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January 28th, 2011, 06:05 AM
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Well I went back to the ob yesterday to have an ultrasound to measure the cyst again. It has gotten bigger not smaller. He called it a dermoid cyst (?). He said the oonly real way to get rid of it is to have a laperoscopy (?). It will be an outpatient procedure that will only last thirty minutes to an hour. I am frustrated. I was so hoping for good news at this appointment. Part of me was even hoping they would say hey there is a baby in there! but nope! Hopefully I will have the surgery in the next couple of weeks. I am sad because I was really hoping for a bfp this cycle so that is off the table for this cycle and probably the next cycle as well. He said that the cyst can cause problems during pregnancy and if I were to have surgery while I was pregnant then there is a high chance that I could have another m/c which I definately do not want that to happen. I was reading last night that this particular cyst can cause a m/c and can affect you getting pregnant. The doctor said having it removed will definately help us and that the other ovary looks extremely healthy and he could see healthy follicles. So I have high hope for the cycle after the cycle. Sorry for the rambling. I am trying to see some good in this. (Side note: I have never had surgery before so it scares me a little.)
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January 28th, 2011, 06:08 AM
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Mega Super Mommy
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I'm so sorry that it turned out this way  I know waiting to TTC is so frustrating. I hope that the surgery goes perfectly and you have your BFP in a couple months! 
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January 28th, 2011, 06:16 AM
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I hope the surgery goes well and you end up pregnant soon. You must be very frustrated with having to wait, I am a very impatient person. ((Hugs))
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January 28th, 2011, 06:17 AM
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Thanks ladies! Yep Missy! I am so frustrated that we have to wait and put things on hold.
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January 28th, 2011, 07:05 AM
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I had an ovarian cyst while pregnant for Brock and it was huge! I was supposed to have it removed laproscopicly, but I also needed my gull bladder removed and appendix so I had major surgery. Anyway, all went well. Surgery isn't to bad. But I have what my nurse called beauty queen syndrom...I cry after surgery..about everything lol
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January 28th, 2011, 07:10 AM
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Definitely sounds frustrating, but also could be good news. Since they can remove it and it's a problem causer, maybe you'll be problem free after that.
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January 28th, 2011, 07:14 AM
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Hugs! I am sorry that you have a cyst but hopefully they get it removed quickly and that is all you need to get your sticky BFP!
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January 28th, 2011, 07:17 AM
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I'm sorry that you have to wait ttc. I've not had that kind of surgery but have gone under in the past and it's not bad.
I hope you get your bfp when you get the green light hun. hugs
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January 28th, 2011, 07:19 AM
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Thank you ladies for your support!!! I just talked to the surgery coordinator just now. I am having the surgery this upcoming Thursday. I am glad I get to just get it over with!
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January 28th, 2011, 07:22 AM
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Mega Super Mommy
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that's great that they are getting you in so quickly!
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January 28th, 2011, 07:22 AM
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I hope you get your BFP in a couple months once you are all healed from the surgery.
The only surgery I have really had is my csection but I think that is a lot worse than what you will have done. I know how scary it is to think about though Please KUP. I am sure everything will go just fine.
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January 28th, 2011, 07:23 AM
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Sorry about having to wait. Hoefully by having the cyst removed you will get your BFP fast. Happy they could get you in for your surgery fast.
Last edited by StaceygirlPa; January 28th, 2011 at 07:35 AM.
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January 28th, 2011, 07:26 AM
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Yay for getting you in that quickly. The surgery/recovery from a lap isn't bad. I've had three and will have my 4th on the 15th. If you have any questions please feel free to ask here or PM me.
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January 28th, 2011, 04:17 PM
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glad you are getting it taken care of so quickly!!
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January 28th, 2011, 05:23 PM
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I'm sorry it was bad news But like PP(s?) have said, at least now there's a fixable problem that, when taken care of, will hopefully increase your chances of getting pregnant! Sorry it pushes your schedule back though, waiting freakin' sucks.
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(Thank you Natasha for this beautiful graphic of Andrew, and to the ladies of the Nov 10 PR who help me in carrying on his memory.)
Jan. 2009: Came off years of BCP and started TTC
March 2010: BFP -- finally!
Oct. 22, 2010: Drew is born, but has to stay in the NICU because of cord complications resulting in oxygen deprivation and brain problems =(
Oct. 27, 2010: I held him in my arms while Daddy, Grandma, Great-Uncle and I sang him to sleep =( Hardest thing I've ever done...
June 14, 2011: Drew's baby brother or sister waved hi to us with a BFP!
June 25, 2011: Natural miscarriage... Can we please catch a break here?
Nov. 2011: 100mg Clomid followed by 2mg Estrogen, Ovidrel trigger, and 200mg progesterone suppositories 2x/day 14 days. BFN.
Dec. 2011: 2nd medicated cycle. BFN.
Jan. 2012: Took a month off to breathe...
Feb. 2012: Same regimen of Clomid and other meds, add IUI. 2 eggs and 8.5 million swimmers. BFN.
March 2012: 75 IU Follistim CD 3-11, follie scan CD 8 showed 6 follies likely to mature. Triggered, IUI on CD 14, 4 million swimmers. BFN.
April 2012: 75 IU Follistim CD 3-10. Scan showed 2 mature follies, 2 almost certain to mature, and two not likely but possible. (All 6 evenly and perfectly spaced out between the left and the right.) Triggered, IUI CD 13 with 5 million swimmers. BFN.
May 2012: 75 IU Follistim starting CD 3. Waiting to O. Timed intercourse. Likely 5 follies to mature.
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January 28th, 2011, 07:16 PM
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Thanks ladies so much!!! Paige I will let you know oif I have any questions!
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January 28th, 2011, 07:27 PM
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Mega Super Mommy
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I know it's scary, but this is a good thing. Get everything healthy down there so you can get your sticky bean.
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January 29th, 2011, 07:17 AM
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I'm so sorry you didn't get good news. I hope the surgery goes well and you get your sticky bfp in no time!
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January 29th, 2011, 09:09 AM
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Mega Super Mommy
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I'm sorry about the surgery and having to wait, but it looks like overall you have a good chance of removing a problem and going on to get your bfp. I hope your surgery goes smoothly!
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