years of BCP and started TTC
March 2010: BFP -- finally!
Oct. 22, 2010: Drew is born, but has to stay in the NICU because of cord complications resulting in oxygen deprivation and brain problems =(
Oct. 27, 2010: I held him in my arms while Daddy, Grandma, Great-Uncle and I sang him to sleep =( Hardest thing I've ever done...
June 14, 2011: Drew's baby brother or sister waved hi to us with a BFP!
June 25, 2011: Natural miscarriage... Can we please catch a break here?
Nov. 2011: 100mg Clomid followed by 2mg Estrogen, Ovidrel trigger, and 200mg progesterone suppositories 2x/day 14 days. BFN.
Dec. 2011: 2nd medicated cycle. BFN.
Jan. 2012: Took a month off to breathe...
Feb. 2012: Same regimen of Clomid and other meds, add IUI. 2 eggs and 8.5 million swimmers. BFN.
March 2012: 75 IU Follistim CD 3-11, follie scan CD 8 showed 6 follies likely to mature. Triggered, IUI on CD 14, 4 million swimmers. BFN.
April 2012: 75 IU Follistim CD 3-10. Scan showed 2 mature follies, 2 almost certain to mature, and two not likely but possible. (All 6 evenly and perfectly spaced out between the left and the right.) Triggered, IUI CD 13 with 5 million swimmers. BFN.
May 2012: 75 IU Follistim starting CD 3. Waiting to O. Timed intercourse. Likely 5 follies to mature.
^^ Click graphic for chart ^^
 
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January 27th, 2011, 10:39 AM
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January 27th, 2011, 10:42 AM
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It's me
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Have some unicorn meat. It's full of sparkles.
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January 27th, 2011, 11:06 AM
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Mega Super Mommy
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 I am sorry we made you sad.... I have always had a policy of NEVER going back to a DDC, it hurts too much...
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January 27th, 2011, 11:36 AM
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Platinum Supermommy
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Aww hun its not that you all made me sad i am sooo very happy for you all. i think it is just the reminder of where i would be now
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January 27th, 2011, 12:11 PM
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